This sentence has a deep-rooted influence on China people for thousands of years. Originally, there is nothing in the world for nothing, just as there is no pie in the sky, but many people always expect miracles to happen to themselves, which they call a gift from heaven.
There are all kinds of street tricks in life, which are constantly being renovated with the development of people's understanding of them.
But no matter how gorgeous it is, as long as you firmly believe that pies will not fall from the sky for no reason, then you will not fall into the trap carefully designed by swindlers.
If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer.
How many people try the law, how many people deeply understand the wisdom contained in it. In the rebellious period, we always don't listen to the advice of the older generation, such as grandparents' parents. We always feel that they are too strict with us and always want to get rid of their bondage. We always think that they are long-winded and love to talk a lot about big things. When we grow up, we will understand their good intentions, or for our own good, so that we can take fewer detours and face the reality a few times less.
Although the old people's words seem old-fashioned and backward, in fact, they have walked a lot, experienced a lot, accepted a lot of experience and gained a deeper understanding of the world. Some of their life experiences are tantamount to bitter medicine for the younger generation. When you understand it, I'm afraid it will be covered with scars.
Birds of a feather flock together.
This sentence applies to other races in nature, especially to human beings. It tells us that people are born unequal, and it divides us into three classes. Whether it is brothers, friends or family, with the passage of time, we will naturally be divided into our own circles.
The adaptation and mutual recognition of human beings to the environment can be summarized in this sentence. Beggars don't envy millionaires, only beggars who mix better than him. It is doomed that people in small circles must have limited thinking. The story of the prince marrying Cinderella is a fairy tale, and it is doomed to be a tragedy for Liang Zhu not to be the master. How many philanthropists are there like Tolstoy, Qu Yuan, Du Fu and Lu Xun? Those who are superior to others, such as those in power, are doomed not to feel the hardships and pains of inferiority.
Near Zhu Zhechi, near Mexico is black.
The influence of environment on life is irreversible and significant. Ancestors also have a deep understanding of this wisdom, so it has been handed down a lot. For example, if the horse doesn't help himself, the white sand will be black in Nie; The oranges in Huainan are oranges, and those in Huaibei are oranges and so on.
A person born in different families, receiving different education and having different resources is doomed to a huge gap between people. This wise saying can be used in all aspects, from the country to people's five senses. They say that the longer two people get along, the more they look like each other.
From macro to micro, the influence of environment on people is incredible. People often say that if you want to know a person, you just need to see what kind of friends he has around him.
He who does nothing wrong is not afraid of ghosts knocking at the door.
In this material world full of desires, kind and persevering people believe in ghosts and gods, while wicked people are fearless of ghosts and gods.
On the surface, burning incense and worshipping Buddha is actually a greed for money. When you become a bitch, you have to build a memorial arch. You laugh at the poor, not the prostitutes. As we all know, there is a god who looks up three feet.
People are doing it, and the sky is watching. Those wicked people who have done wrong will be punished sooner or later. If people don't know, they don't have to do anything. If you accumulate virtue and do good deeds before your death, reincarnation will not fall into the three evils. Be honest and full of integrity, even evil spirits will stay away from you!
Learn from mistakes.
It means that if you suffer setbacks, you will learn from them and increase your intelligence.
This truth will accompany us all our lives, just like it is never too old to learn. Similarly, in the fate of life, setbacks and disappointments often go hand in hand. Successful people learn from failures, and those who can't stand setbacks are doomed to fail to reach the top of the pyramid and become a part of that huge cornerstone.
If everyone can learn from his mistakes, then he can grow up with thousands of mistakes in Wan Zhi, and success is at his feet.
Even the cleverest person is stupid.
Even the smartest people never show their cleverness everywhere in life, keep a low profile and never brag about themselves to others to raise themselves. The principle of being a man is to accumulate wealth, stay away from it quietly, pay attention to self-cultivation, improve the level and quality, be generous and open to many things, have the state of accepting all rivers and being strong for yourself, never complain too much, do things sincerely, and only seek self-accumulation for many things.
god help those who help themselves
This is a truth that has been verified by countless people, that is, gold always shines, and there is always a reward for giving.
Tian Xingjian gentleman strives for self-improvement; God has a reward; Hard work pays off; More than 3,000 armor can swallow Wu; The rope saws the wood, and the water drops the stone; As long as the kung fu is deep, the iron pestle is ground into a needle and so on. Those who can be remembered by history through the ages cannot do without hard work. If you want to be great, you must work hard first. Maybe we don't have the genius to go far, but we will definitely shorten the distance with the genius.
Genius is so diligent, mediocrity should redouble its efforts! Heaven rewards diligence, we are not alone!
There must be something hateful about the poor.
I don't know when this sentence began, but it has become a profound understanding.
We have seen beggars with broken hands and feet, we have seen mistresses who were beaten up, we have heard the news that thieves were killed by mistake when they escaped, we have seen women who were abandoned by their husbands and dragged their children, and we have seen old people who touched porcelain. Is it to blame the perpetrators? Or are the parties complaining that this society is deformed and morbid?
Being brave has turned into pity for death, which makes people with good intentions feel cold and makes people who want to help become indifferent and numb. I don't know whether it is the poor man's "adding fuel to the fire" or the sympathy of this sympathizer. Once beaten, twice shy.
10 Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
What Kong Old Master Q said more than 2,000 years ago still resonates today. The definition is: if your body doesn't want this result or your spirit doesn't want to be treated like this, don't let others bear the unwanted result and get the unwanted treatment.
The idea of putting yourself in others' shoes is the most precious and lacking among young people now. How many people stand out for a red face or even a bad mouth? There are always some people in the companies of major enterprises who rely on their old capital to "don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you".
If this sentence is not thorough enough, I think "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is more thorough. It is even more hateful to let others do what they don't want to do and impose their own ideas on others.