Kindness is like water, and water is good for all things, and there is no dispute. Being hated by everyone is a matter of the Tao.
Living in a good place, kind-hearted, kind-hearted, good at words, good at governance, good at doing things, good at dealing with people. Husband is just indisputable, so there is nothing special.
In this wonderful exposition, Laozi put forward seven wisdom to deal with the world.
1. Live in a good place.
The so-called "living well" is actually to find a position that suits you. There are many choices for a person's career in his life, but it takes wisdom to choose the career that suits him best. A person knows his own advantages and disadvantages, finds the direction of his own ability, finds the position that really suits him, and goes all out to achieve something.
2. Kind-hearted
"Deep" is broad, and with a broad mind, you will be calm. After reaching the realm of "good heart", external interference will not affect the mood, and it is as stable as a rock. And this state is the basis of learning progress and getting high.
Step 3 be kind
"Harmony" means communication, and "kindness" tells us to be friendly when dealing with people. This kind of friendliness is sincere, without hypocrisy, regardless of high or low. Respect the strong and understand the weak. Some people respect the strong and despise the weak, which is not true "kindness".
4. Keep your promise.
The so-called "keeping your word" means that you must keep your word when dealing with people. A person's credit is the foundation of a person's existence and the basic quality of a successful person. Confucius also said: "People without faith don't know what they can do. There is no distinction between big cars and small cars. "
5. Good governance
The word "positive" here should be interpreted as "politics". The so-called "good governance" means having the ability to govern the country. In fact, this paper points out a kind of "governance" ability, which is needed to govern the country and the company.
Be good at doing things
"Doing things well", that is, doing things, can be successfully completed. Here tells us a principle, that is, we should accurately measure our ability, don't aim too high and do what we can; Doing things in this way can ensure that "things are good."
7. When you are well.
"Move" means action, and "good opportunity" means good opportunity. "When doing good" tells us that we should seize the opportunity when doing anything. In particular, "timing" is extremely important in doing some major events that have a bearing on success or failure; In this case, if we don't seize the opportunity, the result will be failure. Of course, "following good advice" is a superb ability, which depends on one's vision and experience, and it takes several years to acquire this ability.
The above seven principles put forward by Laozi are superb wisdom in getting along with people in real life. If we deeply understand and make good use of it, our behavior will be more powerful and smooth!