Since the birth of mankind, how to understand strangers, companions, friends, and relatives has become a long-standing problem. The wise ancestors summed up a series of famous aphorisms to remind themselves at all times, such as "a long road will tell a horse's power, and time will tell a person's heart", like "knowing people, knowing their faces, but not their hearts". However, summary is summary, refinement is refinement, but the difficulty of knowing people is still like a mountain lying in front of everyone. Interestingly, the problem was not solved but gave birth to a new profession - Mai fortune teller. "Knowing people" became an easy profession where you can fool people to your heart's content. Times are developing, science is progressing, and the art of understanding people naturally keeps pace with the times. Since the advent of modern psychology, we have gradually understood that the heaven is full, the land is wide and the square is not necessarily the official appearance, and the triangular eyes and eyebrows that are accidentally born are not necessarily doomed to be treacherous. To understand a person's character, we must not only listen to what he says, but also observe what he says. OK, so many details of life that have never been noticed have become the best window to understand a person. Open this topic and you will find that behind different clothing habits, there is an individual with a very different personality; admiring the different lines of the body will also reflect people's different preferences and life attitudes; even the various animals in the movie are people An allegorical expression of different personalities. After savoring this topic, you will understand that behind countless seemingly simple and different details of life, there are independent, rich and colorful inner worlds. (Dong Yiran) Expert Voice Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, Chinese Academy of Sciences, emphasized: "There are many factors that affect and reflect a person's personality and psychology. Clothing can indeed reflect some of a person's psychological traits, which can be used as a reference for us to understand a person. , but we can’t generalize arbitrarily. Because people choose clothes by chance. For example, sometimes people choose different clothes because of different times and occasions. "Clothing preferences reveal women’s inner feelings. A recent foreign survey found that a person’s choice of clothes is random. Preferred colors often represent the color of their personality and emotions. American psychologist Dr. Peter Rover believes that a person's psychology can often be inferred from a person's preference for clothing color and clothing, and this is more obvious for women. Coincidentally, Shozo Shibuya, who has a Ph.D. in psychology from the College of Humanities, Tokyo Metropolitan University, and is currently a professor of psychology at the Department of Human Sociology at Mejiro University, proposed that a woman’s attitude towards clothing should be based on her years of research on non-verbal communication and spatial praxeology. Choice, which implies many personalized psychological characteristics. Looking at women from the perspective of workplace attire: Women who wear trousers in the workplace are more feminine, while women who wear skirts are more powerful. In the workplace, women wear masculine clothes and show a more masculine mentality---they want to be like men. In work, victory or defeat is determined by strength, rather than being coquettish and showing weakness just because they are women. Therefore, such women should try to eliminate the feminine parts of themselves. These people may be aware of the feminine part of themselves and wear strict suits to hide it. If they are such women, they will release their restrictions after leaving the workplace and behave in a very feminine manner. Therefore, those who choose the same clothing as men's suits are those who are passionate about work and highly motivated. They have a strong sense of their own opinions and competition with others, but they lack coordination and are prone to conflicts with others. People who usually wear skirts and wear feminine clothes at work regard themselves as women when they go to work. Sometimes, such people will actively use their femininity. They have the characteristic of calmly and thoroughly calculating the entire incident in order to survive. They are very different from what they appear on the outside. They can be regarded as people with very masculine traits in their subconscious. Understanding women through the simplicity of their clothing: Do women who dress gorgeously actually feel uneasy about others? In fact, everyone has the feeling of being isolated from the outside world. This feeling of separation is called "body image boundary". The most basic boundary is skin. When wearing clothes, clothes become the boundary. Therefore, clothes can be said to be the "second skin". A person always tries to hide his naked body while wearing clothes, but often Because my choice of clothing exposes my inner self.

Shozo Shibuya, a psychology professor at the Department of Human Sociology at Mejiro University in Japan, believes that if a person has a weak sense of boundaries, it will not only be difficult for him to feel the difference between himself and others, but also difficult to grasp the distance between him and others, and therefore he will not be good at getting along with others. When communicating, I always feel uneasy because I have very weak boundaries between myself and the outside world. People who want to enhance their sense of boundaries will wear eye-catching clothing that is clearly different from others. In addition, as the closeness of clothes and skin becomes more and more close, it can also strengthen people's sense of boundaries. Women who are confident in their own figures and exude femininity everywhere in gorgeous clothes may fall into the trap of expressing their feelings towards others after taking off their clothes. Uneasy feeling. People who wear loose and comfortable clothes regardless of their body shape are people who do not follow fashion and can control their own pace. On the one hand, they can stick to their own values ??and on the other hand, they can also have better interpersonal relationships. From the clothing color system Understand women: Favorite colors can directly reveal a person's personality. After meeting a person a few times, you can probably know what color she likes from her clothes. A person's favorite color can directly reveal a person's character, and can also tell "what kind of person he wants to become and how he wants others to treat him." Yujia, deputy manager and chief image consultant of Beijing Huarenshijia Fashion Design Co., Ltd., said that when she conducts color consultation, she will first observe the type of customer. Years of work experience allow her to judge the customer's dressing preferences almost from the first glance. personality. She said: "Those who like bright colors are generally cheerful, healthy, or enthusiastic and unrestrained, and self-centered; they like to wear white, which is noble and pure, and subconsciously a little indifferent, giving people a sense of distance, etc." Chinese Academy of Sciences Wang Jisheng, a researcher at the Institute of Psychology, said that color works through human vision. Different colors emit light with different wavelengths. When the human eye is exposed to different colors, the brain's associations and reactions are also different. "Colors are divided into cool colors and warm colors, and wearing clothes of different colors has different effects. Therefore, when people choose clothing colors, most of them are inner projection or reverse projection." Research by American psychologist Dr. Peter Rover found that people who like to wear red Clothing women are considered "young types with rich aspirations". They often feel dissatisfied in life, are adventurous and follow fashion, but their fickle temperament is often unpredictable. Women who like green are considered to be "tough and practical mothers". In life, they are content with the status quo, act cautiously and work hard, but are afraid of taking risks and getting ahead of themselves. They are introverted and often suppress their desires, and are shy to take the initiative in relationships. In addition, people who like white often make people feel distant but not close; people who like purple may have more romantic feelings; people who like yellow are innocent at heart; people who like blue are sincere and full of fantasy; people who like black People who suppress the display of emotions but desire care and love... Of course, this classification seems a bit too simple. There are often many kinds of colors that a person likes, and they cannot be generalized. However, knowing what colors a woman prefers may be helpful in understanding her heart. Understand women from the brightness of clothing colors: People who like high-saturation colors are cheerful and outgoing, but full of uneasiness inside. Research by American psychologist Dr. Peter Rover found that people who pay attention to clothing colors and like complicated clothing tend to be more practical. Have self-confidence, but like to dominate others, are easily impulsive, and easily fall into uneasiness; people who like light-colored clothes and simple clothing are often more introverted, live a simple, gentle and quiet life, but are prone to lack of self-confidence, strong dependence, and inability to Good at acting independently. Japanese psychology professor Shibuya Shozo believes that people who like high-saturation colors are cheerful and outgoing, and tend to be active in behavior. But I am full of uneasiness, uncertainty and dissatisfaction. It is precisely because I want to make up for my own uneasiness that I like high-toned colors. They have strong insecurities about their own character and abilities, and may also be dissatisfied with their work, workplace, treatment, etc. Completely different from what he looks like on the outside, he actually has a shy personality. Lack of coordination and tendency to be easily influenced by new and popular things.

11. People who choose orange clothes. Orange is a high-brightness color, a symbol of prosperity and pride. It is a natural color and gives people a warm feeling. People wearing orange clothes have cheerful smiles and abundant energy. They often become the focus of the crowd and are very popular. However, they often appear unprincipled because they do not easily offend others. They are afraid of loneliness, like excitement, and have an innocent and sensitive personality. People who choose orange are usually very nature-loving and enjoy outdoor activities. Such people are indecisive and fickle, making people around them feel that they are frivolous and unstable. 12. People who choose brown clothes. Brown gives people a sense of stability and security. Although it makes people feel old-fashioned, it has a sense of authority that is consistent on the outside. People who like brown clothes are calm on the outside but passionate on the inside. They will be used to doing everything down-to-earth. Even if they encounter setbacks, they will swallow the pain themselves and never let others see their fragile side. Their expression of emotions makes people feel a bit dull. 13. People who choose brown clothes. Brown is a deep and simple color. People who like this color also prefer clothing that is not gorgeous but full of charm; they care about the spiritual performance of things, their existence is not eye-catching, but they have good potential; they are honest and responsible, and it is easy to Be accepted by others. However, sometimes it can seem a bit inflexible because of being too diligent. 14. People who choose pink clothes Pink is a combination of red and white, with the two character traits of white and red. It can be said to be a combination of sensibility and rationality, and the coexistence of knowledge and innocence. People who choose pink clothes are mostly naive dreamers, with a mind as pure as a blank sheet of paper, and live in a world they have woven all day long. They are more emotional and gentle in life. They often want to appear young and energetic, and even hope to have a noble image in the eyes of others. They exude a charm that makes people feel comfortable, but they have a strong desire to escape. Realistic tendencies. The color of clothing is a kind of talking "color language" that conveys many aspects of information such as a person's psychological state, intention, personality, hobbies, interests and identity. Mastering this "language" will add a greater weight to your ability to see through the other party more accurately. Clothing style is the stage of the soul. Guo Moruo once said: "Clothes are a symbol of culture, and clothes are the image of thoughts." A person's dress not only sets off a person's appearance, temperament and demeanor, but also reflects a person's quality and accomplishments. . The beauty of clothing is an external expression of a person's inner beauty. Clothing is a silent object language that can convey many aspects of information such as a person's mentality, personality, hobbies, and identity. A person wears clothes to hide himself, but his clothes often expose his inner self to the outside world. Because the clothes a person chooses to wear express their innermost feelings that cannot be exposed when they are naked. Therefore, it is not surprising to regard clothes as an inseparable part of the human body, or even as "one's own incarnation". This situation is called "self-extension" in psychology. It can be said that clothing is not only a flowing culture, but also a stage for expressing one's own soul.