Experiences have taught me how to grow

From birth to now, we have experienced something every day, more than five thousand days and nights, we have more than five thousand

Experiences, from these accumulated experiences, I learned to grow.

From elementary school to now, I have been thinking about a question: How do we grow? I knew before that we grow up in hardship and adversity, but I never knew that we actually grow up through experience.

Failure after failure made me know that there are setbacks in the world. Another setback made me understand that there are experiences in the world, and experiences again and again made me understand growth.

I am not afraid of failure, setbacks, or experiences, because I know that I have not experienced them once. , I have grown up a lot. I still remember the first time I slept alone in the dark. I couldn't close my eyes. I stared out of the window in horror with my big eyes, even the sound of a withered leaf falling to the ground. , and it also made me couldn’t help but hold on to the corners of my quilt. That experience seemed ridiculous to my parents, but every time I mentioned it, I raised my chin proudly because I could sleep alone in the dark. Now, does this mean that I have grown up again?

Some people say that growth is illusory, because it leaves no trace!

Some people say that growth is empty, because it touches the ground silently!

There are also people It is said that growth is real, because it leaves behind experiences!

I all agree, indeed, growth is so unpredictable. Sometimes I wonder if we are all in a dream, and What everyone calls death is just waking up from sleep. When I think about it, I feel that death is not terrible, it is just what we experience in dreams!

Whether it is you or me , or they, we all have experiences, and we all have the traces of experiences, that is growth. Indeed, growth is an experience that will never end, just like a tree, every scar , it will all remain, but those scars will rise as the tree itself rises. And our scars are the unforgettable experiences and the heart-stirring emotions. We live in this world, and we are happy too. We have gone through it, we have gone through the sadness, so what is left? I'm afraid that only the footprints of our growth will be left!

Experience has taught me how to be good at failure

Xue Ningning, Class 3, Grade 9, Kuzhuang No. 1 Middle School

In this life, It is impossible for everything to go as planned and as expected, and you will inevitably encounter some setbacks and failures.

There are many celebrities with lofty ideals in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, and their success is revealed by the blood and tears of failure. Although Zhuge Liang knew astronomy and geography, strategized and used soldiers like a god, he could not avoid the tragic defeat of the street pavilion. Edison, the great inventor, only invented the electric light after more than 10,000 failures.

Yes! Those who are good at defeat will not perish, and those who are not good at defeat will perish! Experience has taught me how to lose well.

I remember a monthly exam when I was in the second grade of junior high school. I did not do well in the exam. So, I began to give up on myself, thinking that "success" was not for me. After the teacher found out, he said to me very seriously: "Failure is also a human need. It is as valuable to people as success. Only after you know the reasons why everything is not done well can you know how to do a job well." What is the method!”

The teacher’s few words were concise but profound, which made me immediately understand that I should not be depressed. I summarized the reasons for the failure of the exam, learned from it, and actively prepared for the next monthly exam.

Finally, my hard work paid off. In the next monthly exam, I took on the challenge with ease and performed exceptionally well. I spent a lot of blood and sweat in exchange for an exceptionally good result. No, this is not just a result, this is the crystallization of my tenacious perseverance.

I laughed, and I smiled happily, because that experience was not a small wave in my life, but a turning point in my life. It made me understand that failure is not terrible, the important thing is attitude; it also made me understand the importance of failure.

In fact, life is like a long runway. Everyone is an athlete. If you fall down and get up and catch up, you have the hope of success. Therefore, everyone should be good at failure. If you fail, pick yourself up from the failure and move forward in the direction of success. If you don't treat failure well, you will be unable to recover, or even suffer disaster. When Xiang Yu, the overlord of Chu, failed, he attributed the cause to God's will. He shouted: "God will destroy me, and it is not the crime of war." It seems ridiculous today. Xiang Yu is not a good loser, so he ended up with the end of a concubine who committed suicide.

The different positions of the words "Those who fail well will not perish" and "Those who fail miserably will perish" illustrate two different trajectories of life. Today, in the tide of reforming heaven, many influential figures are fighting in the wind and waves, and regard the wind and waves as a way to temper their will. There are also some people in life who become depressed and sluggish when they encounter a little setback or failure, and sink into the raging waves of reform.

"Failure is the mother of success" and "struggle is the father of success." If we apply these two famous sayings together, we will become a person with "both parents", and we will become a strong person who can overcome failures and setbacks.

I hope that experience will not only teach me how to be good at failure, but also allow everyone to understand good and failure. That way, when faced with failure, we become good losers.

Of course, we will be invincible!