A threesome requires a teacher.
Appreciation: From The Analects of Confucius: When we have a threesome, we must learn from each other, follow the good ones and change the bad ones.
Many people walk together, and there must be someone who can be my teacher. I will choose his advantages to study. For his shortcomings, I want to check whether I have the same problem in time, and if so, I want to correct it in time.
This sentence of Confucius fully embodies his spirit of being open-minded and eager to learn and consciously improving his personal cultivation, which has been highly respected for thousands of years.
Second, learning without thinking is useless, and thinking without learning is dangerous.
Appreciation: this sentence discusses the relationship between learning and thinking: reading without thinking will confuse you and get nothing; If you just dream and don't study hard, you will be mentally exhausted and get nothing. Therefore, learning must be combined with thinking, so as to learn real knowledge.
Third, if a worker wants to do a good job, he must sharpen his tools first.
Appreciation: From The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong: Zi Gong Qiu Ren. Confucius said, "If a worker wants to do a good job, he must sharpen his tools first. Living in a country is also a saint and a doctor, and a benevolent person is a friend of the people. "
The so-called "sharpening a knife and cutting wood by mistake" is consistent in guiding practice, whether it is from the folk language of the masses or the wise words of saints.
Fourth, don't talk about what you have done, so don't talk about it. Let bygones be bygones.
Appreciation: There is no need to say anything about what is a foregone conclusion, to rectify what is about to be completed, and to investigate past mistakes.
Five, not in its place, not for its politics.
Appreciate:
If you are not in that position, don't think about things in that position. The simple and straightforward truth advocates that people should perform their duties, behave in a standardized way, do not exceed their authority and do not violate etiquette.
6. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
Appreciate:
This is an important principle for us to deal with interpersonal relationships. If you impose everything on others, it will only cause the other party's disgust and unhappiness, and it is easy to cause contradictions or disputes.
Seven, people have no long-term worries, there must be near worries.
Appreciation: Without long-term consideration, one is bound to have immediate troubles.
Eight, the gentleman seeks himself, and the villain seeks others.
Appreciation: by extension, it can also be understood as: a gentleman is strict with himself, and a villain tries his best to demand others.
How can a person have the ability to change others when it is difficult to change himself? So always demanding others, get nothing more than asking for trouble.
Nine, haste makes waste, and forgetting righteousness at the sight of profit can't be a big deal.
Appreciation: Don't be eager for quick success and instant benefit in everything, but quick success and instant benefit can't achieve the goal, and greed for small profits can't accomplish great things.
Ten, make friends with people, push their elders, avoid their shortcomings, in order to last.
Appreciation: This simple and true truth shows that although the Analects of Confucius is very old, every sentence in it still has a strong guiding role in today's practice.