2. The root cause is introversion. So, this is the problem. Parents should wait for their children to move around more and teach them more communication skills. Maybe a little timid. It's good to see more of the world.
Finally, children are happy, don't ask too much, and the family atmosphere is relaxed at ordinary times.
The child is introverted, is there any good way to change it? Hello, in psychology, personality refers to the stable attitude and habitual behavior towards objective reality. Children's character is formed in the process of interaction with the surrounding environment. Generally speaking, the relationship between mother and child plays the most important role in the germination of children's personality. Parents are introverted, so they should pay attention to providing a better external environment for their children and help them to be more cheerful and lively.
For example:
First, taking him to relatives and friends' homes, allowing more people to associate with him and having a broader social environment is also good for correcting cowardice.
Second, play games with him at home to stimulate his happy mood.
Third, mother and son read picture books and story books with their cheerful masters. Of course, he didn't understand it at first, but gradually, he will understand it, or he can make it up himself, which will be more targeted.
Fourth, the most important thing is not to think that only a lively and cheerful personality is good. In fact, a quiet and docile personality is not necessarily bad, just a different personality. Introverts can also become talents.
Fifth, taking children to participate in professional psychological counseling, such as sand table therapy and game therapy suitable for children, is very helpful for children's character cultivation and ability development. If you know more, you can trust me privately.
The child is slow and unwilling to write. Is there any good way to help them change? 1: Writing requires hard work, and there is no shortcut. The main thing is to be correct at first, then stick to it and practice in your study, so you don't have to spend a lot of time practicing calligraphy. Also, many methods will be the same as the teacher's, but also different, such as horizontal, many teachers say horizontal is flat. [Except for some teachers] What I told my children was to lean a little to the right. Although he still can't change sometimes, I believe he will change slowly. I never told my child to learn to write when he first learned to write. I told him it was a game, and he could end it immediately if he didn't want to play. I think the Olympic Games and so on. It still belongs to the category of knowledge, either teaching children calculation methods or knowing things. Of course, there is also the component of developing brain power. Everything must be right. I give my children more riddles, brain teasers and some math problems that don't need to be calculated. Some of his calculation methods were learned when he was playing these games. We didn't tell him until we asked, and we never took the initiative to teach him anything. I pay more attention to the cultivation of habits. Try this and see if there is any progress. Let children write without talking about learning or practicing calligraphy. You play games when you talk to him, and discuss with him the way he likes. Start with simple words. As long as the writing method is correct, generally speaking, writing a word for the third time will make progress. At this time, you must praise it, and the child will have a sense of accomplishment. Write more times while the iron is hot. You can exaggerate. You are too interested. I am not as good as you, or you are better than all the books. Say these words sincerely, that is to say, you must find out what this child really looks like. After a period of persistence, the child's self-confidence will be restored, and naturally it will be serious. If you are an older child, you can help him correct his writing first. [For example, "Scholar" needs more vertical and less horizontal to look good. But it is very important for children who just learn to write. In fact, writing will encounter many such things] and then help him finish his homework several times. Ask the teacher to praise several times more, and communicate with the teacher when necessary. When the child is full of confidence, you can tell him earnestly what he has brought him. I think every child is expected to be the best. Will he be careless when he comes back full of confidence? I wish I could help you, that's all I can say. I wish your child progress day by day.
The child doesn't want to shave his head. Is there any good way to make his hair itch? Then tell him there are bugs in his hair and tell him to sit still. You'd better not look in the mirror when you cut his hair.
Our children are introverted. Is there any good solution? Let children have more contact with collective life and go to Caierfang Kindergarten, where the teachers are very caring and helpful for their education.
What if the child doesn't want to write a composition? How to write a good composition 1, a good article comes from life, and write what you see and hear; Write your own personal experience; Write your true feelings, and such an article will be vivid and touching. 2. Writing can't be done overnight. But in the face of today's exam-oriented education, we might as well learn some skills. For example, you usually recite more paragraphs, with a good beginning and a good ending. Study hard for the exam. 3. Read more, study hard and learn from it. Good articles, good words, good sentences, learn to accumulate. 4. Creating a novel and unique article title can sometimes get twice the result with half the effort. 5. Keeping a diary can not only practice writing, but also accumulate materials. 6. Learning to quote famous sayings and immortal poems will make your article more convincing. 7. Using good words and sentences can add color to your article and make it possible. Too much will appear flashy. 8. Applying what you have learned is the ability to be flexible and adapt to changes. 9. Get close to nature, go out for a walk more during the holidays, see more and see more. 10. Being close to nature can also make the materials you collect more colorful.
The child is a little introverted at the age of four. The problem of a child's personality depends first on whether it is affected by heredity. If one of your parents is like this, don't deliberately pursue perfection.
The other is the environment. I usually take her (him) out to meet different people. Especially with friends to create a living environment. In view of your child's situation, parents had better take her (him) to play with the child.
Are parents happy to communicate with their children? If you are always busy chatting and working online, it is not good to leave your children to watch TV. Communicate with the little guy every day, tell stories and ask questions.
As for self-care, don't compare her (him) with other children. Every child's ability development belongs to different stages, such as his sports ability and language ability. Have different performance times.
My child 10 years old. He studies well and has wide interests. He likes dancing, painting, reading, skating and playing ball, but he often forgets things and his language skills are a little poor ... I used to be anxious, but now I don't worry. She's so much like me. Her skin, temper and figure are all the shadows of her childhood.
The child is a little timid and introverted. How can I exercise him? On the one hand, you can participate in summer (winter) camps such as overseas study tours, so that children can grow up quickly in group activities and exercise their self-care ability. When choosing activities, it is best to choose a high-quality group with strict organization and planning and responsible staff. There are many Tuniu, Qunar.com and Ctrip now, but if the children are younger, the economic conditions are OK. I suggest taking a look at Backbone's tour group. The tour route is relatively novel. Accompanied by * * * friends, I estimate that the children will gradually become one, and their personalities will become more and more cheerful. There is also taking part in some special physical training, because physical education can cultivate many abilities that children can't learn in class, such as teamwork and collective honor. Children will gain happiness and confidence in rich and interesting physical training.
13-year-old children are introverted and never dare to ask the teacher what to do when studying. Then get used to it with good classmates and cheer yourself up. Teachers are not terrible.
Children have been reluctant to recite words. Is there any clever way to remember them? It depends on the reason why he or she doesn't like memorizing words: 1. Letters can't. Suggestion: First, you can fully recognize letters, read and write, and then learn words. 2. I can't read the words. Suggestion: Listen to the correct pronunciation of the words and read after them. Reading English words is very helpful for memory. 3. if you forget, you won't recite it. Suggestion: Repetition is the most important memory means. Be sure to repeat the words within 24 hours after the first time, and then review them again three days later. Genius remembers one thing only by watching it once; Smart people should watch it ten times; Most of us are just ordinary people,
So repeat 100 times, and you will win if you can recite it. If the child can think like this, he won't feel bored!
Of course, he doesn't have to recite a word 100 times.
Special reminder: 1. Scattered short time is the best time to recite words. For example: the time to take the bus, the time on the way to school (under the condition of ensuring safety), and even the time to go upstairs and downstairs! Making good use of this time to recite words must not be a problem! Pronunciation course is the best course to help remember words. It can help children remember words in the shortest time and words in the longest time. These are just a few common aspects. There are many specific methods and skills to face specific children and specific implementation process. Welcome to consult with you.