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Do boys look for looks or financial conditions when looking for a partner?

When a man chooses a romantic partner, he will consider a woman’s financial conditions. We will not discuss this point of view. Because most ordinary men will think about things this way. Although their requirements are not high, they do have certain requirements for women's financial conditions.

In addition to these requirements, in fact, men also consider many aspects when choosing a love partner. Choosing a love partner, to put it bluntly, is to choose according to your own standards. If you think it's suitable, get in touch and see if that's a possibility. If it's not suitable, you'll just give up.

In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, this is the operating mode when choosing a love partner. So, in addition to a woman's financial conditions, when a man chooses a romantic partner, what other conditions do he look at?

1. What is the overall appearance and temperament? Ordinary men generally don't choose women who are too beautiful.

It is undeniable that most men are members of appearance associations. Most men focus on first impressions. Therefore, a woman's overall external image is very important.

Of course, every man’s preferences are different. After all, everyone has their own preference for radish and green vegetables. For most ordinary men, they basically will not choose a woman with a good image and temperament. Because such a woman has high requirements. Basically, you won't fall in love with ordinary men.

Therefore, most ordinary men are self-aware.

For example: Suppose you are just an ordinary man and meet a very sweet-looking girl. Although women's other conditions may be average. But what most men think is that they can't keep such a woman. So, just don’t pursue it. But some people's point of view is: Men, no matter what state they are in, just want to pursue beautiful women. This view is very ridiculous. What is beauty? Everyone's standards are different, okay. For example, in the Tang Dynasty, fatness was considered beautiful, but what about now?

Therefore, for ordinary men, when choosing a love partner. The requirements for external temperament still need to be implemented. Just choose an ordinary woman. In this way, they can truly complement each other.

2. Is the woman’s mood stable? This is an important criterion, as emotionally unstable women are difficult to deal with.

This is the most important requirement for a man to choose a love partner.

On the other hand, when a woman chooses a love partner, the same logic applies.

For example: If this woman is emotionally unstable, she will make a fuss when encountering some small things. And many times, I will argue with you over small things. How can you be happy with such a woman? Therefore, emotional stability is very important. For ordinary men, when choosing a love partner, they should look for this kind of emotionally stable woman. Only in this way can we live a simple life well.

Ordinary men have limited abilities in all aspects. It takes more time and energy to eat three meals a day. Therefore, you need an emotionally stable woman to live a simple life with you.

I don’t need to say anything more about this. I believe everyone can understand.

3. What is a woman’s inner self-cultivation? After all, getting along is actually inner communication. If you can't meet your own requirements, it will be difficult to get along with you.

Mr. Wang Xiaobo once said: Good-looking skins are all the same, but interesting souls are unique. When a man chooses a suitable love partner, he still has to consider a woman's inner qualities.

In fact, the subsequent relationship is the contact of two hearts and the communication of two souls.

If this woman has no connotation, she will not be able to communicate with you when you talk about something with her. So what should you do if you are together? What will happen if days like this last for a long time?

So, spiritual harmony is a very important requirement.

In popular terms, the three views must be consistent. For men, they will pay great attention to this aspect when choosing a love partner.

At first, maybe they didn’t know the specific situation of this woman. They will be in contact for a while and then make their own judgment.

For men, when choosing a love partner, they do need to seriously consider this aspect.

After all, there is really no point in being with a woman you can't talk to.

4. Do you have a positive attitude towards life? Emotions will eventually fall into ordinary life, which is also something that men value very much.

No matter how beautiful and romantic love is. But in the end, we all have to return to real life.

So smart men understand this truth. And when they choose a romantic partner, they must examine a woman's ability in this area.

If a woman is not active in life, it is a state of muddling along. With such a woman, there will be no taste in life.

Most men still have to pursue their own quality of life. My conditions are average and I am in a very ordinary state. I also know this, so I ask this woman to return to a realistic and ordinary life. If a woman doesn't have the ability to do this, she won't choose such a woman to fall in love with.

This is also human nature. After all, love is just plain life in the end.

In ordinary life, there will be many trivial matters. If a woman doesn't have the ability to face this, she will naturally not have a good life with you. In such a state, how can you gain happiness in love?

5. Do you have the ability to solve emotional problems? If it is a man who solves emotional problems, he will also be very tired. And it’s unrealistic, because one person can never solve these problems. It depends on two people working together to face it.

Any problem in a relationship requires two people to work together to solve it. Sometimes, men may take the lead. But it also requires women’s active cooperation.

But some women really have no ability to solve problems at all. What's more, they are unwilling to cooperate. They believe that such matters should be solved by men alone.

A woman who thinks like this is selfish. They don't understand what love is at all. They just enjoy the love given by men. And they harvest happiness in the name of love.

Actually, men need to understand a truth. Really good feelings are mutual. Since it is mutual, it is natural that two people need to face it together when solving the problem.

Any problem in a relationship cannot be a problem of one person. Therefore, men will consider this aspect.