No gold is pure and no one is perfect.

Everyone has shortcomings and everyone also has advantages. A person's growth occurs in the process of constantly correcting one's own shortcomings. So. How should we face up to our own shortcomings?

Facing it means taking it seriously, regarding our own shortcomings. Only by taking it seriously can you continue to grow and reach a higher peak in life. Facing one's own shortcomings also requires a process.

First, see your shortcomings.

There is an Arabic proverb: If you can see a hundred steps away, you cannot see the eyelashes everywhere. The original intention is that the eyes can see things a hundred steps away, but they cannot see their own eyelashes. In other words, we can see very far and see many shortcomings of others, but we cannot find our own shortcomings.

So the first step to discovering your own shortcomings is to discover your own shortcomings. You cannot always discover the shortcomings of others, but always ignore your own shortcomings. Sort out your shortcomings, find them, and believe that you can correct them.

Secondly, avoid the recurrence of shortcomings.

When you know your shortcomings, you must always remind yourself to avoid the recurrence of shortcomings. In this way, you will gradually correct your shortcomings in life.

I have a bad temper and always yell at my children when they make mistakes in their homework. After I realized this shortcoming, I made up my mind to change it. Every time I feel like yelling again, I take a deep breath and let myself calm down for a while. Wait until your mood stabilizes before continuing to explain the topic to your child. Slowly I found that I lost my temper less and less often.

Again, correct your shortcomings.

Correcting shortcomings requires a process. In this process, in addition to avoiding the recurrence of shortcomings, we must also learn to grow in the process of correcting shortcomings. Only in this way can you truly correct your shortcomings.

Growth needs to be practiced throughout life. None of us are perfect, so only by truly correcting our shortcomings can we truly grow.

Shakespeare once said: The best good people are those who have made mistakes; a person will become better in the future because of a small shortcoming.

So, our shortcomings exist for our better growth and should be taken seriously. Discover it, remind yourself of it all the time, and finally, defeat it completely.