It is said that parents are children's first teachers, and family education plays a vital role in children's growth. The first chapter of "Creating a Perfect Classroom —— Development and Practice of School-based Curriculum in Primary Schools" co-edited by Li Yamin and Liu Juan also talks about: Education is human.
I am a teacher and a mother of two children. I am well aware of the importance of family education, and I agree with what Teacher Li said in the book:
? (1) Understand the importance of family education and define the goal of cultivating children.
? ② Follow the law of children's development and exert positive influence on children.
? 3 Improve yourself, set an example and set an example for children.
? Respect and support schools to actively participate in class life and form a joint force between home and school.
Today, as a parent, I will talk about my views from these four aspects.
After all, children are children and are easily influenced by the outside world. At this time, we will help children determine the goals ahead. For example, when I first entered the first grade, I accompanied my children to read nursery rhymes to cultivate their interest in literacy and pinyin and lay a good foundation for future study; Also play simple board games such as gobang and checkers with children, and accompany them to study in another way; Go to the square to exercise with your children every morning during the holidays: running, playing badminton, skipping rope, etc. Go climbing together occasionally to exercise children's perseverance. In short, it is very important to accompany children when they are young, and the role of parents is irreplaceable.
? Because I have a certain foundation in pedagogy and psychology, I know what children should do at which stage. I remember the summer vacation when my little daughter was going to the first grade. In order to do a good job of connecting children, I bought pinyin building blocks for my children, marked everything that can be posted at home with pinyin and Chinese characters, and accompanied my children to swim in the kingdom of pinyin and Chinese characters. I did this to let the child know that I have been with her. When I was in the second grade, I tried to let her read fairy tales and fables. At this time, I also wanted to read them with my children. I didn't let her watch it by herself until the next semester of my second grade, but I always adhered to the principle that when the child watched it, I watched it with her. Although I don't read the same book, I want to tell my children in this way that you are not alone on the way to school. With your mother's company, you will see more and more beautiful scenery.
(3) Since I joined a new teacher in the spring of 2020, I feel that my image in the eyes of children is higher. For an assignment, I will read the book carefully and consult the information until I am satisfied. Seeing that I am so serious about my homework, the children don't need my supervision in the online class. Not only do they attend classes on time and finish their homework carefully, but their handwriting is particularly neat, especially after school starts. They have achieved excellent results, not only because of their own efforts, but also because of what I have done.
One more thing, I think I did a good job. I never let my children watch TV during the day, and certainly not. I never play mobile phone in front of children. As long as the children are doing homework and reading books, I will accompany them. I want to influence them with my actions. I will also accompany them to the bookstore to read books: when the children are young, I will watch them together; When we grow up, we will look at each other and have no influence on each other, but we feel good together and the effect of reading will be better.
? As long as there are activities in the children's class, I will participate. If there is something I can't attend, I will let my family attend. I want the children to know that I participated in your growth. Of course, this can also keep abreast of children's movements and understand their growth. If the child has a problem, I will actively cooperate with the teacher and correct it as soon as possible.
Suhomlinski said: "In a family, only when parents educate themselves can children's self-education be produced there. Without the shining example of parents, all empty talk about children's self-education will become empty talk. Without the example of parents and the light and heat of love shown by parents in mutual care and respect, children's self-education is simply unimaginable. " I always influence my children with my words and deeds. I dare not say that they are the first in the class now, or at least among the best. I deeply realized the importance of family education, so as a teacher, at the beginning of school, I set up a home-school communication group in advance to understand children's preferences, and wrote my first letter to parents on September 2 1 Mid-Autumn Festival:
? The heart of "Little Monster Paradise"
-The first letter to the family of "Little Monster Paradise"
Dear parents and friends,
Hello everyone!
? I am Zhang Chunjuan, the child's Chinese teacher and head teacher. After the Mid-Autumn Festival, I sat in front of the computer and quietly wrote down my beautiful vision of "Little Monster Paradise".
First of all, our class name: Little Monster Paradise.
Good things never seem to need to be deliberately arranged, so our meeting happened quietly. Forty-three lovely children came to the Silver Star Campus where I worked for many years and entered my 1 class and Class 2.
I was thinking about the name of our class before school started. I was deeply shocked, because I like the picture book story "Little Monster Going to School", and because I like little monsters coming to school, from being irritable, shouting and lonely to being happy, confident, friendly and having friends all over the world. I hope the children in our class can be as happy, confident and friendly as little monsters, and then become friends everywhere. "Little Devil's Paradise" was engraved in my heart and became the name of our class.
The little monster paradise in my heart is the mutual tolerance and care among children; It is the mutual understanding and respect between parents and children; It is your family who are honest with us and communicate sincerely. In this way, the class becomes a harmonious and happy family, and every child can gain self-confidence because of respect in this family; Everyone can learn to share love by having it. I believe that the soul nourished by love since childhood must be optimistic, confident and enterprising.
Second, create a scholarly family.
I once said, "I love reading, and I am committed to dedicating the most beautiful children's books to the most beautiful childhood." This is mainly because in every period of life, children naturally have different spiritual hunger and need to read different works; Once the critical period is missed, the mental deficiency may never be made up. Secondly, reading is an effective way to cultivate children's imagination. Therefore, I sincerely hope that everyone will cherish the weekend and spend more time with their children. The more children's books at home, the better.
Third, create a scholarly classroom.
(1) Picture books are the best spiritual nutrition.
This year, I mainly started the process of children's spiritual growth with picture book stories. The main form of picture book teaching is "listening, reading and drawing", which mainly cultivates children's habit and ability to follow.
? "Listening" is the training of children's concentration.
"Reading" is a training to improve children's reading ability.
"Drawing" is a training to enhance children's imagination.
"Speaking" is a training to improve children's expressive ability.
Because of the problem of literacy, children don't have the ability to "read" for the time being. We need our teachers and parents to read stories to children. "Painting" means drawing the stories you have heard or edited; "Say" is to let children talk about the content of their paintings. This is to lay the foundation for children to learn to write a composition. "Speaking" is the most important part. If parents can help their children record, then I can say with certainty: "Children will never worry about writing compositions again."
? What I recommend is that children talk, adults use mobile phones to record, and then help children write words next to the pictures according to the recording. Here I remind everyone that we must respect the language of "childlike innocence". Children learn to write without ghostwriting.
Reading more books can make you more literate, and reading more books can increase your reading. "Reading and literacy" is the real starting line for children. If you win reading, you win life.
(2) Donate children's books to prevent children from reading.
In order to make the "Little Monster Paradise" full of books, I appeal to everyone: write down the names of children's books (picture books) at home and let the children bring them to school. In this way, children can exchange reading and share with each other. Our goal is: by the end of this semester, we will try our best to read at least 50 picture books for each child.
In fact, before the start of school, I have bought more than 30 picture books at my own expense and put them in the classroom for children to read freely. I found that children are like hungry caterpillars, trying to grow up and break into butterflies, but this book can't satisfy children's desire to read at all. So, let's work together for the caterpillar to become a butterfly!
This semester, our class will select "Little Monster's Scholarly Family" and "Little Monster's Reading Bookworm" according to the following aspects: the number of parents and children reading together, the number of photos shared by parents and children, the number of children's books at home, and the number of sketches completed by parents and children. The selected families and children will have certificates and souvenirs, so families should work hard!
Fourth, the order of receiving the family Committee.
As the saying goes, three heads are better than one Zhuge Liang. This year, I have a bold idea: study, be a man, we will teach as teachers; Parents with well-informed babies can participate. For example, any parents who are good at gobang or checkers can contact me and tell their children how to play gobang at school; For example, which parent is a dentist who can tell children how to protect their teeth; If parents are chefs, they can tell their children how to eat a balanced diet and grow up healthily. Wait a minute.
Let's accompany our children to grow up happily together. If you have an idea, please contact me!
When we dream of sailing, we are always full of strength! Family of Little Devil Paradise, today is the traditional festival of our Chinese nation-Mid-Autumn Festival. With this beautiful meaning, I wish the big family of Little Devil Paradise will always be harmonious, beautiful and positive.
Congratulations.
Happy Mid-Autumn Festival and family reunion!
Zhang Chunjuan
202 1 September 21? 19:00
I do this because I want all the children in my class to grow up with their parents in reading and sunshine like my children. Suhomlinski once said: "If there is no high educational literacy of the whole society, first of all, the family, then no matter how hard teachers try, they will not get perfect results. All the problems in the school will be reflected in the family, and the roots of the difficulties in the complicated educational process of the school can also be traced back to the family." I will constantly strive to improve the quality and awareness of parents, and hope that our family and school can work together to cultivate multi-functional talents that satisfy parents, schools and society.