Famous aphorisms of family traditions and mottos: Don’t do evil things because they are small, and don’t do good things because they are small:

1. Five steps to educate children: raise, educate, educate. , lead, direct, but not control. The key point is to cultivate virtue and educate morals well.

2. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family are all from other surnames. When they come to the same home, they are like mother and daughter.

3. Different family roles have different values. If a man has no ambition, his family will not be prosperous. Women are not gentle and drive away wealth. A woman's temperament should be as gentle as water, so that her husband and herself will be prosperous, and money and luck will naturally follow. If a woman's temperament is tough, fierce, overwhelming, stubborn, extreme, revengeful and resentful, gnashing her teeth and glaring in anger, the result will only be hurt. People waste themselves, neglect their husbands and despise themselves, all their blessings are lost, and their appearance is withered.

4. If there are problems at home, the first thing to do is that the old man’s behavior is flawed. The first is failure to abide by one's duty, and the second is excessiveness.

5. When there are problems at home, the elderly should feel ashamed: I did not do a good job, I have some bad qualities, and I did not educate my family well.

6. No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and disputes occur, the family scandal will not be publicized.

7. If you want your family to be harmonious and everything to be prosperous, if you want your husband to be noble and your children to be virtuous, you must teach them to respect your parents-in-law, and your life will be prosperous. Otherwise, the dew among the flowers and the frost on the grass will not last long.

8. There is no need to control the children, it all depends on the influence of virtue. Understand his personality, help him cut small branches and leave big branches. Don't spoil, don't spoil, don't hit, don't scold. Encourage more, affirm often, criticize less, and use no material temptations.

9. If a child does not understand, it means the fruit is sour. If the fruit is sour, work must be done on the roots of the tree.

10. Parents-in-law are like the roots of a family tree. If you want to have luxuriant branches and leaves, fragrant flowers and sweet fruits, you must treat the roots well, fertilize, water and loosen the soil.

11. Don’t be suspicious, don’t listen to divisive words, don’t do anything to make a living, and don’t take advantage of others.

12. When marching and fighting, soldiers are most afraid of arrogance, and arrogant soldiers will be defeated; children are also most afraid of being spoiled. If they are spoiled, there will definitely be problems.

13. Be filial to the elderly and teach children and grandchildren strictly; respect the old and love the young, and be affectionate.

14. Filial piety should be done to the best of one's ability, loyalty and courage should be shown sincerity; brothers help each other, and compassion has no boundaries.

15. Don’t do evil because it’s small, and don’t do good because it’s small.

16. I see that there is no education in the world but there is love. It cannot be like this. People eat, drink and do whatever they want. It is advisable to give warnings and reward them. When they respond, they smile. When they have knowledge, they say that the Dharma should be done. .

17. My family has lived in the Song Dynasty for more than three hundred years, and we must not forget that our descendants will not be in official positions.

18. A flawless jade can be a national weapon; a filial son can be a national auspiciousness.

19. I am only concentrating on studying and doing my homework, so don’t waste your youth lightly.

20. Weizu’s great knowledge has changed, hardships and storms have arisen, his lineage has moved to Tibet, and each province has its native place in another state; Haotian is extremely indifferent to the virtues he wishes to repay.