As Tang Jun, the "working emperor", said, "I think there are two kinds of people who should not compete with others for benefits and value returns. The first kind of people are those who have just entered the enterprise. Never say whether you can give me a little more salary in the first five years. The most important thing is what you can learn in the enterprise and whether it is beneficial to development ... "
People always learn less from flatness and more from hardships; The lessons learned from flatness are shallow, and the lessons learned from hardships are deep. A person who experiences hardships when he is young is a person worthy of admiration if he can see them correctly and rush out of the darkness. The most important thing is to practice internal skills first. The five years after graduation is the best time to practice internal skills. Only by practicing internal skills can we climb higher in the future.
where is the way out? The way out lies in thinking!
In fact, no money, no experience, no experience and no social relations are not terrible. If you have no money, you can earn it through hard work; If you have no experience, you can summarize it through practical operation; Without experience, you can accumulate step by step; Without social relations, you can knit bit by bit. However, having no dreams and no ideas is the most terrible thing, which makes people feel scared and want to escape!
people must have a correct direction, no matter how high-spirited you are, no matter how resourceful you are, no matter how much effort you spend, if you don't have a clear direction, you will be at a loss, gradually lose your fighting spirit, forget your original dream, and take a detour or even never return, wasting your intelligence and missing your youth.
There is a wise saying in Homer's epic Odyssey: "Nothing is more unbearable than wandering aimlessly." Confusion in these five years after graduation will cause panic in 1 years, struggle in 2 years, and even mediocrity for a lifetime. If we can't get out of the confusion and fog as soon as possible in the five years after graduation, we really have no face to face ourselves 1 or 2 years later. In the five years since graduation, we have both many uncertainties and many possibilities.
In the five years since graduation, we have a lot to be determined and a lot of decisions.
Everyone will experience confusion and confusion, and everyone has experienced fear and escape, but don't take confusion and confusion as an excuse to give up on yourself and be content with mediocrity, let alone become a bitter wine of self-pity and mourning for disappointment. Life needs to be borne by yourself, and fate needs to be grasped by yourself. In the five years since graduation, the sooner you find your way and get out of your confusion, the easier it will be to achieve success and create wonderful things on the road of life. Headless flies will hit the wall when they can't find the direction; If a person can't find a way out, he will be confused and afraid.
In life, when faced with difficulties, we often feel cornered. Don't be discouraged, stick to it, and believe that there is no dead end in young life, with difficulties ahead and hope at the corner. As long as we have the right ideas, we will certainly be able to take fewer detours and find a way out!
successful people don't win at the starting point, but at the turning point.
Many young people who have just graduated always expect to find their ideal job right away. However, many good jobs can't wait. You must choose a job as experience. The first job in the career journey is undoubtedly the starting point of entering the university of society. Maybe you have found a unsatisfactory job, so start from here, settle yourself well, and learn valuable nutrition from this job. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. As long as you set out, there is hope to reach the end. The starting point can be the same, but if you choose a different inflection point, the ending point will be very different!
In the past few years after graduation, there are many uncertain factors in our life, feelings and careers, and the future is full of possibilities. At this time, we must learn to choose, know how to give up, give ourselves a clear position and stabilize ourselves. If you don't take the initiative to position yourself, you will be "stereotyped" by others and society!
It can be said that a person's behavior habits cultivated in the five years after graduation will determine the height of his life. Whether we can succeed or not depends to some extent on our own evaluation of ourselves, which is positioning. You are what you define yourself to be. Positioning can determine life, and positioning can change fate. The ugly duckling turns into a white swan, just a pair of wings; Cinderella becomes a beautiful princess, just a pair of water crystal shoes.
a person's life is doomed in three minutes, and seven minutes depends on hard work. If you dream, you will be "red", and if you love hard work, you will win. As long as you don't bind yourself in the cage of your heart, no one can bind you to fly high.
the reality is far from what they think. Therefore, when the sense of superiority gradually turns into a sense of loss or even frustration, when you firmly believe that you are a piece of "gold" to doubt that you are a grain of "sand", anger, confusion and inferiority begin to increase day by day.
Actually, you should weigh yourself carefully. Are you really gold? It's real gold. You have to have unique skills in your hands to be outstanding in the world. Bottom line: Real gold depends on strength to prove it. Only when you have cultivated your skills first can you be qualified to consider Bole. Every pearl is originally a grain of sand, but not every grain of sand can become a pearl.
if you want to stand out from the crowd, you must have the capital to stand out from the crowd. Can't stand blows and setbacks, can't stand neglect and dullness, and it's hard to achieve brilliance. If young people want to be reused and succeed, they must turn themselves from a grain of sand into a priceless pearl.
The weather has rain and sunrise, and life has peaks and valleys. Don't cover your eyes with floating clouds, you should keep an eye on the scenery. As long as the haze is brushed away, the clear sky will shine. If you are not satisfied with your work, you should believe that you will not be at the bottom of your life all the time, and you will be able to break through the clouds one day. Tell yourself: I have not failed, but I have not succeeded for the time being! As long as you light a lamp of hope in your heart, you will surely dispel the haze in the darkness and usher in the light.
Indeed, as far as qualifications are concerned, they are out-and-out novices in the workplace. Their business is not deep, their contacts are poor, and they often run into a wall at work. Their pressure is not necessarily like a fateful stone, but like the sky before the heavy rain. It is dark and gray, and there is room, but every gap is filled with gray, and they can only wait for the clear sky after the heavy rain.
"Get up earlier than chickens, go to bed later than dogs, do more than donkeys and eat worse than pigs." This is what many recent graduates like to use to tease their living conditions. Although it is a bit exaggerated, many of them have always been shrouded in gray mood-their hearts are always cloudy and cloudy. I remember a philosopher once said, "Our pain is not caused by the problems themselves, but by our views on these problems." Looking at life from another angle is a kind of breakthrough, a kind of liberation, a kind of transcendence, a kind of high-level indifference and tranquility, so as to obtain free happiness.
A philosopher said, "Life is a series of choices. Everyone's future and destiny are entirely in their own hands. As long as they work hard, they will eventually succeed." Whether it's getting a job, choosing a job or starting a business, as long as you work hard, you will succeed. Are you going to give all the promises of your life to others?
The five years after graduation are the golden age to change your destiny. When you can best decide your own destiny, if you are not sure, when will you wait? I am in charge of my life, and my fate is beyond my control.
don't live in other people's mouths or eyes, but hold your destiny in your own hands.
don't say you have no background, you are the biggest background. American writer Jack? Kerouac once said, "I am still young, and I am eager to get on the road." In the journey of life, we will always be young people and should be full of longing every day. Everyone's potential is unlimited. The key is to discover their potential and correctly understand their talents, and find a stage where they can give full play to their potential, instead of just being unhappy about the inappropriateness of the stage. We should treat our abilities objectively and fairly, choose calmly according to our actual situation and hobbies, and go to the place that needs us most and suits us best as far as possible.
In the field of human resource management, there is a particularly popular saying, that is, the theory of "riding a horse, pulling cattle, driving pigs and beating dogs": the one with good character and strong ability is a swift horse, and we should ride him; The person with good character but ordinary ability is an ox, and we should hold him; The "pig", whose character and ability are ordinary, should be driven away. Those with poor character and strong ability are "dogs", and we should crack down on them.
I think, just a few years after graduation, you are equally ambitious and want to be a swift horse that is appreciated and galloped on the battlefield. Then, let it settle down. Being low is not equal to being inferior. Today's condescension is for tomorrow's job. The value of life means that our existence is valuable to others. It's a good thing to be used, but it's really sad that nobody cares!
being able to work and doing a good job is the basic guarantee for the survival of the workplace. The prerequisite for anyone to do a job is that he is competent for the job. Competency is the most basic standard for qualified employees, while willingness is an attitude. There are many people who are qualified for a position and have the basic ability to do the job well. However, whether you can do the job better depends on whether you have a down-to-earth attitude and are struggling to study.
work hard on the basis of competence. At work, you do more work than others, and you feel cheated; If you get less money than others, you feel cheated; If you often work overtime, you feel cheated ... In fact, there is no need to care so much. Losing is not a disaster, not a failure, but also a philosophy of life. Eat a small loss now and pave the way for success. Maybe at some point in the future, your great happiness will suddenly come.
being able to suffer losses is a realm of being a man and a wisdom of dealing with the world.
At work, it's either doing more work or helping others do more work or losing money. If the leader asks you to work overtime and catch up with the task, don't think that you have suffered a big loss. Instead, you should be thankful, because the leader only called you and didn't call anyone else, which shows that he trusts you and appreciates you. Losing is a kind of contribution. The more you contribute, the more you will get in return. Being willing to work overtime is such a loss.
if you are willing to give up, you will get it if you give up; People who learn to suffer some losses at the right time are definitely not retarded, but great wisdom.
to leave room for others is to leave room for yourself, to be convenient for others is to be convenient for yourself, and to be kind to others is to be kind to yourself.
A fool is blessed, because he has no calculation. With such people, you can relax physically and mentally and get close to each other without too much vigilance. Stupidity often means persistence and loyalty, but also means generosity and honesty, which makes people unconsciously stand on his side. Fools get more by accident than wise men get by all their pains. In the past few years after graduation, there are only a few snowflakes floating in your sky, so are you satisfied? Success requires persistence and accumulation. Instead of focusing on collecting snowflakes, it is better to save energy to snowball. Buffett said: "Life is like snowballing, the most important thing is to find wet snow and long slopes." Let yourself settle down, learn to find "very wet snow" and try to find "very long slope". Remember: scattered snowflakes will melt quickly and disappear. Only snowballs are more realistic and can last for a long time.
In the past few years after graduation, if you can work harder than others, it means accumulating more capital than others, and you will have one more chance of success than others.
what is professionalism? Professionalization is the standardization, standardization and institutionalization of working conditions, that is, saying and doing the right things in the right way at the right time and place, so that knowledge, skills, ideas, thinking, attitudes and psychology can conform to professional norms and standards.
"In every industry, there are many outstanding talents. They exist because they are harder, wiser and more mature than others. But, most importantly, they are more professional than the average person! That's why I can be your boss now. It is not enough for a person to specialize. Only a professional person can fly in front of others and make it difficult to surpass them! " Don't think that we are now living in peace. For those who have graduated for five years, they must recognize the five major challenges that they will face.
first, support parents.
second, get married and have children.
third, promotion and salary increase.
fourth, the working pressure.
5. Quality of life.
Some people jump for joy for survival, and their eyes always stop behind them. They spend three days fishing and two days drying their nets, which never ends. Some people struggle for development, always keep their eyes on the front, make a little progress every day and persevere.
in the past few years after graduation, we can't live without pursuit and exploration, and we can't live without ideals and goals. Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. A life that is content with the status quo is a ship that never moves forward, and can no longer catch up with the pace of the times. We must seize every second to study, and understand that learning is not a student's patent. Smart people are most proud of: what have they done? What a wise man craves most is: what else do you want to do?
cleverness is tactics and great wisdom is strategy; Cleverness sees sesame seeds, while great wisdom sees watermelon.
In this world, there are both big people and small roles. Big people have the lifestyle of big people, while small people have the chic of small people. Everyone has their own way of life, and no one can force anyone. However, cleverness can only have small achievements and small vision, and great wisdom can have great achievements and great realm. Small enterprises look at the boss, medium enterprises look at the system, and large enterprises look at culture.
both small companies and large enterprises have ways to survive, and there is no difference between good and bad, but the impact on a person at different stages will be different.
Small companies definitely want to develop into large enterprises, which is a goal, and young people should also set goals for their careers. After a few years of graduation, do you often get stage fright or feel powerless? Be prepared for danger in times of peace is definitely not an alarmist! Take a nap at this moment, you will have a dream; Study at this moment, and your dream will come true. In the highly competitive battlefield of life, those who nap are losers!
Everyone seems to be full of lofty sentiments when he is young, and he is not afraid of anything. However, as he grows older, he thinks about the mundane things such as house, work and supporting his family every day, and he no longer has the courage to "explore the stars in the sky and fish for the moon in the sea" when he was young. Did we change our lives, or did life change us? Our thoughts are getting more and more complicated, because with more and more reluctance and more and more concerns, we are always wandering and always hesitating. One or two years after graduation, the burden of life will make us breathless, and setbacks and obstacles will block all directions. We are often forced to exert our potential before we can find a way out in deus ex. But after two or three years, the burden on us began to lighten and the work began to be smooth, so we relaxed and gradually forgot the potential dangers. Until one day, when the crisis suddenly came, we were defeated at a loss ... After graduation, we are still in a dangerous period. We must have the awareness of being prepared for danger in times of peace and work hard, so that we can have a real safe life!
born in sorrow, died in happiness. If you want to surpass your current achievements, you can't limit yourself, but be brave enough to accept challenges. Come to those who are timid