? In fact, success is not difficult. It is difficult to see your role clearly in a chaotic and confusing world.

Once upon a time, there was a blacksmith's shop where a piece of wood had been placed for many years. It has long seen the blacksmith tinkling iron sheets into various utensils. I don't know how envious I am, and I feel inferior for my uselessness. Finally, one day it spoke and said to the blacksmith, Uncle Blacksmith, can you beat me into a spatula? Sickle?

? No, no, no! You have your use! The blacksmith said with a smile.

But wood never thought it would be useful. What it sees every day is just a room full of ironware, and what it hears is the constant jingle and the customers' admiration.

After another three months, Wood got up the courage again and asked the blacksmith, Uncle Blacksmith, I beg you, I really want to be a useful tool. Just turn me into a hoe!

? No, no, no. Your use is not in this respect! Aren't you very useful now? You are the best! The blacksmith explained patiently.

After three months, the wood was fed up and said to the blacksmith, Uncle Blacksmith, I beg you, just turn me into a small shovel! This time, I made up my mind to die!

? The blacksmith reluctantly stuffed the wood into the stove. ? The wood began to burn. ...

When the wood was about to burn out, it saw the bed and cabinet through a door. With the pull of the wind and the whirring of the flame in its heart, it suddenly understood something. It said to the blacksmith in a trembling voice, I finally understand my ignorance, uncle blacksmith! What a pity! At the last moment of my life, I have one last request, and you must promise!

The blacksmith rubbed his wet eyes and nodded helplessly.

Please scatter my ashes into the forest. I want to be a tree and a piece of wood again. ...

? 2? Internal change and external change.

? If it is a flower, there is no need to attract butterflies.

If it is bad meat, no matter how hard you try, flies will always keep coming.

? This is the reason why some people are always successful and some people are always unsatisfactory.

? It should be noted that everything outside is only the result of internal quality attraction.

So the only way to change your destiny is to change your own quality.

? Buddhism calls this rule: according to the report, it turns with the positive report.

? Reported refers to the external world on which body and mind depend, and reported refers to our inner world.

3? Give and get

If you can give what others can't give, you can get what others can't get;

If you can stand what people can't stand, you can certainly achieve what people can't;

? If you only pay what is reasonable, you can only get what is reasonable;

? If a person can't even do reasonable things, then he must not even get what he deserves.

5? Active and passive

? If you don't take the initiative, you will be passive. If you don't take the initiative to give up, you must lose passively. If you don't take the initiative to suffer, you will suffer passively.

? If you don't take the initiative to relax and keep healthy, you will definitely take medicine passively.

? If you don't actively abide by morality and law, you will be passively punished.

? If you don't take the initiative to be modest and low-key, you will be demoted passively.

? If you don't take the initiative to care for love, you will be passively victimized.

? ……

? The bitterness of life is that we let irrationality dominate and choose too much passivity and opposition to beautiful truth and law.

6? harm

? It is painful to be injured, and it will be more painful to be healed. But letting it go will bring endless, unimaginable consequences and even endanger life.

Moral damage is even more so, which affects not only a person's first life, but future generations, generation after generation!

You know, a person's behavior can be made by himself, but the result of his behavior is definitely not borne by himself, and his descendants and relatives will also be implicated and rewarded.

? As the Book of Changes says, accumulating good will lead to Qing Yu, while accumulating bad will lead to many disasters.

Here' Qing' refers to the celebration of' good deeds'; "Bitterness" means that in addition to bearing the consequences, it will also affect ancestors, family members and future generations, as well as the afterlife.

? Disciples Rules also said: I am injured, but I am worried about my family; Morality is hurt, but parents are ashamed.

7? Successful steps

"Heart Sutra" says: whether it is the success of monasticism or the success of learning fame and fortune, there must be four steps:

First, be close to good friends: follow teachers who are virtuous, wise, blessed and skilled.

Second, I heard about politics and law; Accept the teacher's wisdom and moral words and deeds and transcendental ideas.

Third, such as rational thinking: reasoning, thinking, digesting and absorbing according to correct logic, constantly summing up experience and updating ideas.

? Fourth, if you practice the law: practice according to the principles and methods you have understood and persevere until you succeed.

? It can be seen that taking great wisdom as a teacher and introducing transcendental ideas and methods are the secrets of rapid success.

? There are four steps to the same failure? ：

One is to be close to evil friends, and the other is to listen to evil methods.

? Third, be credulous at will; fourth, act blindly.

? A bad friend may be a person, a TV, a DVD, a book, a newspaper or the Internet. Can you be sloppy?

? 8? Key to success

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