When I was young, I only had fifty cents in my hand. In front of the counter of the small shop, I am worried about whether to buy a bag of plum or an popsicle. Out of the campus, I don't know how to choose between multiple job choices at hand and a development platform for calculating wages. After entering the workplace for many years, when the work has improved a little and established some word of mouth, other opportunities will follow, making people suddenly feel that it is "another choice".
"You chose me, and I chose you. This is our same choice. " Sally Yeh and George Lam sang "Choice". Although in the face of choice, we have been transformed into a talented woman who can make ends meet, but how to distinguish from many choices and finally make a choice will still make people scratch their heads in a short time.
At a symposium, colleagues talked about "how to choose" in unison. My first thought is, if we have no choice, what should we do next? When someone inspires young people, they will say, "Sometimes, people's success depends not on your absolute ability, but on your choice and judgment. It is because you chose this and gave up that that you have achieved everything you are now. Therefore, sometimes' choice' itself determines the direction of your success. " Yes, facing the choice, how to choose correctly and how to face the second or even multiple additional choices after the choice will be a suspense problem that will test our life. Just like love, when a handsome man and a beautiful woman have multiple choices, he or she will be asked the seemingly melodramatic question "Who do I love?" . However, when the selection of the project is complicated and we don't know much about the costs behind many choices, it increases the time and judgment required for the selection.
In the face of choice, most people will still struggle, and behind the tangled mentality is a potential "possessiveness" and "uncertainty". You always have to make a choice to show the preciousness of "loss". If both choices are really necessary, after the psychological excitement period, it is possible that both "choices" will become worthless jokes in the past.
When you can choose, don't care too much about other people's prejudice and noise, because you need to make a promise with the chosen "limb choice", and it is you who get along with each other day and night, not others; When you have no choice or are selected, remember to examine your standards and goals in time, see if this "standard" has become unbalanced paranoia from the beginning, and listen to whether the original goals have been eliminated by the public. Unless it is a matter of life and death, don't easily change the standard that suits your heart when you have no choice. Sometimes, the desperate situation of "no choice" is just solidified from your previous mental model. As long as you cross your threshold a little and then go to the unknown crowd, maybe there will be a vast expanse in front of your desk. Therefore, only when you know how to swim in the "no choice" sea area and have the confidence to conquer this seemingly barbaric water area can you fully enjoy this "another secluded path" wooden painted door.
The above suggestions apply to choosing a boyfriend and a boyfriend when you are in love, and also to choosing a job that suits you. The most important thing is to understand the life advice in Huangdi Neijing, that is, "Take pleasure as a service and take pride as a success".
Zhou Libo, the founder of Shanghai School Qingkou, said in an exclusive interview with Chai Jing, the host of CCTV's Face to Face: "I always like to prove my stupidity with my cleverness." I believe many friends know the "truth" mentioned in this article. However, if you really want to put it into action, you will still be reluctant to give up this and that before choosing, and even lose a few "selected limbs" in vain. As Zhou Libo teased, sometimes, we just trust our cleverness and discernment so much that we can only add "You see, I knew this would happen ..."