After reading a famous book, I believe everyone has accumulated their own reading insights. Why not calm down and write down your thoughts after reading it? But what are the requirements for reading the review? The following is my carefully compiled review of "Fu Lei's Family Letters". It is for reference only. Everyone is welcome to read it. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 1

This summer vacation, I reviewed "Fu Lei's Family Letter" again, and I had a deeper understanding of Fu Lei's deep love for Fu Cong.

Fu Lei’s earnest teachings to Fu Cong are well known. In the article, he repeatedly emphasized that being a human being always comes first. Learning to be a human being is the fundamental thing for a person to gain a foothold in society; if one does not know how to be a human being, then a person will not be a human being in the true sense. . In addition, Fu Lei has repeatedly raised the importance of "financial management", which also reflects his rigorous approach to life. Everything he asked his son to do, he would also correct the deficiencies in this area. So from Fu Lei, we can see his perfect interpretation of the four words "teaching by words and deeds"!

In fact, in our real life, thousands of fathers, like Fu Lei, accompany their children As one grows up, the mentality of "looking forward to the success of one's son and the success of one's daughter" will become more and more anxious. Fu Lei devoted all his life's efforts to his eldest son Fu Cong, so he was extremely strict with Fu Cong, but this was also very helpful for Fu Cong's future music career. Many parents have begun to follow in the footsteps of others and use violence to solve problems when their children misbehave, but this can only bring about the opposite effect. After all, some parents do not lead by example, so this approach will only aggravate the gap between father and son and make the children resist.

In today’s society where people have no worries about food and clothing, the economic conditions of every family have been greatly improved. Many parents have begun to spoil their children uncontrollably and leave the best to their children. This not only destroys the child invisibly, but also unknowingly causes the child to have the idea that "everything the parents do to them is taken for granted." In the end, the problems that such children will encounter in the future will be Unable to solve the problem on their own, they end up becoming "old people" who rely on their parents for the rest of their lives.

Fu Lei’s way of educating his sons is worth pondering. In the end, his two sons also achieved very high achievements. This tells us: Only flowers that have been tempered by nature can truly bloom and become a beautiful scenery in the eyes of others. After reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 2

Fu Lei was once a very irritable man. Once his wife and son did something wrong, even for the smallest thing, he would beat him severely until he was 40 years old. Fatherhood is awakened.

Various things in "Fu Lei's Family Letters" are as big as life and art, as small as eating and spending money. They are all meticulous. This is a father's love and concern for his son. From these family letters, we can see Fu Lei is a person who is extremely strict with himself, and sometimes a bit mean. Fu Lei has set three principles for his son: do not say anything that is disrespectful to the motherland, do not do anything that is disrespectful to the motherland, and do not take part in his nationality. This also highlights his Patriotism is admirable.

Who can imagine the difficult circumstances in which Fu Lei wrote these letters in "Fu Lei's Family Letter"? No one could bear the life of that era, but this father still Never forget to educate his son. What a father he is. Although he died unjustly, he never complained. Instead, he told his son to be a good man, serve the motherland, and become the pillar of the country in the future, making the country prosperous and strong. This letter from home made me feel the deep family affection, a father's good intentions for his son, and his love and awe for the motherland. It also made me understand many truths: don't be fooled by superficial phenomena, learn to Self-reflection; be upright, kind, and treat others sincerely...

These letters are not only a father's care and love for his son, but also his reflection on himself. People like him How many? Even if I have entered society or am an old person, I am afraid it will be difficult to do this. What a great father! After reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 3

After reading Fu Lei's reply to Fu Cong on March 20, 1955, I learned that hard work will be rewarded.

"How many circuitous roads, how much pain, how much frustration, how many setbacks, in exchange for your success today! It can be seen that in order to achieve greater success, you can only redouble your efforts, and at the same time, you have to look forward to other detours. Other setbacks." This was the reply Fu Lei wrote to him after Fu Cong ranked third in the international music competition. What had Fu Cong experienced before this? He practices the piano eight hours a day and experiences high levels of nervous tension. What made him the success he is today? It’s about practicing hard.

In daily life, we practice every day. For our students, learning is an indispensable practice. Encountering questions that we don’t know and knowledge that we can’t understand is the biggest challenge. Tests; in exams, we will inevitably experience setbacks, but we must not be discouraged at this time. We must have more courage to face them. If we encounter similar questions again and again, over time, it will no longer be difficult and we will succeed. The edge of a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold.

And one-time success is nothing. Fu Lei also wrote to his son: "Life is an endless marathon race with no end. Your journey is still long: this is just a glorious beginning. "Life, learning, sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat."

Just like Mr. Tao Xingzhi, the "great people's educator", he has been engaged in education all his life. In order to open up a new educational path that suits China's national conditions and serves the people, he has painstakingly explored and boldly practiced for decades. Year after year, we have made great contributions. He had patriotism and ambition to save the country since he was a child. He worked hard and died in Shanghai due to long-term overwork. He deserves to be praised by the world. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letters" 4

Since the winter vacation, we have started reading an extracurricular reading called "Fu Lei's Family Letters". It seems that the title of the book does sound a bit boring, and even the content is very simple. The words are filled with selfless love for children.

In fact, the general content is the guidance and full thoughts about all aspects of life given by Fu Lei and his wife to their son Fu Cong. Although now, Fu Lei’s education methods are not good, at that time The traditional Chinese family education method restricts children's nature.

In the book, Fu Lei always pays attention to every performance or competition of Fu Cong. Although Fu Cong is far away from home, the love Fu Lei gives him will not be reduced by one point because of the long distance. Just looking at the letters Fu Lei sent to Fu Cong after each performance, some were encouraging and some were pointing out shortcomings, but more importantly, Fu Lei was proud of his children. He loved his children, there is no doubt about this.

Seeing Fu Lei and his son express their love in the form of letters home, it suddenly reminded me of a book-like book I loved in elementary school, "Father and Son." He uses comics to show interesting stories between a father and his son. There are not too many words in the whole book, only simple colors and vivid characters are used to interpret each lively story. Although there is no text embellishment, the interaction between the father and son still conveys affection to every reader.

What impressed me most in "Fu Lei's Family Letter" was the first letter at the beginning. The whole family cried, and Fu Lei also felt guilty for criticizing Fu Cong too harshly when he was a child. There are many places with strong emotions in the whole text, but the only one that touched me was the first letter.

"Fu Lei's Family Letter" is one of the many books I have read that interests me a lot. He used stroke by stroke to outline the deepest affection between Fu Lei and his son. After reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 5

Classic works have eternal charm. They are like a erudite knower and a careful teacher, and "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is like this. A good book. I have been reading this classic book recently, and this book has brought me different "new knowledge".

This book tells a series of letters written by Fu Lei to Fu Cong, embodying Fu Cong’s deep and passionate love for his motherland and his son. The letter also emphasizes how young people should behave and deal with life problems. Parents provide useful guidance and talk about their son's life, as well as instruction in music and art, as well as detailed explanations and explanations of techniques.

I deeply remember the first letter Fu Lei sent to his son after Fu Cong left. It made me understand what meticulous care is, what meticulous care is, and what selfless and caring is. And great fatherly love.

A few simple sentences fully reflect that this is not a teacher's teaching, but an elder's advice. It is also a parent's care for their children, and a different kind of teaching. It is different from the care of other parents, but it still has the feeling of caring for this daughter carefully.

In fact, "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is not only written for Fu Cong alone, but also a godson chapter for Chinese parents. It not only allows us to understand Fu Lei's care for Fu Cong, but more importantly, Let us realize that Fu Lei taught his son how to behave, be patriotic and become talented.

Explain what fatherly love is with your heart, and explain what fatherly love is with words. Although not everyone has such deep father's love, he wrote about the true love buried in every father's heart.

At the same time, it also made people understand that feelings are a major problem faced by people, especially young people. Fu Lei spent a lot of time instructing Fu Cong when he was studying abroad, not based on parental dogma. Instead of using his own tone and attitude, he used his own examples to induce his son to do the right thing. Although he was tortured in his later years due to political reasons, he was happy at this point because in the end he and his children became the most intimate friends. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letters" 6

"Fu Lei's Family Letters" is an excerpt of family letters written by the Chinese literary and art translator Fu Lei and his wife to Fu Cong, Fu Min and others. The letters were written between 1954 and January June 1966.

This is the best book for art apprenticeship cultivation, and it is also a book about teaching children full of father's love. Fu Lei and his wife are models of Chinese parents. They painstakingly and painstakingly cultivated two children: Fu Lei and his wife. Cong, a famous piano master, and Fu Min, a special English teacher, are successful embodiments of their educational ideas such as being a person first and becoming a "family" later, thinking independently, and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. It is compiled and printed in this small book, which is not an ordinary family letter.

Fu Lei said this in his letter to Fu Cong: "Writing you a long and tiring letter is not empty chatter or inexplicable gossip, but it has several functions. First, I do regard you as a person who discusses art. , my opponent in discussing music; secondly, I really want to stimulate the feelings of some young people in you, so that I, as a father, can get some fresh nourishment, and at the same time, I can indirectly spread it to other young people; thirdly, I want to train you through communication not only Writing style, and especially your thoughts; fourth, I want to be a policeman and a "faithful mirror" for you at all times and everywhere, no matter in terms of life, in terms of life details, in terms of artistic accomplishment, in terms of In terms of performance attitude. "The affection that runs through all the family letters is that the son should know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, be able to treat everything with a serious attitude, and be an artist with both moral and artistic skills and outstanding personality." The parents' earnest words in the family letters. Education, sincere communication between children and parents, family affection overflowing between the lines, deeply inspire parents and children all over the world. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 7

"A person's service to the people does not necessarily require standing at a conference to give a speech or doing an earth-shattering undertaking. He can express what he knows and thinks bit by bit anytime, anywhere. Telling people that they are sowing, fertilizing, and cultivating for the country is invisible." This is what Fu Lei wrote to his son's family. In "Fu Lei's Family Letter", I saw a father's attentive teachings to his son, and there was a trace of concern between the lines. I was deeply moved by Fu Lei's love for his son.

This book mainly talks about what Fu Lei told his children in letters how to behave, how to engage in art, and how to treat life. He taught his son to be a modest and prudent person and to be an "artist with both virtue and skill". In life, Fu Lei also actively teaches his son. Everything in the family letters, ranging from career, life, art, to meals, is all about him. Moreover, he dared to admit his mistakes in front of his children and gave lessons and teachings from his own experiences.

"Fu Lei's Family Letter" fully embodies Fu Lei's thoughts. What he wrote on the paper are all commonplace words. "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is like a clear spring, and the feelings are so pure and sincere. Fu Lei loved his children very much, but while he loved them, he did not forget to educate his son. Fu Lei's love for Fu Cong has not become that ordinary tenderness, but always puts morality and art before their feelings. Just like his strict discipline on Fu Cong's childhood, although it is not recognized by ordinary people, it is his deeper love for his son. From Fu Lei's words, I can see the hard work that a father has put into his son's growth and success.

From the book, I also felt the parents’ good intentions and the noble love they gave us. Just as Fu Lei said to his son in the letter: "Son, I am afraid that the lessons I learned from you are No less than what you got from me. Especially in the past three years, you have given me a lot more profound experience in life. I have learned patience, the skills of speaking, and the ability to express my feelings from the process of getting along with you. Sublimation!"

Therefore, "Fu Lei Family Letter" brings our parents closer to us, allowing us to understand and be considerate of each other. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 8

This summer vacation, I read "Fu Lei's Family Letter" recommended in the textbook, and I was deeply moved after reading it.

"Fu Lei's Family Letters" contains thirty-two family letters in the first half of this book. In these thirty-two family letters, the issues mentioned are large and small; innovations and breakthroughs; employment practices. Tao; Watch your wallet and make your speech full of charm... There are macro guidance and painstaking and meticulous care, all of which make us feel that Fu Lei and his wife care about these two children: Fu Cong - piano master, Fu Min - a special English teacher who has been trained with painstaking efforts and dedication.

In his letter to Bo Cong, Mr. Bo Lei not only talked about art study, but also about life, love, life, and self-cultivation. Even if his son made a typo, his father would "seriously take it seriously." Point out and patiently analyze and correct. It is this method, rather than other methods (such as papers, translations), that allows us to directly and clearly feel the meticulous, rigorous and serious attitude and style of Mr. Fu Lei, a literary critic and literary translator, as a person and as a scholar. .

However, Fu Cong drew rich spiritual nourishment from these letters of his father during his life in a foreign country. Give him guidance, encouragement and encouragement from time to time. Give him the courage and strength to overcome all kinds of demonic obstacles. Embark on your own right path of growth. Fu Cong's spirit of loving and trusting the motherland cannot be separated from Mr. Fu Lei's earnest education tens of thousands of miles away. As the saying goes, 'One father is worth a hundred teachers'!

Nowadays, people know that there are only two important things in a person's life, namely being a person and doing things. Therefore, their family education is inevitable. The long-lasting love between father and son is spoken in the world. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letters" 9

This is my first time encountering family letters. This "Fu Lei Family Letter" embodies the sincere teachings of parents, the sincere communication between children and parents, and the family affection overflowing between the lines. How do I behave and how do I deal with life in this unfamiliar literary style?

In his letters, Fu Lei implemented the meticulous, rigorous and serious attitude and style of an art critic and literary translator.

He not only talked about art learning, but also about life, love, life, and self-cultivation. Even if his son made a typo, his father would "seriously" point it out and patiently analyze and correct it. Mrs. Zhu Meifu is not as strict as her father in her letters. From her writing style, it can be seen that she is a gentle, quiet and easy-going lady, virtuous and open-minded. She pays attention to the health, daily life and diet of her son and husband, and maintains close communication with her daughter-in-law. The image of the mother is particularly prominent. Such a collision of softness and strength is undoubtedly the recipe for a successful family.

Fu Cong is a famous piano master. His father Fu Lei often gives Fu Cong piano instructions in his letters. Because I am also learning piano myself, I have a deep understanding of some of Fu Lei's guidance. There is a paragraph in the article that talks about the shortcomings of humming, because humming is a very random behavior, faster or slower, the chanting is very interesting, but if the player hums and plays at the same time, the rhythm will often be wrong. I am usually used to humming, but when I only play music, I feel that my rhythm is slow. Fu Lei's advice to Fu Cong was to hum as much as possible when reading the score, hum as little as possible when playing, and only "sing silently" after getting familiar with the music. And when playing, you should also imagine the artistic conception and consider the structure, ups and downs, climax, etc. of the music. Usually my piano teacher will also guide me like this, but I always can't understand it. When I saw Teacher Fu Lei's explanation, I could easily understand it myself, and I also got good results when I practiced playing the piano.

The light of wisdom shines everywhere in the book, and it always gives people profound enlightenment, especially the skills of playing the piano and the principles of life. Because of his knowledge and thoughts, Mr. Fu Lei can explain profound but not difficult truths about any big or small matter, thus inspiring others. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letters" 10

Opening the pages of yellowed letters, there is a faint fragrance of ink, and it seems that the father's ardent expectations and the mother's happy smile are in front of me. As the saying goes, "Moisturizing things silently", Fu Lei's family letter is the father's instruction to his son who is studying in Poland, and it is also a father's silent love for his son.

A letter from the family entrusts Fu Lei with artistic admonitions and spiritual encouragement to his son. "Fu Lei Family Letter" is a family letter written by Fu Lei and his wife to their son Fu Cong and daughter-in-law Mila from 1954 to 1966. From the yellowed pages of the family letter, I can see that Fu Lei and Fu Cong have gone beyond the boundaries of father and son and friends. , and became an artistic and ideological confidant.

The letters home, which exude the fragrance of ink, not only provide artistic instruction to my son, but also reveal a lofty realm of life. After reading it, I was deeply inspired.

I have had a dream to study medicine since I was a child. Because of the COVID-19 epidemic, I saw the love for home and country among medical workers and the benevolence of doctors, which made me more determined to have this dream. After all, dreams are just illusions that stay in my mind. If I don’t take action, I will never be able to achieve success. It has become a reality. The first step to study medicine is to learn biology well, but in this subject, my grades are very unsatisfactory. I want to work hard, but I am defeated by excuses every time. When I read "I disapprove of blaming myself but not taking action to show it!...Only facts can prove your intentions, and only actions can show your intentions." I suddenly woke up and blamed myself blindly. It will be a waste of time and energy. Only actions can prove what you want. I decided to use actions to prove everything. I will not let my dreams become empty talk, and I will not be defeated by excuses, but defeat them.

From this book, I read the love between father and son, the artistic accomplishment, and the philosophy of life. This is a valuable asset for Fu Cong and us.

Thanks for meeting "Fu Lei's Family Letter" during this holiday. I also want to go behind the yellowed family letters again to explore more philosophies of life. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 11

Father's love is always shameless, great and selfless. ——An inscription

Real estate marketer Ma Zeng commented on "Fu Lei's Family Letter" this way: This is a very good reading book for the cultivation of art apprentices, and it is also a piece of painstaking papermaking full of father's love and a painstaking education of children.

What moved me most in "Fu Lei's Family Letter" was that Fu Lei sincerely communicated with his son as a friend. I clearly remember that it was Fu Lei who pointed out that his son Fu Cong was too outspoken and not mellow enough in his behavior. He said that I often make these contradictions myself, and I hope you can encourage him. Fu Lei communicated with his son on an equal footing without any condescending tone. It can also be seen from this sentence that Fu Lei combined his own feelings and analyzed the problem to make his son accept the suggestions. It can be seen that Fu Lei has unique insights in education.

In addition, I was also impressed by Fu Lei, who gave advice to children when they were depressed. He suggested that his son should remain calm because of depression and maintain a psychological balance. When we are depressed, our fathers will give us the same advice, but most fathers communicate with their children from the perspective of elders, rather than as friends like Fu Lei. In our daily lives, if we can truly be calm and communicate with our children from an equal perspective, how many fathers will be able to look at and think about problems from their children's perspective?

So I think that Fu Lei, as a father, cannot only have a unique way of educating his children when he gets along with them, but also can make people accept it with an open mind.

In his correspondence with his children in private messages, Fu Lei did not directly explain how much he loved his children, but it can be seen that he gave his children advice and advice. The love of children has never diminished. I think Fu Lei is a reflection of the majority of people. Their love for their children will not be exposed directly, but will be replaced by harsh words and strict requirements. They place all their expectations on For children, isn’t this father’s love?

Father’s love is great and selfless.

Father’s love is warm and deep.

Father's love is precious spiritual wealth. After reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 12

After reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter", I found that this is a teaching document full of my father's painstaking efforts and painstaking efforts in writing this article. Fu Lei has extremely profound artistic attainments and has profound knowledge in various fields of literature, painting, and music, both ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign. The major he studied in France in his youth was art theory. Since returning to China, he has been engaged in art archeology and art teaching, but the time was very short and he could not work with other people. He always quit halfway and was unable to develop himself. This article is good.

In this book, Fu Lei once said in a letter to Mr. Fu: "Letter from home has several functions: First, I do treat you as an opponent when discussing art and music. Second, I really want to stimulate some of your young people’s feelings, so that I, as a father, can get some fresh nourishment, and at the same time, I can also indirectly spread it to other young people. Third, I want to train you through correspondence - not only articles, but especially articles. Your thoughts. Fourth, I want to be a wake-up call and a faithful mirror for you at all times, no matter in terms of life, in terms of life details, in terms of artistic accomplishment, or in terms of playing posture. From this sentence, we can feel that Fu Lei cares very much about his children and guides them to success.

His children's article also achieved success. Fu Cong became a piano master, and Fu Min became a special English teacher. This shows that Fu Lei's teaching of this article is very successful.

Finally, I end this article with a sentence from the book: Fu Lei and his wife, as models of Chinese parents, have worked hard all their lives to cultivate two children. This article: Fu Cong - the famous piano master, Fu Min --English special teachers are the successful embodiment of their educational ideas such as being a person first and becoming a "family" later, transcending the ego, thinking independently, and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude.

The earnest teachings of the parents in the family letters, the sincere communication between the children and their parents, and the family affection overflowing between the lines have given strong inspiration to parents all over the world. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letters" 13

Family letters are a medium for relatives to talk to each other. Relatives use their feelings as paper and their emotions as pens to write lines of text, and these words contain the feelings of longing. This sentence can soothe the troubled heart of a wanderer abroad. ——Inscription

Fu Lei is a famous writer in my country. As a father, he is strict and strict. His love for his son is everywhere in Fu Lei's family letters. "Fu Lei's Family Letters" seems to be just some common words written on paper, but it is these common words that give Fu Lei's Family Letters great significance. Those simple and unpretentious words contain sincere emotions and tireless teachings. It makes people feel empathy and give rise to feelings of admiration.

The few sentences that impressed me most were written like this: "Child, I abused you, I will never be sorry for you, and I will never be able to make up for this sin! These thoughts never left me for the whole day. I just don’t dare to tell my mother that if I do something wrong in life, my conscience will never be at peace!” Yes, Balzac said it well: “Some sins can only be compensated, not washed away!”

Fu Lei expressed his deep feelings and meticulous care for his son in many letters home, and he also felt guilty about the harm caused to his son by his harsh teachings.

Fu Lei’s Family Letter is a book of great educational significance. In the plain sentences, the image of Fu Lei as a strict father emerges vividly on the page. In Shi Zhecun’s article in memory of Fu Lei, he once said, His upbringing was so strict, and he was so passionate about his son becoming a dragon. He wanted to mold his son into a character that conformed to his ideals. This kind of family education was quite dangerous, and few people could succeed. However, Fu Lei succeeded.

It can be seen that Fu Lei is a successful father and a man of upright moral character.

Fu Lei’s family letters have given me a lot of inspiration. Fu Lei’s awe-inspiring uprightness, his children’s artistic cultivation, and profound knowledge all make people respect this family. I only wish that those in the family letters This kind of upright spirit will last forever in this world. Thoughts after reading "Books from Fu Lei's Family" 14

"Books are ships of thought sailing in the waves of the times. They carefully transport precious cargo to one generation after another." This is the famous saying of Francis Bacon, a famous British writer. , and the "Fu Lei Family Letter" I am reading recently has brought me precious feelings just as this famous saying says.

"Fu Lei's Family Letter" is not so much a book as it is a history of family exchanges. It contains hundreds of letters compiled by Fu Min between Fu Lei and his wife, Fu Cong and Fu Cong's wife Mila. Each of them contains the family affection that cannot be cooled down even if they are separated in a foreign country.

Fu Lei is an outstanding literary translator in my country and a rigorous and kind father.

The letters he sent to Fu Cong touched on many aspects such as musical skills, literary literacy, etiquette, and living habits. His concern for Fu Cong can be described as meticulous. But such frequent concern is not boring to watch - because he never shows his love and longing "blatantly", but guides carefully like a teacher. He would blame Fu Cong for not writing for a long time, encourage Fu Cong for his progress, calmly analyze Fu Cong's game results, and raise questions about Fu Cong's path to study... If Fu Cong It is a flying paper airplane, so Fu Lei is the wind that drives him to travel far.

Many of Fu Lei’s words to Fu Cong are not only applicable to him, but also applicable to all young people. For example, “I am the most disapproving of blaming myself without taking action.” This sentence teaches us to Consistent with words and deeds; for example, "Only when a person dares to face reality, face mistakes, and use rational analysis, will he not be eroded by memories." This sentence teaches us not to stay in the past, but to be optimistic and move forward; "A child just doesn't know how to be alone. "," this sentence teaches us to learn to face life alone...Every page you turn is a precious treasure.

Fu Lei's family are all wise men, and "Fu Lei's Family Letter" is a book of wisdom. It brought me extraordinary feelings in ordinary language, and this feeling will accompany me on my long journey. Thoughts after reading "Fu Lei's Family Letter" 15

Fu Lei worked hard all his life and cultivated two outstanding children with great pains. One became a world-famous musician, the other became a special English teacher. This undoubtedly reflects the success of Fu Lei's educational philosophy.

In terms of life, Fu Lei and his wife can be said to be full of advice. Seeing that their son is about to enter an ever-changing society, as parents, they can't help but have mixed feelings. The two of them taught students in accordance with their aptitude and used their own accumulated experience to tell their son to avoid detours and take more shortcuts. They did not want their son to make the same mistakes they had taken.

In terms of dealing with people, Fu Lei told his son that he should stick to the big self, give up the small self, and never care about personal fame, wealth, gains and losses. We will find that life is always full of depression and contradictions. When we are passionate about personal fame and wealth, but we are impatient, we will inevitably become extremely painful because of jealousy and hatred. On the contrary, if we stick to our true self and think about the future and destiny of society and mankind, we can actually make a contribution. This is the best remedy for cynicism.

Similarly, Fu Lei’s emotional advice to his son is also of great reference value. Before the child gets married, he tells him to love himself, because fruitless love will make people feel numb to love. And when Fu Cong truly entered into love and marriage, Fu Lei taught his son the way he and his wife had lived harmoniously for decades, that is, the relationship between gentlemen is as light as water, and husband and wife should respect each other as guests. Only calm, reserved and gentle feelings can last forever. And you cannot give up your wife because of art. You must know that two people can always support each other on the long road and never let each other fall behind. Only in this way can a long-term and harmonious marriage be maintained.

The characteristics of Fu Lei reflected in this book are also the common characteristics of Chinese parents - child-centered, taking into account even the details of life, reflecting a vivid and extremely cute character. The image of his father also reflects his deep fatherly love.