1. Most people only lose their temper with people who have a level of safety, because within that level of safety, you subconsciously know that the other person will not leave you. Therefore, fooling around is also a kind of dependence.
2. On the day you left, I decided not to shed tears and held my eyes open against the wind without blinking.
3. There are some things that we know are wrong, but we still have to persist because we are not willing to give up; there are some people that we know that we love, but we have to give up because there is no ending; sometimes, We know there is no way, but we still move forward because we are used to it.
4. Who takes whom seriously, and who feels sorry for whom.
5. The older you get, the more you like to drink a little wine, because there are things in your heart that are increasingly difficult to express. The longer I work overtime, the more I like to go alone because I want to know how long I can endure it. At first we were traveling in a group, but later we all needed to be alone. We’ve all had those moments when we wanted anyone to text us, when we picked up the phone but didn’t know who to call. But only after this period can there be memories and jokes.
6. When the tears flow down, you realize that separation is also another kind of understanding.
7. Before your body rises, your thoughts will regress. When you succeed, you should remember what you said when you left. Just because of the former master Ding Ning, the stars fell in the autumn wind in Wuzhangyuan. ---"The Romance of the Three Kingdoms"
8. The best sense of security is to have money.
9. In love, emotionally, when you want to conquer the other person, you have actually been conquered by the other person to a certain extent. First is the other person's attraction to you, and then is your desire to conquer the other person.
10. If you clearly know the ending of this story, you can either choose to tell it or pretend not to know. Don’t hesitate to speak. Sometimes it hurts more to remain silent than to confess.
11. I don’t know how long the sky is or how long the earth is? But I know that on the road of love, everyone longs for eternity.
12. I stood in the crowd, feeling so sad that I felt like I was drowning. My tears dripped down in large numbers, and fell on the red carpet where they walked hand in hand.
13. Friends always protect you from the wind and rain. If you bear the wind and snow in the distance and I am unable to do anything, I will also pray to let the wind and snow fall on me.
14. Some encounters between people are like meteors, which burst out with enviable sparks in an instant, but are destined to just pass by in a hurry.
15. People only have one punch, don’t think too big. Many people are busy every day and accomplish nothing because they pay too much attention to the minutiae. Rice can be used to feed the stomach, and sand can be used to build a house, but if the two are mixed together, they are worthless. If you are a pure person, you can do things happily.
16. The space formed by singing allows the years to come and go freely, so it still protects the face of the person who has never changed and a huge and unending hatred.
17. There are always some sentences that will be scarred by drops of ink; there is always a person who will stand in the memory forever.
18. Giving up is not that simple. Love is a gamble. Some people win and come back richly, while some lose and lose everything. The more bets you place, the more unwilling you will be. Gaining nothing, being able to pick up and let go is not something that everyone can do. This requires a determined mind and great wisdom. ---Tianyi Youfeng's "Phoenix Prisoner"
19. I can withstand loneliness and loneliness, but I can't withstand your silence beside me. ---Xia Qixi's "My and Your Book of Laughter and Forgetting: Blue Balloon and Su Xia"
20. What speed should I use to meet you. ---"5 Centimeters Per Second"
21. There is a kind of feeling called fulfillment, and there is a kind of leaving called missing. When missing and fulfillment finally become a dream, whose tears shine brightly on whose smile?
22. Sometimes you think the sky is falling, but in fact you are standing crookedly. --- Jimmy's "Jimmy Comics"
23. When the fish takes the bait, it is because the fish falls in love with the fisherman and is willing to use its life to make the fisherman smile.
24. I stood for too long and talked for too long. I’m tired. Why don’t you understand? I’ve written too much, I’ve written for too long, and I’m tired. How come you still can’t understand?
25. If one day, you begin to regret giving up on me, please remember that I never wanted to teach you how to cherish by leaving.
26. You don’t know how sad I feel at certain moments.
27. When you truly love something, you will find how fragile and powerless language is.
28. If waiting can bring a miracle, I would rather wait, even for a year, or for a lifetime! Suitable words to say good night: Be pure and do things happily
1. Work hard to improve yourself. People who are poor and weak often tend to have a glassy heart, and they will become hairy when they are touched, for fear that they will be ignored. Only when you are financially and mentally independent will you be more confident and less aggressive.
2. Because we are afraid of losing someone, we always dig deep into our hearts and souls, so we don’t dare to refuse, so we work hard to please in every possible way. In fact, you don’t need to make everyone like you. Recognize that you are in the hearts of others. It's not that important and you'll be happier.
3. Even if the person you care about says nothing, you still worry about the emotions behind him. Because you care, small things are important, just like when your loved one sighs, a hurricane blows in your heart.
4. Life is always so busy. In order to get something and use it, we always waste our strength in vain. In fact, why should we be so busy but unable to do the things we should do and are willing to do?
5. They all say that you don’t need to lose until you know how to cherish, but the loss after cherishing is the most important thing. pain.
6. Don’t hurt a slow-warming person easily. They are often more persistent in their feelings. The slower you start a relationship, the deeper your inner involvement will be. The deepest love often appears with a cold face. I don't dare to start easily because I'm afraid that if I leave one day, I won't be able to bear the pain.
7. When you miss the past, no one in the past has time to wait for you.
8. Sensitive people tend to be insecure and have excessive low self-esteem. When encountering something, I often put myself in the shoes of others, for fear that my words and deeds will make others unhappy. In fact, the only person who is unhappy is often myself. He is never willing to take the initiative to deal with others, but he will warmly welcome and cherish everyone who takes the initiative to show kindness to him. And the arrogant and indifferent people we usually see who seem unapproachable are usually this type of people.
9. Because we are afraid of losing someone, we always dig deep into our hearts and souls, so we don’t dare to refuse, so we work hard to please in every possible way. In fact, you don’t need to make everyone like you. Recognize that you are in the hearts of others. It's not that important and you'll be happier.
10. Time always saves the person who is best to you until the end. After all, like is like a gust of wind, but love is a long stream.
11. If one day, you begin to regret giving up on me, please remember that I never wanted to teach you how to cherish by leaving.
12. Feelings should not be a person's monologue. If he never gets involved, why should you sing love songs for him anymore. Don't guard a tree that won't bloom, and don't wait for a person who won't come back. You know, no matter how hard you persist on some things, it will be in vain.
13. As long as you keep working hard, one day you will live the way you want most.
14. The best sense of security is money.
15. It’s been a long time since I felt the joy of running to meet someone with small steps.
16. You will find that after you have been strong alone for a long time, you will feel inexplicably warm when you meet others with a little care, mistakenly thinking that it is love, and then you will try your best to treat others better, but you will not be disappointed. When I was young, I didn’t even know what it meant to be sentimental.
17. People only have one punch, don’t think too big about it. Many people are busy every day and accomplish nothing because they pay too much attention to the minutiae. Rice can be used to feed the stomach, and sand can be used to build a house, but if the two are mixed together, they are worthless. If you are a pure person, you can do things happily.
18. There is a piece of clothing in every girl’s wardrobe: I used to buy it because I was so poor, but now I think it is ugly.
19. There are many people who silently like you in the circle of friends, but too few people who really stand up and say a word for you.
20. The most beautiful confession is: I don’t mind your past, but I am willing to participate in your future.
21. What a coincidence, the person you like also likes someone else.
22. Don’t be so nice to me. You are so nice to me. If one day you treat me badly, I will be very sad.
23. The older you get, the more you like to drink a little wine, because there are things in your heart that are increasingly difficult to express. The longer I work overtime, the more I like to go alone because I want to know how long I can endure it. At first we were traveling in a group, but later we all needed to be alone. We’ve all had those moments when we wanted anyone to text us, when we picked up the phone but didn’t know who to call. But only after this period can there be memories and jokes.
24. You have to get used to anyone being hot or cold, and you have to be indifferent to anyone drifting away.
25. What a love that is not accepted requires is not sadness, but time, a period of time that can be used to forget. A deeply wounded heart needs not sympathy, but understanding.
26. When you encounter something that cannot be solved, ask your children. The opinions that the children blurt out are often the most accurate and practical answers.
27. If one day I die, please don’t get close to my body, because I no longer have the strength to stretch out my hand to wipe away your tears.
28. Most people only lose their temper towards people who have a level of safety, because within that level of safety, you subconsciously know that the other person will not leave you. Therefore, fooling around is also a kind of dependence.
29. If you have a desire for someone, that is called liking. If you hold back your desire for someone, that is called love.
30. People always learn to grow through stumbling. When you meet the wrong person, I want you to be grateful and know how to love when you meet the right person. Life is long, love is a knot, life is a knot, if you can't untie the knot, then tie it with a beautiful flower. In life and work, only by keeping your eyes low and your hands high can you have peace of mind
1. Happiness is to find a warm person to spend your whole life.
2. After the pain has passed, you will no longer feel the pain, and you will only have an indifferent heart.
3. There is nothing that can’t be overcome, it’s just that you can never go back.
4. You don’t need to tell everyone how you survived those difficult days, but one day you have to shout loudly to the world: I have successfully passed through the gloomy days in life. time.
5. Everyone will go through a period of gritted teeth and persistence. During that hard time, you fell and he got through it, so he became your role model. There is no difference between people. The biggest difference lies in the ability to endure hardship. There are only two kinds of people in this world, one is on the stage to listen to applause, and the other is responsible for applauding. If you have endured hardship, you are strong. Either listen to the applause of others or applaud yourself.
6. Only by keeping your eyes low and your hands high can you have peace of mind when doing things. ——Sanmao
7. You are an adult and you have to have certain requirements for yourself. Don’t be too willful. It’s okay to be weak occasionally, but most of the time you have to be sensible and don’t be chaotic. Even if you lose your temper, don't always say that others have disappointed you. No one in this world is obligated to fulfill your expectations. Everyone has grown up like this, so you must be fine too.
8. Persistence and strength are not for others to see, but to be worthy of your own infatuation with your dreams. When you stand at a high point, you must be humble and prudent. When you fall into a low point, you will not give up on yourself. Only then will you know how to think more deeply and gain the strength to make progress. With such a spiritual height in life, why should we be afraid of the impermanence of worldly affairs.
9. We like others to love us, listen to us, accept our opinions, and obey our orders. We like others to have the same ideas, thoughts, preferences and steps as us. If he refuses, we will do everything possible to reform him; if he still refuses, we will do everything possible to suppress him; if he still refuses, we will do everything possible to eliminate him. In fact, as a human being, you have your own dignity and value. This is a right given by God that no one can take away. ——Xing Linzi
10. Sometimes we are unhappy because we care too much about other people’s feelings. A word of criticism or a trivial matter will always bother us in our hearts, allowing the outside world to control our mood. Most of the time, what others said or did may have been forgotten long ago, but we are still tormenting ourselves. Life is not easy, and it has been a bumpy journey, so there is no need to repeatedly jump into traps set by others unintentionally. Live a little longer and show yourself, many people and things have nothing to do with you.
11. Compared with science, literature is indeed of little use, but perhaps the greatest use of literature is that it is useless. The same is true for education. The so-called scores, academic qualifications, and even knowledge are not the essence of education. The essence of education is: one tree shakes another tree, one cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul. ——Mo Yan
12. Time passes quietly. Some people in the world feel life is heavy because they are busy, while some people live depressed because they are idle. ——Lu Yao "The Ordinary World"
13. If the other person doesn't reply to your message, don't wait. If your birthday is missing the blessings of the most important person, don't comfort yourself that he forgot because he was busy. Well, we promised to be lifelong friends, but later we barely even exchanged greetings. Don’t lie to yourself with the theory that true friends don’t need constant contact. My dear, don't be stupid, he doesn't think you are that important. There is no such thing as forgetting in this world, only not wanting to remember at all. ——Zhang Haochen
14. Do you think that treating anyone sincerely can be exchanged for everyone being treated sincerely? You try your best not to make anyone sad, but you find that you are always the one who gets hurt in the end. After going through some things, I realized that I am really stupid. If you really love you, please cherish it. If you don't love you, please stay away.
15. If two people love each other, no matter how long it takes, if they break up one day, please don’t resent each other, but thank each other for giving you a good time. Some people say that the other person doesn't actually love them, but just used and deceived them. Even so, do not resent, but despise. Resentment is a strong emotion. The important principle in life is to save emotion. Contempt is not to waste emotion on people who are not worthy of it. ——Zhou Guoping
16. The reason why first love is easy to die prematurely is because when you can love, you don’t know how to love. You think you have given the whole world to the other person, but in the end you realize that the other person may not want you. , because they cannot control themselves well, the negative factors that arise become a weapon to hurt each other. I thought I knew what the other person wanted, but I found out later. I just thought I knew everything from my own perspective.
17. It’s strange, sometimes you know that this person is not very good, or even a bastard, but you still continue this friendship and love, and it’s not up to you to advance or retreat.
If you are lucky enough to end this relationship, when you look back, you will feel that it was not friendship or love, but more like a fate, just like the teacher assigned you a bad deskmate.
18. I think it is very important for two people to talk together when it comes to love. He can always pick up the point you throw at him and throw another one back. There is a reason for it, just like cross talk. You are still laughing during the process. You can be yourself without pretending. I think the two people who can joke around and cross paths with each other are so happy. I think this kind of tacit understanding is love.
19. Many times, a person's change begins with the arrival or departure of another person.
20. Heaven will never stop people’s wishes, so they make the peasant meet the gentleman. Mottoes for life and work
Mottos for life and work
1. As a human being, you must rely on two rituals to govern the world, and three laws to rule the country. The so-called second etiquette is: being polite and speaking reasonably; the so-called three methods are: thoughts, opinions, and practices.
2. Forgive others’ mistakes, improve your own shortcomings, retain sincere love, and pursue a better life. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself, to condemn others is to treat yourself badly!
3. Pay equal attention to knowledge and morality, pay equal attention to theory and practice, pay equal attention to static and dynamic, pay equal attention to intelligence and ability, pay equal attention to humanities and science and technology, pay equal attention to love and majesty, pay equal attention to doing things and being a person!
4. Be respectful to your parents, be kind to your children, be generous to your relatives and friends, and be polite to the public. We should treat family ties with a considerate heart; we should treat friendships with a bonded heart!
5. If a person slips, he or she may stand up immediately; if a person breaks his trust, it will never be recovered. Reputation is more important than property. No matter how much property a person has, he can never wash away the stain on his conscience caused by a broken promise!
6. It is best not to do business with acquaintances. Some people may wonder, it is said that it is easier to do things if you have more acquaintances, so why are you afraid of acquaintances? This is the result of practical experience.
7. It’s hard to be a person and hard to do things. In the face of thousands of difficulties and obstacles, we must improve ourselves. If something is forced, you should dare to say no; if it is a legitimate interest, you should be merciful; sometimes you even have to be a bit aggressive, and you have to be thick-skinned sometimes, and you have to be tough-headed sometimes.
8. The most important thing in life is personality. The connotation of personality includes knowledge, emotion and intention. Zhi is perception, knowledge, and wisdom; Qing is emotion, emotion, and sentiment; Yi is idea, consciousness, and will.
9. As a human being, you must know how to repay four kinds of kindness: one, the kindness of raising all things; the second, the kindness of parents who support and care for them; the third, the kindness of repaying the teacher for improving their intelligence; the fourth, the kindness of husband and wife taking care of each other!
10. Birds roost when there are trees, and fly when trees fall; fish live when there is water, and die when the water dries up; flowers bloom when there is spring, and wither when spring goes; people stand when they have faith, and they lose faith. Then lose. Integrity is the foundation of life!
11. Understand that self-esteem reflects self-cultivation, respecting others reflects tolerance and generosity, and maintaining dignity reflects noble personality. Respecting yourself, respecting others, and maintaining dignity are the three important pivots in the balance of life!
12. Be dedicated in doing things and be generous in life. You can work part-time, but you can only work full-time. Live a clean life, do things with heart, don’t seek perfect people, just seek perfect things!
13. Don’t blush when things don’t go your way. Let's talk about it now, it's better to deal with it after sleeping. In other words, there is no fixed number of points. I just advise you not to speak too harshly, lest you slap yourself in the face.
14. Life is long but short, and the key is just a few steps. In the jungle of human nature, there are many benefits and temptations in the workplace. When you are mature, you should not be afraid of too much. You should think twice about everything. Don't be afraid of ten thousand, just be afraid of the unexpected. Once you reach out to the wrong person, get into the wrong line, or do the wrong thing, your reputation, career, and image will all be in danger. Therefore, one must be careful.
15. Full of energy, with upturned corners of the mouth. Hide pain, sorrow and disappointment behind a smile. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.
16. Be gentle but not cowardly, quiet but not pretentious, beautiful but not coquettish, seeking differences but not strange, virtuous but not timid, passionate but not frivolous, self-loving but not narcissistic, smart but not suspicious!
17. Be cautious but not obedient, kind but not cowardly, sophisticated but not hasty, steady but not indecisive, honest but not hypocritical, loyal but not stupid, self-effacing but not inferior, confident but not arrogant, resolute but not stubborn, decisive but not rash !
18. Do things openly and aboveboard, don’t just please others, don’t be emotional, say what you have to face, don’t whisper behind your back.
19. You must be tolerant towards villains, take a step back and the world is vast. If you really can’t give them your own space. Adults need to be tolerant and not take worldly things to heart. If you offend a villain, you will get into trouble. Most villains in the world cannot afford to offend you.
20. In a sea of ??people, if we don’t want to be isolated, we must learn how to get along with others. The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. You are not required to like everyone, but at the same time, there is no best person in the world. Harmony is the most valuable thing, so we need to leave steps for each other and give each other face.
21. The honest person wins, the diligent person wins, the humble person wins, the benevolent person wins, the impartial person wins, the honest person wins, the loyal person wins, the trustworthy person wins, and the harmonious person wins.
22. Be firm but not stubborn, lively but not frivolous, brave but not reckless, calm but not indecisive, alert but not suspicious, bold but not rude, honest but not ignorant, tolerant but not weak, Be cautious but not timid, confident but not arrogant, self-effacing but not inferior, self-loving but not arrogant.
23. Treat your parents with filial piety, treat your teachers with respect, treat yourself with self-discipline, and treat others with care. Be down-to-earth in your work and be honest and trustworthy!
24. A person must have five things: a strong body; a legitimate occupation; superb skills; rich knowledge; and a passion for loving others fairly!
25. It is absolutely impossible to pull out teeth from a tiger’s mouth when Tai Sui disturbs his head. But if Tai Sui and the tiger want your life, will you still stand still? To pull it out or not?
26. Only by finding ways to get to know more people and making these people your friends is the real social policy in life. Have an attitude of reporting losses when encountering problems, and be united with those who have different opinions or oppose you, have prejudices, and have said bad things about you.
27. The waves of the sea are blown by the wind, and the waves of life are blown by people. As a person, you should be proactive, challenge life, perfect your personality, and make your true love eternal!
28. As a person, you must be consistent both inside and outside, and when you do things, you must know what you do; when you speak, your words and deeds must be consistent, and your behavior must be consistent inside and outside;
29. If you lack kindness in life, there will be Hongmen Banquet and there will be unwarranted ones. Lack of kindness in life means lack of trust, lack of harmony, and lack of living in harmony. If the land is not thick, it cannot bear the mountains and rivers; if the people's hearts are not thick, it cannot hold moral friendship.
30. Three things to be a good person: First, be clear about grudges and grudges, dare to act, dare to fight, and dare to fight. Second, we must have a broad vision, an open mind, and a peaceful mind. Third, we must give people joy, hope, confidence, and convenience!
31. You need tolerance when you get along, sincerity when you fall in love, communication when you quarrel, company when you are lonely, comfort when you are sad, calmness when you are angry, and sharing when you are happy.
32. When dealing with people, you must be able to bend and stretch, be square or round, be generous and harmonious on the outside, and sharp-edged on the inside. The two complement each other and are indispensable.
33. Things must be used to be valuable; people must be used to be useful. You must do your best when doing things, and you must do your duty as a human being!
34. Persist in saying good things about others behind their backs, and don’t worry that the good things won’t reach the ears of the person involved. Do not listen, spread or believe gossip. Make it a rule not to talk behind someone's back unless you say something nice.
35. Tolerating and helping others are good ways to get along with others; knowing kindness and repaying kindness are the virtues pursued by personality; generosity and integrity are the foundation of life and doing things.
36. Discussing matters as they arise is the principle of employing people; being reasonable and sensible is the principle of conducting oneself in society; honor, disgrace and dignity are the principle of making friends; being fearless of life and death is the principle of being a human being.
37. When doing things, you must do good things, do things well, and do useful things; when you are a person, you must be a good person, be a good person, and be an excellent person. When doing things, we should be diligent in our work and strive for excellence in results; in life, we should be noble in our beliefs and self-disciplined in our actions.
38. It is better to be a valuable person than a valuable person; it is better to be an efficient person than a busy person. People can't just live in the past, but also live happily in the future.
39. The appearance is not annoying. If it is not good, make yourself talented; if you have no talent, then always smile.
40. There are confusions in life and difficulties in doing things. When faced with difficult obstacles, strong willpower alone is not enough, nor is it possible to push through. Solving problems relies on the brain. The brain generates thinking, allows thinking to be powerful, and solves problems easily in unexpected places.
41. Don’t be confused about big things, don’t let small things leak out, pick them up when you have to, and put them down when you have to put them down. As a person, you must understand that being able to take up is a kind of courage, and being able to let go is a kind of wisdom!
42. Give more to others and ask less from others; believe more in others and less in yourself; don’t think so well of yourself and think so bad of others, as if the truth lies within you. in hand. When you see the shortcomings of others, you should also see the strengths of others, and when you see your own strengths, you should also see the weaknesses.
43. A true hero, why should he be short of breath? Only by starting well and finishing well can he be invincible. Forbearance can protect one's life, and it can accomplish things. Forbearance is great wisdom, great courage, and even greater blessing. Tolerance is thick, tolerant is dark, to endure villains, to endure powerful people, to endure things that are unbearable in the world, to not be a person of your temperament, to achieve things that are difficult for ordinary people.
44. When people give me comfort, I return their enthusiasm; when people give me kindness, I return their respect; when people give me tolerance, I return their sincerity; when people give me self-esteem, I return their happiness!
45. Speech should be reserved and avoid being too explicit; attitude should be tactful and avoid being too direct; dealing with things should be smooth and avoid being too true; conduct should be profound and avoid being too harsh.
46. It is better to be slow in doing things than to be too hasty and make mistakes; it is better to be stupid in life than to be too clever and ruin things.
You can fail in doing things, but you can't fail in life; you can fail in the past, but you can't fail in the future!
47. If you don’t seek fame in vain, the sarcasm will disappear; if you do more practical things, honor will come unexpectedly. A person must be free, independent, and self-reliant, and a person should not be egotistical, arrogant, or conceited!
48. Introverted but not inferior, polite but not vulgar, stubborn but not overbearing, strong but not overbearing, persistent but not stubborn, easy-going but not following the crowd, humble but not excessive, tolerant and measured, tolerant but not accommodating, cautious but not shrinking, active Not frivolous, steady and not arrogant.
49. Don’t let others see your naivety. If you don’t understand, run away; don’t comment on other people’s appearance, because they don’t rely on you for food; don’t comment on other people’s virtues, because you are not as good as others. He is noble; don't evaluate other people's families, because it has nothing to do with you; don't evaluate other people's knowledge, because the most indispensable thing in the world is knowledge.
50. Ten taboos in life: avoid vanity, avoid laziness, avoid arrogance, avoid violence, avoid greed, avoid selfishness, avoid being unfaithful, avoid being stubborn, avoid being disloyal, and avoid lying.
51. In poverty, you must have loyalty and ambition; in crisis, you must have confidence and courage; in wealth, you must have the loyalty to sacrifice your wealth; in being a human being, you must have awe-inspiring righteousness.
52. Life: First, be strict with yourself and be lenient to others. Second, modesty is the best, give in more and fight less. Third, be kind to others and avoid being arrogant. Fourth, we must use justice to spread wealth and help those in need. Fifth, treat others with integrity and stay away from right and wrong.
53. Good words can arouse good intentions in others; bad words can arouse evil thoughts in others. Say one more kind word and be more kind. To be a good person, you should have good intentions, say good words, do good deeds, and make good friends.
54. The human heart is unfathomable, but my heart is crystal clear. The human heart is ever-changing, but my heart remains constant. When someone gives me a cross eyebrow, I give him a smiling face; when someone gives me a bad word, I give him a hymn of praise; exchange heart for heart, exchange affection for affection; repay evil with kindness, repay evil with good!
55. When dealing with people, making friends, and dealing with snobbishness and snobbery, it seems that you don’t need to be too demanding, and you should take it lightly. If you take a lighter view and a more open mind, life will suddenly become brighter and more enjoyable. Just like plainness is true.
56. Interpersonal interactions should focus on the future and not dwell on the past. Forgiving others is the best way to treat yourself. When you are angry at your enemies, you only burn yourself. When doing things, don't be too narrow-minded. The sea is open to all rivers, relying on a tolerant heart.
57. Don’t be discouraged when you are frustrated, don’t get carried away when you are proud; don’t be discouraged by setbacks, don’t be discouraged by failure; be brave but not reckless, be self-reliant and don’t deceive yourself; criticize without slandering, praise without flattery; be confident but not proud, and make corrections. !
58. Be calmer when encountering conflicts, be stronger when encountering difficulties, understand the situation more comprehensively, deal with problems more prudently, be patient when being ridiculed, be restrained when being humiliated, be busy and meticulous at work, and treat people with enthusiasm .
59. Don’t rush to conclusions when encountering problems. Even if you have the answer, you have to wait. There may be a better solution. There are different answers from different angles. You must learn to think in other people’s shoes, especially When you encounter trouble, you must learn to wait and rely on it. In many cases, not only will the trouble be resolved, but good luck may also come.
60. In behavior, you must be self-respecting in every move; in speaking, you must be self-respecting in every word and deed; in life, you must be self-respecting in everything you do; in life, you must be self-respecting at all times!
61. When people treat others as right and wrong, I treat people as right and wrong; when people treat others as benefits, I treat others as grudges; when people treat gains and losses as gains and losses, I treat good and evil as good and evil; People regard the rise and fall of status as closeness and distance, and I regard the true and false feelings as distance.
62. Only with compassion can you benefit others; with understanding can you be tolerant; with tolerance can you love others; with patience can you be a good person!
63. If the mind is loose, nothing can be done; if the mind is negligent, nothing can be concentrated; if the mind is stubborn, nothing can be true. Everything must be taken into consideration. Having a sense of responsibility is the most noble sentiment in life!
64. Be gentle and principled in dealing with others, be clear and decisive in dealing with matters, and be upright, concise and clear in dealing with matters. If you have no prejudice in your heart, you will be fair in dealing with things; if you have no ego in your heart, you will be aboveboard.
65. You don’t have to do things the same way as the customs, nor should you do things differently. You don’t have to do things to please people, and you don’t have to do things to make people hate you. Be ruthless towards things, not people, but be affectionate towards people; being a person comes first, doing things second.
66. Don’t panic when things are complicated, don’t waste time when you are free, believe what you say, be strong without desire, be gentle like the spring breeze, solemn like autumn frost, take the image of money, round on the outside and square on the inside.
67. A person should be self-reliant and not be shaken by the words and deeds of others; a person should be independent and self-respecting, and not be discouraged by difficulties. Be confident when facing setbacks, and be proud when facing failure!
68. The most important thing in being a person is innocence, the most important thing in doing things is seriousness, and the most important thing in being knowledgeable is being ambitious. A person must be ambitious, knowledgeable, persistent and confident. Don’t do things for fame, but do more practical things!
69. In competition, there are wins and losses; in status, there are ups and downs; in encounters, there are good and bad; in life, there are gains and losses. You should do your best as a person, and be happy with things as they come!
70. Sweet words of comfort are warm in the winter, but harsh words are hurtful in the cold of June. Talking too much when you are happy will break your promise, and talking too much when you are angry will be disrespectful.
Those who know are not knowledgeable, and those who are knowledgeable do not speak. Wise words and fine words are precious if not many are given!
71. Being a person and doing things are subjects that need to be studied and practiced with life. Only when research and practice activities end at the end of life can we evaluate a person's research and practice results. In order to avoid detours in research and practice, we should learn from previous research and practice results.
72. Be a down-to-earth person and do things in a down-to-earth manner. No one can climb the ladder of success with his hands in his pockets. Leave a real image to others, add a solid foundation for your own success, proceed from reality, and be responsible for yourself.
73. Treat ordinary people with a normal heart, take off your colored glasses, and the sky you see is a blue sky. Be more open-minded and strict with yourself; be clear about small things and confused about big things.
74. As a person, you should strive for excellence in the field of study; in the industrial and commercial society, you should communicate freely; in the interpersonal space, you should talk and laugh; in loneliness, you should have peace of mind! A collection of famous quotes and aphorisms about being a good person and doing things. A collection of inspirational quotes about being a good person and doing things