? Thinking about divorce means: in marriage, you have suffered and despaired. ......
? "Marriage is the grave of love". Under close reading, people always feel that love is sacred and noble, but marriage has buried noble love.
? Is marriage really that terrible?
? In my opinion, marriage is: the umbrella of love, the fertile soil of love, and the preservative of love.
? Two loving people continue their love in the form of marriage and are full of expectations for each other.
There is a famous saying in Lolita: People can't hide three things: poverty, cough and love. When love is strong, it flows in my heart, and now it is in my eyes. Every move is full of love. Love flows in life: after marriage, two people's bumps can also create a sweet and moving voice, which is continuous love.
? This reminds me of Laba porridge. On Laba Day, my mother-in-law cooked a pot of delicious Laba porridge with twelve kinds of ingredients. From cleaning to putting the pot, I heard the collision of various ingredients and saw that each ingredient was elongated and became full. Slowly, there began to be bubbling sound in the pot, and the ingredients began to collide and blend. What a wonderful thing!
? Married life is trivial and complicated. In the rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, you are exposed to your own variety. For a long time, we have been getting to know each other again. After that, the process of integration began. You have me and I have you.
? Love, soaked, soaked and stretched in trivial marriage life, eventually becomes what you like.
? If love had a shape, what would it look like in your eyes?
? ......
? In my eyes, it must be like words.
? I like to record ordinary and delicate touching moments with all kinds of exquisite stationery. My love for these details keeps me warm. In my opinion, these words will be the longest companion of another partner.
? Can you dance in chains?
? In fact, you are married and dance in chains every day.
? The essence of marriage is to restrain each other and restrain our impulses. Default: Divorce will cost a lot of money. Marriage often means close economic and legal integration between the two parties.
. ? In life, we have many impulses. Sometimes anger is directed at the heart and needs to be vented urgently; Sometimes I like the new and hate the old, and even I am eager to get rid of my current partner. But when we looked for the exit, we found that we ran into a wall everywhere. We will consider that divorce will cost a lot of money, be embarrassing and take time, so we have to give up.
? The marriage system, to some extent, is to restrain the lustful, ungrateful, wanton and lustful self. Abide by this system because we essentially believe that everyone will make bad choices driven by short-term interests. The normal state of marriage is that we often fantasize that we are not married. The point of marriage is to make this idea irrelevant. It protects us from desires and wakes up when our minds are rational: we don't really need or even want to satisfy these desires.
? I quite agree with "don't treat your wife as a relative": don't treat your wife as a relative, I just hope you don't vent your emotions on your wife unscrupulously. Of course it also applies to husbands.
? Marriage is a new course. Facing this new course, you should have a zero mentality, a modest attitude and an introverted feeling. Only in this way can you consult modestly and cherish it. Give full play to their respective strengths and have an appreciation attitude towards each other. Let each other bloom freely in marriage and live their own lives easily.
? ? Duras once said: "For you and me, love is not only a kinship, but also an empathy. It is an immortal desire and a heroic dream in a tired life. " Love is an indispensable condiment in life, which is rare and tasteless; Yes, it is delicious. Love will definitely bring vitality to a tired life, activate taste buds and have a beating on the tip of the tongue.
? I have come into contact with many families, most of whom have been married for six or seven years, or even in a shorter period of time, and have little time to communicate. When talking about the other half, the words are full of disgust, as if to oneself, the other half is just a cohabiting person. They are not mentally * * * and emotionally * *. They just make do.
? But it is much better than those who always shout, "divorce if you can't live any longer." You can't live in this marriage. So can you guarantee that you can enjoy yourself safely in your next marriage? It is unwise to always run away. In the final analysis, you need to practice in marriage and make good use of the Dojo of marriage. In the process of groping, find the connection point between two people and use it as a link to help each other grow up and enjoy marriage.
? ? Marriage is not easy, but it should be repaired and cherished!
I am a golden bean broken by life.
I just look at marriage with my attitude.
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