-Cultivate a positive and optimistic attitude and a stable and peaceful mood.

Last weekend, Lao He drove back to Nanwan Peninsula from Guangzhou. After crossing the Luocun Tunnel, the car in front suddenly braked because it avoided danger. Although CSI also braked immediately, he finally collided with the car in front. Although his car is very good, the car in front was scratched. After some bargaining, CSI finally paid the other party hundreds of dollars to settle the matter. Along the way, I have been blaming others, complaining that the other party suddenly braked, complaining that I didn't keep enough safe distance from the car in front when driving, and the negative emotions in my heart could not be let go for a long time. When I got home, my wife knew what had happened, but comforted CSI, saying that losing money was a trivial matter, and people were lucky if they were fine! Besides, if we can learn from this accident, we can concentrate on driving, keep a safe distance and control the driving speed in the future, so as to avoid more accidents. So, this little accident is not a bad thing.

Each of us will inevitably encounter many difficulties and setbacks in life. When we are in adversity, our studies, love, work, career and ideals all go up in smoke. We are often particularly lost and sad, feeling that life is hopeless and meaningless, or complaining about others blindly, feeling sorry for ourselves, always sighing that we missed the opportunity and always regretting that we made the wrong choice. Or blame the failure on someone else's fault or unfair fate, and so on. It is easy to produce negative emotions such as anxiety, tension, anger, depression, sadness and pain. When a person is in a negative emotional state for a long time, the deep limbic system of his brain will form many negative consciousness and memories, and his insight and understanding of the external social environment will gradually become gray and negative, thus gradually forming a negative way of thinking and a negative emotional tone, and even causing serious distortion and harm to his body and mind.

Recently, CSI has learned Teacher Hui's Everything is the Best Arrangement, which is very enlightening. When we face difficulties and setbacks, we might as well face them from another angle and tell ourselves that everything is the best arrangement in heaven, and we know that there will be no surprises in the future.

Buddha said: "No matter who you meet, he is the one who should appear in your life. This is no accident. He will certainly teach you something. "

Life, people you meet, and things that happen are all traceable. Whatever the outcome, this is bound to happen.

But if it doesn't work out, don't worry, because all this is the best arrangement.

I firmly believe that everything is God's best arrangement, which may be a little self-deception and self-comfort, but CSI thinks that this is the best bottom-level thinking mode in the face of difficulties and setbacks, and it is also an important way to cultivate one's positive, optimistic and healthy attitude and stable and peaceful mood.

There is a fable circulating on the Internet:

There was a king who liked hunting and often visited the prime minister incognito. One of the prime ministers' most common words is "everything is the best arrangement".

One day, the king went hunting in the forest and shot down a leopard with an arrow. The king dismounted to inspect the leopard. Who would have thought that the leopard ran at the king with its last strength and bit off the king's little finger.

The king told the Prime Minister to drink to relieve his worries, but the Prime Minister smiled and said, "Your Majesty, please calm down. Everything is the best arrangement! " "The king was very angry." Is this the best arrangement if I put you in prison? "The Prime Minister smiled and said," If so, I am also convinced that this is the best arrangement. " The king was furious and sent someone to send the prime minister to prison.

A month later, the king recovered and went out alone. He came to a remote mountain forest, and suddenly a group of aborigines rushed down from the mountain, tied him up and took him back to the tribe!

The primitive tribes on the mountain will go down the mountain every full moon to look for victims who sacrifice to the goddess of the full moon, and the natives will burn the king.

Just when the king was desperate, the priest suddenly lost his face. He found that the little finger of the king was missing a little bit, which was an imperfect sacrifice. The goddess of the full moon would be very angry when she received such a sacrifice, so the natives let the king go.

The king was overjoyed. When he returned to the palace, he had the Prime Minister released and held a banquet. The king toasted the prime minister and said, "What you said is really good. Sure enough, everything is the best arrangement! If I hadn't been bitten by a leopard, I wouldn't have lived today. "

The king suddenly thought of something and asked the prime minister, "but you stayed in prison for more than a month for no reason." What can you say? " The Prime Minister took a sip of wine slowly, and then said, "If I'm not in prison, then I must be the one to accompany you on your private trip. When the aborigines find that you are not suitable for offering sacrifices to the king, isn't it my turn? "

The king couldn't help laughing and said, "Sure enough, everything is the best arrangement!" " "

This story tells us a truth: when we face difficulties and setbacks, we must stick to our beliefs and dreams. The current difficulties and setbacks may be the best arrangement God has given us! Don't be upset, don't be depressed, don't just look at temporary gains and losses, take a long-term view, broaden your horizons, don't feel sorry for yourself, don't complain about others, be confident and optimistic, grasp the present, be unique, persevere and work hard, and believe that there is no way out. Everything is the best arrangement.

Chekhov has a famous saying: as long as you don't live to catastrophe, don't complain, don't complain! Everything will happen, and people will change. ..... For example, if you are silent now, there is nothing, like a grain of sand, ... a raisin. But who knows? Maybe, then ... you will be lucky! Anything will happen!

Attachment: "Everything is God's best arrangement."

The best way to live is to live in the present.

There is a saying in Buddhism: "Take a peck and decide before."

Life is impermanent, career success is life, and poverty is life.

Facing the opportunity, what we can do is to make full use of the present and do our best.

Everything is God's best arrangement.

Buddha said: "No matter who you meet, he is the one who should appear in your life. This is no accident. He will certainly teach you something. "

Life, people you meet, and things that happen are all traceable.

Whatever the outcome, this is bound to happen.

But if it doesn't work out, don't worry, because all this is the best arrangement.

Wu Daozi, a sage in painting, was born in poverty when he was young. By chance, he came into contact with an old monk in Bailin Temple and decided to learn painting from a teacher.

At first, Wu Daozi's paintings were not very good. Both waves and figures were always distorted in his works. When he was about to give up, the old monk decided to show him around.

During the trip, he kept learning how to describe every drop of water and every spray. After three years, he finally achieved something.

After returning to the temple, he stayed in the temple for nine months, and it was not until late autumn that he finally finished the mural "Pentium River and Sea Map" and became famous in one fell swoop.

The fate of life comes from the accumulation of bits and pieces.

No one can let himself know everything in an instant, and no one can reach the peak sooner or later.

Everyone will have a hard time, and only after getting through it can we find that those almost unsustainable situations will gradually get better.

If you are willing to stick to it, it will become a thing of the past.

No one can succeed easily, as long as you don't give up, God will make the best arrangements.

As the saying goes: "If you want to know the afterlife, the author of this life is."

Man's life is predestined. Life is not absolute, and fate has never been unfair.

If you want it, go for it. Don't be discouraged before the storm comes. An old frontiersman loses his horse—a blessing in disguise.

Even if fate gives us more problems, we can compose it into the most beautiful chapter!

The gains and losses are doomed, and the broad-minded people feel at ease.

"Hua Yan Jing" has a cloud: "Knowing the body comes from the origin and there is nothing to write."

Knowing that this body is the product of karma and combination, there is no need to cling to lust.

There is such a fable.

The little monk is tired of cleaning the courtyard every day.

One day, the young monk had a whim: if I can shake the leaves off the tree in advance, then I will do it once and for all!

So he shook all the trees in advance, cleaned them up and went to rest.

Unexpectedly, the yard was still covered with thick leaves the next day.

The young monk was worried about yesterday and afraid of tomorrow, but forgot that what should happen was bound to happen.

Worrying about the past or the future will only plunge you into a bottomless abyss, and the pain is hard to suppress.

The best way to live is to live in the present.

Qian Zhongshu said, "Take a bath, look at flowers and eat. If you feel happy, it's not all because the bath is clean, the flowers are blooming well, or the food is to your taste, mainly because there is nothing in your heart. "

There's nothing to worry about, nothing to be afraid of. Live in the moment, let it be.

Half of life, busy, endless money, endless things, endless gas.

It is better to learn to go with the flow, let go and enjoy.

Don't be too attached to life.

Obsession, trouble; Put it down, people can rest assured.

In life, gains and losses gather and disperse, and getting is not necessarily a blessing, and losing is not necessarily a curse.

As the saying goes, three thousand prosperous moments, a hundred years later, are just a handful of yellow sand!

Life, ordinary or wonderful, don't care, just go all out, even if God doesn't give you what you want, it will definitely give you something better!