When someone asks you for help, don't respond too enthusiastically and actively. If necessary, show that it is difficult, but help him, so that he feels indebted to you.
don't be happy, even if your heart is turning upside down, don't show it outside and let others know.
Keep a proper distance from the people around you. When someone offends you in words, if it is unintentional, you can express your dissatisfaction euphemistically. If it is intentional against you, use sharp language to fight back at him, so as to make him dare not act recklessly, and other people dare not look down on you.
If the gas field is too weak, others will look down on you; if the gas field is too oppressive, others will be afraid of you and alienate you.
the best gas field is powerful and has an appropriate oppressive gas field.