He used to be a low-key doctor and professor in the philosophy department of Fudan University, but recently he became popular in Weibo because of a classroom video and became a guest of CCTV's "Everybody Talk".
Sa Beining, the host, praised her after recording the program: "(Chen Guo) has brought us young people a rare energy."
Nowadays, young people regard her subversive work "Good Loneliness" as a guide to life philosophy and look for spiritual strength that will make them strong.
Let's approach her beautiful loneliness, listen to her quotations and find our own light source.
It turns out that loneliness is a state and loneliness is a kind of helplessness. I thought I was lonely, but in fact I was just strangled by loneliness.
1, "Many people may be like this. When I get promoted, I can buy a house and a car and live a chic life ... We always put off happiness and always feel that we have to achieve something before we can be happy-but don't be happy tomorrow, because tomorrow is another tomorrow. "
2. Loneliness contains great spiritual strength. If you find it, you can be reborn.
3. Our ancestors advocated that one should "practice both inside and outside" as much as possible in life-"practice external skills" to ensure the enrichment and richness of "material life"; "Cultivating internal strength" to appreciate the vastness of the "spiritual world" and to experience the peace and happiness of the soul is the supreme, pure and sweet happiness.
We can cheat people who trust us, but what people who trust us can't bear most is that we cheat them.
The so-called "follow one's inclinations" means "follow one's inclinations", that is, doing what desire wants us to do. In other words, "do whatever you want" means that desire dominates and dominates us and leads us by the nose. Doing whatever you want is not freedom, but being a slave to desire, that's all.
6. "Morality" should not vilify "money", attack "material" and belittle "utility" for its own "victory" to flaunt its loftiness and set off its nobility.
7. "In the eyes of most of us, the more' fame and fortune', the safer it is. The reason why we are tired of running around and chasing fame and fortune may not be that our nature is insatiable and insatiable, but that we lack security and are therefore uneasy. "
8. In other words, it is more meaningful to meditate on how to make use of our limited life so that it will never be empty than to care about the length of life in vain.
9. When you are alone, your self-power will begin to awaken and your heart will become stronger and stronger.
10, "self-confidence" is neither inferiority nor arrogance. It is an almost perfect balance point between the two extremes of inferiority and arrogance. It is just the right middle way, so sometimes we give confidence another name-"neither humble nor arrogant".
Life is the pursuit, and our pursuit of the value of life is actually dancing again and again in life.
Chen Guo, with his unique pursuit, precipitated brilliant light of wisdom, formed a lofty realm of life, and then exuded due nobility.
1 1, goodwill, based on affection and righteousness, often manifests itself as a kind of life wisdom from sincerity.
12, we can live as ourselves and live more truly. Anyway, some people will like you and some people won't. But at least you'll like yourself better.
13, "loneliness" comes from spiritual freedom.
14, the "wind" of grace is so eye-catching because the "degree" below it is so nourishing.
15, true love "love the rich and never be too poor".
16, a person's "goodness" is not dedicated to others, but ultimately dedicated to self's "conscience".
17, there are only two things in this world that can make people live forever-thought and love. And the so-called "thought" is just a great love for truth.
18, with the gradual maturity of our body and mind, we will be more and more free.
19, nature finally gave us death, just like she gave us life at first, and always had its good intentions.
20. People who don't know how to be grateful for everything don't deserve anything.
2 1 When we are not curious about anything, we are really old.
Chen Guo unveiled the cloak of loneliness for us with his extraordinary wisdom, showing that loneliness is a harmonious nobility.
22. I have various customs, and I don't compete with the world. Be yourself, be yourself, don't bother others, don't bother others.
23. I want to live like light, illuminate myself and warm others. People are divided into groups. What kind of people do you want to make friends with? First of all, what kind of person do you want to live?
24, two goals in life:
(1) Happy life;
(2) Help more people live a happy life within their own capabilities.
25. Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, and loneliness is the carnival of one person.
26. Self-reflection shows courage. Self-reflection is the source of all thoughts.
27. Truth is the highest nobility, and beauty can only be divided into true and false.
28. Ask yourself: Why do you care about others? In what way? Dedicated only to self-love.
29. Romance is not hypocrisy and utopia, but a rare beautiful, noble and even sacred emotion.
30. Many things can be seen clearly in time. Either go further and further, or get closer and closer.
3 1, friends are luxuries, and they are satisfied. If you regard your friends as your boyfriend and girlfriend's backup, you also insult friendship and love.
Chen Guo used the English poet william blake's "The Fable of Innocence": "A world in a grain of sand, a paradise in a flower, infinity in both hands, eternity in an instant", which reflected the aura of my life and filled her heart with sunshine, optimism and peace.
32. The love of the old couple, like air, does not need language communication, but it is irreplaceable.
33. Shallow and short communication, how can we have a deep understanding and know that our value is significant?
A person who can't manage his emotions well, no matter how strong his ability is, will not be trusted.
35. "I am most afraid of two things in this world. First, I am afraid that I will lose my ability to love; Second, I am afraid that inspiration will abandon me ... until you meet some really excellent and excellent people, you will know how to work hard, which direction to go, and how to improve yourself. "
36. Only by loving life can life love you! Always be a curious person!
He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise! After listening to Chen Guo, a beautiful woman from Fudan University, I felt a lot and was deeply inspired. Born in the world, you must first find out who you are. Watermelon is sweet and hawthorn is sour. If we want to be a pineapple, we must keep it sweet and sour ... because knowing ourselves and the world can make our eyes clear and set foot on the most comfortable and reassuring growth journey.