With regard to Nora's departure, during the May 4th Movement, the famous writer Lu Xun once wrote Nora after Leaving. He said, "Nora will either come back or degenerate after running away from home." Why did Mr. Lu Xun say this? Nora can't live without a man? First, let's look at the reason why Nora left. She married her husband Haier Mao and had children. They lived together for eight years. In these eight years, they have been a very harmonious and loving couple. Haier Mao loves Nora, and Nora loves Haier Mao. Nora even feels very happy. But Haier Mao's love is hypocritical and autocratic. Haier Mao is a man with the highest reputation. In his eyes, nothing is more important than reputation, including his love for Nora. Although he usually calls Nora my dear bird and sparrow, he always regards Nora as a doll, which can be appreciated when needed and thrown away when not needed. Nora in the play points out everywhere that she is an immature child, and I think her love is a man with absolute dependence. She used to think that her husband was her best support. When the conflict in the play intensified, she discovered that her husband, whom she had always loved deeply, was such a selfish, hypocritical and cold person, and she was deeply aware of her status as a doll and vassal at home. I used to be my father's doll daughter, but now I'm my husband's doll wife, only from a small doll to a big doll. Therefore, all my hopes for a better life in the future were dashed, and I decided to run away anyway. On the other hand, the problem of Haier Mao and Nora is that they have different values and cannot communicate and understand each other.

Nora's departure represents her awakening to women. At this point, I absolutely agree that she should leave Helmut. At least, she won a sigh of relief for women and even felt happy. But it is a pity that Nora left too late. She should have left eight years ago. She should get rid of her father's control and consciously strive for the status of women. Indeed, if Nora had left eight years ago, perhaps there would not be today's tragedy. For Nora's departure, Zhang Ailing has a more radical view. After leaving, Nora can only be a man's doll, just moving from the first floor to the second floor of the house, and still coming down when eating. Perhaps, with Nora's personality, it is impossible to find a job to support herself after leaving, because she is used to obedience and has no opinion in her mind. What I want to say now is, should Nora run away when she has children after marriage?

First of all, I think as a mother of three children, she has no right to run away. The child is innocent. It's selfish to abandon a child irresponsibly. You know, a child without a mother is as poor as an abandoned kitten or puppy. Besides, there is nothing wrong with the child, but I didn't choose the right time to reincarnate. Therefore, as a mother, Nora can't escape because of emotion and reason, and can't just care about herself. Here, I think Nora is very sad, and being Nora's child is even more sad. As long as Nora can think for a moment, how will the children live after she leaves, and who will take care of them when she is sick? Although there are nannies, can nannies replace mothers? Can the affection of blood thicker than water disappear with running away? So, as a mother, I don't think Nora can leave so impulsively and angrily. Secondly, as a wife, the husband has put down his pride and self-esteem and begged himself to stay. He just didn't kneel down. From a moral and ethical point of view, he shouldn't run away. A happy marriage needs to be established by both parties. Although the husband is wrong, he will make mistakes. As long as it is an individual, it will make mistakes. The most important thing is to know the mistakes and correct them. If Nora can forgive Haier Mao and give him a chance to turn over a new leaf, maybe the husband and wife can start a new life. But Nora didn't do this. She still insisted on leaving, leaving Helmut and leaving the children.