The world is full of knowledge and the cultivation of human feelings is an article. This sentence is mixed, but it should be admitted that there is some truth in this sentence.
Because it is so important to know people, some people say, lend me a pair of discerning eyes. I wish I had bright eyes. I envy them. The Monkey King's critical eyes can see through others at a glance, and at the sight of others' actions, he can gain insight into others' minds.
As we all know, people who are good at viewing others view themselves, while those who are good at viewing themselves view their own hearts. Only honest people can see themselves clearly. The so-called flat is bright, and bright is bright, which is what it means.
Knowing people and governing the country certainly requires a heart and method that is good at comparison, but it also requires self-discipline. Self-study is self-cultivation, self-correction of wrong ideas, self-correction of bad habits and so on. Self-discipline means making rules, obeying rules, obeying rules, obeying rules. If you know whether your heart is right or not, you can know whether your own people are right or not, and you can judge whether others are right or not. If you know how to distinguish things, you will know whether your own things are right or not, and you will know whether others' things are right or not. Know the world, know what's going on in the world, and start from your own heart. Your heart is the starting point, the starting point of being a man and doing things. Yue Fei said that the beauty of management lies in one heart. How many people in the world can control their hearts freely?
There are two kinds of statements, which seem contradictory. First, people's hearts are connected, and their hearts are connected. I first heard from my Chinese teacher that it was in grade one. Second, everyone has his own heart and mind. I saw this at the beginning of the year. In the field of fame and fortune, the first rule applies. In this case, the second one is applicable. I also found that every time I say an opinion or an argument, someone always refutes it. Maybe it's because I don't know what's going on. Maybe I don't speak well, but I still like listening. I like to read all kinds of comments from netizens, and agree or disagree or even open my mind. This is a good place to broaden one's horizons and ideas, and it is also a good way to learn and cultivate comparative thinking, because listening while listening is bright or dark.
A bosom friend means knowing your own advantages and disadvantages, your own way of thinking, your own three views, your own attitude towards life, your own way of doing things and so on. That's all there is to know people. But the human heart and the stomach are separated, so comparative classification is still applied.
Because I am not a genius, because I am not smart enough, I have made a method or policy for myself. To do something, we must grasp a point, which I think is the most important principle or law, and then stick to this point. Of course, there may be adjustments in doing things, but this remains the same and is an upgraded version of this. This point is the key point, knowledge point, technology point, value point, power point, strength point, foundation point, basic point, starting point and ending point.
Look at people, but also start from one point. This man, with a clean face and neat and serious clothes, is an educated man; This person, speaking in an orderly way, is a rigorous person; This man, open-minded and easy-going, is a man who can say things. And so on. I think the most important thing is to see a person's advantages quickly and remember them for a long time, which can be used as an initial heart.
As the saying goes, becoming a monk is more than enough, but not enough to become a Buddha. So don't forget that your active thinking is very important. Many people think that if they know each other as before, they will have no resentment in their old age. For example, brothers should support each other and make progress together. This is the initial heart. If you can go to Do not forget your initiative mind, you can keep your original heart, that is, when you are young, when you grow up, when you are old, you are still brothers. It should be good to make friends with others.
Zeng Guofan said that if people blindly see right and wrong, they will be sick everywhere and angry all day long. This sentence is very incisive in reality. We often see some annoying people everywhere. Because such people only see the shortcomings of others, but can't see the advantages of others. When he speaks, he can't say good things, often hurts people and attracts people everywhere. If you offend people just because you talk, and you run into a wall everywhere, it's not worth it, so nothing can be done. It should be the most wrong thing for a person with great talent to fail to do something because of some details. Such people and such things are common in history. We should be vigilant to avoid it.
When you get along with others, you should see the benefits of others, the strengths of others, the strengths of others, and the abilities that others have that you don't have. As for the shortcomings of others, that is, the so-called shortcomings that you take for granted, you should put yourself in others' shoes, change your role, don't brag, don't hide your shortcomings, and know that you are not a saint. You should know that you are not perfect.
As the ancients said, people are born stupid, that is, they hate hearing others talk about themselves, and they are born evil, that is, they are good at talking about others.
He also said that if you don't see yourself clearly, you will never become a saint. Like to talk about people, it hurts the sum of heaven and earth, which is disgusting. You can't avoid swearing.
People have the same heart, the same reason, know each other and know each other. Everyone has his own ideas, and we should seek common ground while reserving differences and cooperate. Don't cover up the beauty of the people because of being petty, don't forget the kindness of the people because of being petty, and don't be biased and not know the whole picture.
People are divided into good and evil, good and evil, good and evil, virtuous and foolish, diligent and lazy, expensive and cheap, modest and arrogant, honest and treacherous, strong and weak, and so on. However, if you want to know people, you must first correct yourself. If your eyes are crooked, you will see people crooked. If you are not honest with yourself, you can't judge people correctly, and you can't say that you know people. If you are dishonest with yourself, you can't do things honestly, and you can't say that you can do things. I said, being honest with yourself is the starting point to know people and things, right?
I don't even know what I'm talking about, but I hope someone can understand.