People will make many plans in their life, ranging from life plans to dinner plans. Whether in life or at work, we will deal with all kinds of long-term or short-term goal plans.
Then we will find a rule:
The longer the plan is, the more difficult it is to achieve.
in essence,? Plan? It's actually a kind of? Forecast? , which is an implementation guiding standard or criterion for predicting in advance what has not happened in the future.
it has strong uncertainty and will change due to subjective or objective factors. So,? Plan? Or? Ambition? 、? Target? Wait, it should be in a dynamic state.
Zhang Dai said in Four Books: I don't know what to do, but a fool does; Knowing that it can't be done and not doing it, the sage also; It is a saint to know what not to do. ?
That is to say, people who don't know whether to do it or not are stupid; If you know what you shouldn't do, you won't do it. That's a wise man. It's a saint to do it even though you know you can't finish it.
What I want to express here is that we should have the spirit of persevering in the pursuit of ideals.
But after all, this is only a pursuit of virtue and thought. In real life, we need to have the spirit of persistent pursuit of goals, but we should also know how to be flexible in time.
if you know clearly that you can't do it, you still have to go all the way to black. That's it? Stubborn? The paranoid and unwise move.
Therefore, in the process of implementing the life plan, we need to know the basic form of dynamic adjustment of the plan, so as to make better and timely adjustments. There are mainly the following five forms.
Adjustment of the main direction
That is, when your original goal plan is obviously contrary to your personality, talents and interests, the probability of achieving this goal will be very low, even close to zero.
For example, a person who went to social work after graduating from technical secondary school has always been engaged in manual labor and set a goal to become an aerospace expert. Then the probability of achieving this goal is about equal to zero.
This requires us to adjust the goal horizontally in time, capture new information in time and determine new goals.
fostering strengths and avoiding weaknesses is a good way to adjust the main direction objectives.
first, through objective analysis, sort out what you are good at and can do, and then adjust your goals, so that your adjusted main direction goals will have practical significance and be more likely to succeed.
adjustment of target magnitude
that is to say, the main direction is unchanged, but in this direction? Order of magnitude? It is necessary to make timely adjustments. The simple understanding is that the size of the target needs to be adjusted.
If the goal is set too high, the possibility of achieving it in the implementation of the plan will be very low, because we may have backed out when we see the result of this plan.
and if the original goal is set too low, then this goal that can be easily crossed will not have much meaning to life.
so we need to weigh our own ability level and upgrade our goals layer by layer.
You know, when striving for the goal of life, you should not imagine that you can do it once and for all, but be pragmatic, steady and keep moving forward.
At the same time, after a goal is achieved, we should set a higher goal.
The end of the last goal is the beginning of the next higher goal, so that your life can continue to improve and progress.
adjusting in the process of information feedback
Life will not always be smooth sailing. When we encounter some setbacks and fail, we should learn from them and get feedback from the information.
In the process of information feedback, we should constantly revise our plans, so that they can be in our own hands, and the goals can be returned to the fields we are good at.
There are generally two methods in this adjustment process:
One is to correct the target in the direction of the field that you are good at; The second is to improve their ability range to ensure the realization of the goal.
often both can achieve better results at the same time.
is this a wise saying? Failure is the mother of success? The reason is that failure is not the result, but the feedback of information.
Therefore, only when we get the information feedback can we really adjust our plans? Failure? Become? Mother of success? .
predictive adjustment
the world is constantly changing. Similarly, various factors in our goal plan, such as ability level, behavior habits and objective environment, are constantly changing.
so when we carry out our life goal plan, we should be good at making a plan? Advance? And make the next prediction or pre-judgment.
so as to make an idea and plan for our goals, so as not to wait until we meet them? Variable? If you try to find a way again, you will be in a hurry and even have no way to start.
there is a mysterious but often accurate thing called? Intuition? .
actually? Intuition? Whether it is accurate or not is often closely related to a person's knowledge reserve and experience.
what's this like? Anticipation? There are similarities, so to improve the accuracy of predictive adjustment, we need to accumulate a lot of knowledge reserves and experience.
Appropriate adjustment of stage goals
We all know that to achieve a big goal, it needs to be broken down into many small goals.
it is common to constantly revise and adjust small goals when the big goals remain unchanged.
so what the ancients said? Do what you know you can't do? Perseverance refers to the unswerving pursuit of a good big goal for life.
in order to pursue and achieve this big goal, we can better achieve this result by properly adjusting the plan of small goals.
in our daily life, we like to call it? Change your mind? .
flexible thinking, firm direction and hard work will make it easier to achieve your goals and achieve success.