Reading "Seeing" is actually watching a human drama. All kinds of people passed by my eyes. I watched their lives, listened to their laughter and curses, and felt their emotions. Like a torrential rain falling in my heart, with a bit of earthy smell, so real and so powerful.

What is an interview? An interview is a communication between lives. "Doing journalism means dealing with the diseases of this era. We are all patients of this era, and interviews are largely a form of mutual questioning among patients."

01 "Morality is not without weaknesses"

There is this passage in "Seeing" that impressed me deeply:

When others laugh, Snoopy only laughs at himself and never fights back. I have never seen him being mean to others. Sometimes I feel that he Almost cowardly, he only said: "Morality does not mean the absence of weaknesses, but seeing it clearly and then suppressing it."

Use the power of morality to restrain and regulate your words and deeds, and face the ridicule of others and ridicule, Snoopy did not get angry or fight back, which made him look a little cowardly, which is a moral weakness.

It won’t make you look strong, or even weak, but it will make you feel powerful inside.

When Robin Li was speaking at the AI ??Developers Conference, he was splashed with water. He did not get angry, but restrained his anger and said to the person: "What's your problem?" Then he straightened his clothes and continued his speech.

Applause gradually erupted from the scene.

Morality and upbringing will not teach you an eye for an eye, but they will help you win the respect of everyone.

02 "People often step down their positions as hard as cement out of self-defense"

There is such a scene in life: two people quarreled, and both parties went from plausibly to strong arguments to then to Quite unreasonable.

When Chai Jing interviews delinquent officials, she often pursues them in a questioning tone, making the other party angry and worried - what I said is right.

People often step down their stance as hard as cement out of defensiveness.

It’s meaningless after a long time.

If it is not a question, but a question and a moment of hesitation, the air will enter and the water will enter, and his two feet will not be glued together. The essence of thought is restlessness. Once a person swings left and right, new thoughts will sprout and the soil will be peeled off and exposed.

Correcting fallacies does not mean pointing at others arrogantly and saying: "You are wrong!" but using an exploratory tone, following the wrong point of view, and using questions to express contradictions.

People care about face. If you point out a person's mistakes sharply, it will inevitably embarrass others. It's not too late to hold him steady and slowly pull out the bottom of his feet.

It would be much better to replace "You are wrong" with "Are you wrong?"

03 "When people are eager for success, they have given up on themselves"

Chai Jing asked an accomplished entrepreneur if he was allowed to engage in journalism, would he be successful? ? The entrepreneur replied that news is the same as a business. It must seize core competitiveness and build a brand. Brands are people. My mind was buzzing. Doesn't the login page of the official account say "No matter how small an individual is, it still has its own brand"? Thinking about how impetuous and anxious I am when writing public accounts these days, all I can think about is: How to make a more attractive title? How to write more in line with public taste?

Ashamed.

That night, I wrote in my diary: "When people are eager for quick success and quick success, they have already given up on themselves. They don't think about accumulation and precipitation, and their minds are full of opportunism. Their hearts are empty and they can't stand it. They don’t believe that accumulated strength can transform themselves. People with a long-term vision are just the opposite. They have the confidence to work hard all year round and the confidence and calmness of “I can do everything.”

Don’t forget why we set out in the first place just because we have gone too far.

It is inappropriate to abandon the basic and pursue the weak.

04 "The deeper you know yourself, the deeper you know others"

People are the same, have the same desire for happiness, and the same need for their own integrity, but she was born here, Living like this, coming there and living like this are all accidental.

Life and death, suffering and aging are all contained in everyone’s body, and we will encounter them one day.

We will eventually be inseparable, like water dissolved in water.

Everything is changing, and for millions of years, everyone is just a small particle, embedded in the order of the world.

The better you know yourself, the better you will know others, and vice versa.