1. How can a person not be influenced by others? Everything in the world depends on your own opinion.
sentiment: in other words, go your own way and let others talk.
2. Everyone loves himself more than anyone else, but thinks that other people's opinions are more important than their own opinions.
Feeling: Love yourself is definitely the first priority. Only by loving yourself can we love others better. People are really strange animals. Few people do not care about other people's ideas. So how can we care about other people's opinions? Please refer to the first sentence.
3. If a person doesn't have a constant goal in life, then he can't be consistent throughout his life. Because everyone's ideas and ways of thinking are different, the only thing that can be agreed upon is on issues involving common interests.
Feeling: People who don't have permanent goals are easy to get lost in life. I have had this feeling. The goals are unclear, or the goals are not firm. When walking, they begin to get confused and begin to doubt whether their original choices are correct.
people are all interest seekers, and only when they reach the same interests can they reach an agreement.
4. When you are angry because others made mistakes, it is better to immediately reflect on whether you have made similar mistakes.
sentiment: instead of having time to be angry with others, we should take this as a warning, reflect on ourselves, learn from it, and use our angry efforts to reflect on ourselves.
5. Inner pain is a characteristic of a person's weakness, and so is anger-prone emotion, because people who are easily controlled by anger, like those who are easily trapped in inner pain, will be hurt by themselves and are all a manifestation of submission.
sentiment: the ultimate victim of pain and anger is oneself. Being defeated by emotion is submission.
the above five points are the deepest experience of reading today, which is a feeling after reading. Philosophy is really profound.