On September 1, the famous host Tu Lei posted a particularly positive video on Weibo.

In the video, Tu Lei's daughter Xiaoying said happily: "Dad, I'm going to kindergarten."

Tu Lei reminded: "Do you still remember what dad taught you yesterday?" He kissed Little Cherry and asked: "Is it okay for others to kiss you like this?"

Little Cherry replied: "No." Then she started singing the children's song compiled for her by teacher Tu Lei.

"Shorts and vests protect the body. If others want to touch it, no, say no loudly!"

"Snacks and toys given by strangers are all bad!"

It is not difficult to see that teacher Tu Lei, who loves his daughter very much, had a lot of trouble when Little Cherry first entered kindergarten. , began to subtly educate her to protect herself, and used children's songs to remind her to increase her awareness of prevention.

As the writer Sun Shenglong once said: "These days, the world is not a world for the rich, nor a world for the powerful, but a world for those with a heart."

Rich parents will hire bodyguards, powerful parents will choose schools, and caring parents will cultivate their children's awareness of self-defense.

So, in today's society, how can we better help children protect themselves?

If you want your children to be more vigilant, first of all, parents should pay attention to the way their children express love and establish bounded love. Otherwise, children will think that both boys and girls can have close contact, misleading them into confusion about gender.

As parents, we must set an example and help our children establish a bottom line and not give bad people an opportunity.

Zhang Liang once said in a program: "You cannot kiss your daughter on the mouth. To express love, you can kiss your daughter on the forehead, the back of the hand, or the hair. Girls must be cultivated from an early age. Awareness of self-protection. ”

In one sentence, everyone present nodded in agreement.

Due to gender differences, girls are more submissive and well-behaved, and are more likely to be hurt than boys. Therefore, girls' education should be carried out earlier so that they understand that men and women are different and cannot have close contact.

Only by working hard to improve children's awareness of protection can we ensure that children grow up healthily, safely and happily.

Nowadays, there are many popular science self-protection books on the market. Parents should carefully compare and choose suitable picture books, and subtly educate their children on how to protect themselves in daily life. .

Parents must also be sensitive to some social news involving children's self-protection and learn to use appropriate methods to remind their children.

Anita Yuen once mentioned in the show that she told her son that the paparazzi were all bad uncles and asked her son not to pay attention to them if they saw them.

But her son told her one day: "Mom, the paparazzi are not bad uncles. They even said goodbye."

It can be seen that in the innocent hearts of children, they are very wary of people. In their eyes, a simple goodbye is not a bad uncle.

Therefore, parents should always remind their children that bad guys cannot be seen from the surface. They should always keep their parents' words in mind so that they can better protect themselves.

Parents must not be self-righteous and think that if they tell their children, they will not come into contact with strangers. I would rather say it thousands of times than let go of any detail.

Never underestimate the cruelty of bad people, and never overestimate the vigilance of children.

When children encounter harm or encounter situations that make them feel uncomfortable, many children will have abnormal situations, and if parents cannot If you are aware of the child's condition in time, it is very easy for the child to be harmed twice or for a long time.

Children’s little minds cannot withstand a lot of pressure. Even if they cannot tell you in words, their physical behavior will reveal clues. Parents must Treat children with care, so that problems can be discovered at the first time, and then help children get out of the haze.

If a child takes the initiative to tell his parents what he hates or is unwilling to go to school, parents must accept these emotions of the child and find the problem through appropriate methods. Don’t take it for granted that just because you have found the best school and teacher for him, there will be no problems.

Parents’ blind self-confidence will block their children’s ability to seek help from others, and then become an accomplice to their children’s persecution.

Believing in children more than believing in oneself is the highest level of love given by parents.

Every child is an angel given to us by God, and we have the obligation to protect them.

I hope that every angel can grow up healthily and happily.