I can lose you, but I can’t lose myself.

Wang Zijian, who had been dormant for many years, became popular again with "An Jia".

Just like he himself once suffered from domestic violence in his marriage and was in a weak position, Wang Zijian, who is now played in the drama, also loves very humblely in his relationship, even as low as the dust.

To outsiders, he is a calculating real estate agent; but in life, he is a "spare tire prince" trapped in love.

Knowing that the woman he liked looked down upon him at all, he still rushed to her like a moth to a flame and became her ever-present helper.

This woman’s name is Shanshan. He looks bright and polished, but he is actually a snobbery with two feet on his feet. On the one hand, she has to deal with the pursuit of Wang Zijian, and on the other hand, she has to stabilize another man who she likes very much and has good conditions.

Wang Zijian came to her company to pick her up and gave her a large bouquet of roses. It happened that many female colleagues were also there, and Shanshan quickly introduced them to them that they were just old classmates.

The car was parked under the office building, and he gently opened the door for his beloved woman. The woman's face was filled with disgust: Why did you park the car here? How bad it is for colleagues to see this kind of car!

Seeing that Shanshan was so unhappy, Wang Zijian quickly said solemnly: It's my fault. I promise you that I will never drive this car in front of you again.

That's right, because of Shanshan's words, he, who was already strapped for money, decided to spend money to change his car.

As soon as his salary was paid, he immediately mortgaged a Buick Envision worth hundreds of thousands. He thought to himself that it would be high-end to pick up Shanshan, and she would definitely like it.

Moreover, when he took his colleagues out for a test drive, he also told everyone that the passenger seat was reserved for his future girlfriend, so everyone please sit in the back seat.

Unexpectedly, the first time I drove this car to see Shanshan was to pick up Shanshan’s mother at the high-speed rail station. He happily opened the passenger door for Shanshan. She pretended to turn a blind eye and sat in the back seat with her mother. After learning that the car was purchased with a loan, her expression suddenly changed.

He may not know that if the man Shanshan liked had not refused to help her pick up her mother, it would not have been his turn to drive a new car to show his courtesy.

And this "future mother-in-law" is not a fuel-efficient lamp. As soon as they met, he showed an aggressive attitude toward Wang Zijian and looked down upon others.

First, he said that he was not hungry and refused to eat together; then, when he saw that the chandelier at his daughter's house was dirty, he quickly hinted to him to clean the lamp. He was so busy that he didn't even take a sip of water. As a result, he answered a phone call in the middle of the day and was scolded, disliked, and disliked by the mother and daughter...

Seeing this, He had to make people feel sorry for him and make peace with him.

Is it really necessary to be so humble, so condescending, and so swallowing for a woman who doesn't care about me at all? Is it really worth it?

You think that as long as you keep lowering your posture and try your best to please, you can impress the other person. The fact is that the other party just uses you as a spare tire, using it when needed, and avoiding you like a plague when not needed.

As everyone knows, a girl who truly understands you, loves you and cares for you will not have the heart to make you wait, make you grovel, and let you be manipulated by others!

Zijian in the play actually reflects many men in real life who have lost themselves and their dignity in love.

For example, when facing someone who has never come back or has never given you a chance, you always stand there and wait stupidly. Even if there is another man behind her, you still stick to that position.

For example, when facing someone who says that you are not good at this or that you are not good at that, you always tell her, "I will change it until you are satisfied." However, even if you become what she wants, she will find another "disgusting point" to "crush" you.

In fact, you should know that when she is already picking on you, you are no longer so important.

All your efforts are nothing but a one-man show directed and performed by yourself.

You are willing to sink into the dust for her. But no one will love you when you fall into the dust.

So, be sober and love yourself a little.

This world is very realistic. Efforts may not necessarily be rewarded, and a spare tire cannot become a regular one. Just because you love her does not mean that she has to fall in love with you.

You can lose her, but you can't lose yourself.

Besides, if you are a vain woman who doesn’t take you seriously, just throw her away. No big deal.

True love never requires trying your best to cater to the other person, chase the other person, or please the other person. As long as you and I favor each other, give each other smiles, and love each other.

If there is no interaction, no back and forth, and no reciprocal response, then I advise you to get out as soon as possible and stop your losses in time!