1. Stand firm and defeat selfish desires

Lesson: Zhu Ziyun: "When people do bad things, their hearts are uneasy. This is conscience. But if they are blinded by selfish desires, even though they have There is no way to win the clue. You must fight hard and not lose to him. If you know that this is not a good thing, you should stand firm and take the good road. When you are familiar with it, you will not be able to keep your selfish desires." Verses are the most important part of a person's mind. Conscience can overcome selfish desires, and this is the way to become a saint and a virtuous person. Those who wish to establish their body and mind should study these words in detail.

2. Keep everything in mind and body and seek truth from yourself

Tuition: Zhu Ziyun: "The method of reading should be sequential and consistent, consistent and calm. Read the meaning of the sentence, and experience the actual practice, and then calm down and understand, and gradually understand the meaning. Otherwise, even if you are seeking to gain something, reciting it five times a day will also be beneficial to learning. "This is just reading! It's very important. When people read, they originally want to keep everything in mind and body, and seek truth for themselves. Otherwise, what is the use of reading the book casually? All scholars should take this as a lesson.

3. You can’t bear to give up the prescription to get the true taste of the book

Tuition: Zhu Ziyun: “You must read to the point where you can’t bear to give up, then you can get the true taste of the book. If you read too many times, you will get the true taste of the book. Those who have a brief understanding of its meaning will be disgusted with it, and those who want to read it elsewhere will not be interested in this book." This is extremely true. I have always been diligent in reading since I was a child. When I read a certain sutra, I will always talk about it and remember it. Over the years, I have read through it and found some that deserve detailed explanations. Zhu Zisi said that all readers should know it.

4. To advance morally and cultivate one's career, rely on the classics and history

The teachings say: For ordinary people to advance morally and cultivate one's career, everything should start with reading. If you read more, your appetites will be weak. If your appetites are weak, you will save money. If you save money, you will have less business. If you have less business, you will have high moral standards. The method of reading is mainly based on classics. Gou's classics are profound, and then he observes history. By observing history, you can know the virtues and foolishness of people, and you can easily understand the gains and losses in situations. Therefore, everything can be judged by the old and the young, but when it comes to reading, it does not matter whether it is the old or the young. If you read one volume, you will gain one volume; if you read one day, you will gain one day's benefit. This master is so angry that he forgets to eat, and it is as if he has failed to learn.

5. There are nine people in the mountain and they cannot be neglected.

The saying goes: There has always been knowledge of birth, knowledge of learning, and knowledge of difficulties, and even if they are successful, none of them will exist. Those who have been away from school for a long time and are unable to reach the top should not wait for progress, especially not give up halfway. "Book" says: "For nine people, only one step will fall short." It is a pity for those who give up halfway.

6. The merits of learning are not beyond daily needs.

The training says: The merits of learning are not beyond daily needs. If you are in self-discipline, be careful in your words and deeds. When you are at home, be caring for your family. Respect your elders and read handouts if you are poor. If it's near and easy, you can use your strength now; if it's urgent and urgent, you can use your strength now. A day's effort will produce a day's effect. When you have doubts, if you seek help from others and ask questions, your progress will be immeasurable. If you don't use any strength now and waste your youthful years, even if you find a sage and learn from him in the future, it may not be beneficial.

7. Pursue knowledge through hard work and get it by doing

Tuition: An ancient Confucian scholar once said: "Pursuing theory is not one end, and what you get is not one place. Either you get it through reading, or you get it from reading. You can get it by talking, thinking, or doing. Although you can get a lot from reading, you can get it quickly by talking, and you can get it most deeply by thinking, and you can get it most practically by acting. Scholars who study things to gain knowledge should know it.

8. If you be patient for a while, you will feel that nothing is wrong.

Xun said: There is nothing in the world that cannot be overcome. If you be patient for a while, you will feel that nothing is happening. For example, every trivial matter such as chickens and dogs among neighbors in the township party will lead to lawsuits and complaints from the officials; or a joke will lead to a corner fight. All of this is due to the fact that a small moment of anger cannot lead to a major dispute. Confucius said: "A little impatience will mess up a big plan." The words of the sage are the most reasonable.

9. Do your best to obey the destiny of heaven

The ancients said: "Do your best to obey the destiny of heaven." Oh, this is true! When human resources and affairs are exhausted, Heaven's principles dictate that those who manage agriculture should work diligently, but good harvests and poor harvests are not necessary. Those who fail to do human affairs are abandoning their fields and neglecting the trees; those who are not willing to listen quietly are those who pick up the seedlings and help their elders. Confucius advances with propriety and retreats with righteousness, so he does his best in human affairs. If you don't get it, you can say: "It's destiny." It's just to obey the destiny.

10. Learning to nourish the mind can also nourish the body

The training says: Learning to nourish the mind can also nourish the body. If you can't afford to worry about distracting thoughts, your soul will be clear and clear, your blood and energy will be at peace, your illness will be gone, and your good will will arise spontaneously. This is the mutual support of internal and external forces.

11. Shen Jingxin and the heart and the whole body

Tuition: Zhuangzi said: "Don't work your body, don't shake your essence." He also quoted Geng Sangzi and said: " Don't make you think about camp.

"If you have few thoughts, you can nourish your mind; if you have few desires, you can nourish your essence; if you have few words, you can nourish your Qi. Knowing this, you can maintain your health." Therefore, form is the tool of life; heart is the master of form; spirit is the gathering place of heart. When the spirit is calm, the mind is harmonious, and when the mind is harmonious, the body is complete. If you keep your mind calm and nourished, you will be at peace within yourself; if your mind is pure and empty, you will not be tempted by the outside world; if your mind is calm and your mind is pure, your body will be free from any burden.

12. Learn from the past and learn from the mistakes behind

Exhortation: Words of admonition can be found everywhere in ancient and modern famous treatises and Qianqi records. He is diligent and earnest, exhorting and demanding things repeatedly, hoping that people will listen and obey them. Why should people who are less than a thousand years old, and people who are more than a thousand years old, be concerned and earnestly admonish them like this? I want to use a famous saying to remind people who are less than a thousand years old, so that they will know that the car in front is overturned, and it will serve as a warning for those behind. also. Later, when I learned to read the books of sages, I saw that the ancients were so sincere in teaching people ideas, how could I just ignore them hastily? Therefore, I often teach people to read the ancient books, and they must remember the painstaking efforts of the authors, and do not let the predecessors learn from them.

Maxims and aphorisms about educating children

1. Family education focuses on virtue, and the most important thing in being a good person is harmony.

2. Honest people first, and teach by example.

3. Get up early when you are on the road, and take advantage of the opportunity to teach your children.

1. Family education focuses on morality, and being a person is important.

2. Honest people first, and teach by example.

3. Get up early when you are on the road, and teach your children while they are young.

4. Establish moral integrity in the present and past, and collect books to teach future generations.

5. Teach your children with virtue and inspire them with virtue. To obey the disciples with reason, to practice righteousness.

6. If jade is not polished, it will not become a tool; if a person does not learn, he will not know righteousness.

7. Parents are the mirror of their children, and children are the epitome of their parents.

8. A harmonious family is the best gift that parents can give their children.

9. It is better to use words to persuade children than to beat and scold them with fists and kicks.

10. Establish sincere friendship with children and let them learn to be considerate.

11. A warm and harmonious family is the cradle of children’s healthy growth.

12. It is better to educate your children than to accumulate widely. It is better to focus on education when investing.

13. Doting does not mean caring for one’s children; strict education is true care.

14. Learn with reason and move with emotion. Emotion and reason complement each other, which is the way to teach children.

15. The family is a child’s first classroom, and parents are their children’s first teachers.

16. Incompetent parents beat and scold, excellent parents set examples, and great parents inspire.

17. As a parent, you must know more about your children; as a child, you must be more considerate of your parents.

18. Educate him with truth, infect him with actions, and nurture him with love.

19. Being diligent and studious is a role model for parents; being peaceful and respectful is a good way to teach your children.

20. Giving money to your children is only for temporary needs; passing on virtues and talents to your children can benefit you throughout your life.

21. The virtue of parents is the greatest wealth of children; the hearts of parents are the vast sky for children.

22. You are both your child’s parents and your child’s friend; you are both your child’s parent and your child’s teacher.

23. Give him a space and let him move forward; give him a time and let him make his own arrangements; give him a difficulty and let him solve it by himself; give him an opponent and let him Compete by yourself; give him a right to choose by himself; give him a topic and let him create it by himself.

Quotes about true love

Quotes about true love

1. Love is an innocent kite, pulling the person you love the most.

2. Love is like multiplication, one of the terms is zero, and the result is always zero.

3. Those you love most may not be suitable for being together. Falling in love means letting each other be themselves.

4. Love is like a mirror. It has cracks, so the scenery in the mirror is also distorted.

5. Women use friendship to reject love. Men trade friendship for love.

6. In this familiar yet unfamiliar city, I am helplessly looking for a strange yet familiar figure.

7. We met at the wrong time and separated at the right time.

8. Because you exist in the living world, I want to continue living no matter what.

9. I love you, and for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything, including you.

10. Maybe love is like this. They love each other deeply, but they torture each other. The torture remains the same, just because the love still continues.

11. I will always love you until I fall in love with another person.

12. Loneliness does not mean that no one is by your side. But no one is in your heart.

13. Men like women who are pure, and women like men who are bad. Men and women are always contradictory subjects.

14. Love is like depositing money in a bank. Appreciating the other person’s strengths is like supplementing income; tolerating the other person’s shortcomings is like controlling spending. The so-called eternal love is love from beauty to gray hair, love from flower to flower. ——Bacon

15. In unforgettable love, there are not only laughter, but also tears. In lingering love, there is too much sadness and melancholy.

16. When the weather changes, it means it will rain; when people change, it means they change their hearts.

17. Lasting love comes from each other’s true love from the heart and is based on equality. Anyone who only cares about loving others crazily without caring about whether they are loved, or who only cares about enjoying being loved without knowing how to truly love others will not have a good ending.

18. A man should find someone he loves as his wife, and a woman should find someone who loves her as her husband.

19. Loneliness does not mean that there is no one by your side. It’s that no one is in your heart.

20. It is not because you are the only one in the world that I will love you, but because I love you, you are the only one in the world.

21. Two hearts are destined to become odd numbers, either too crowded or too lonely.

22. What is romance? Sending flowers? Walking in the rain? Are you standing in front of the building? If two people are deeply in love with each other, they will feel romantic if they do nothing and just look at each other quietly. Otherwise, even if two people sit on the moon and date, they will not feel romantic.

23. When we begin, we know that there will always be an end.

24. When tears are about to flow down, we should learn to stand on our heads, because only in that way can we return the tears to the eyes where they belong.

25. Commitments have no uniform credibility.

26. What are you doing? We are looking up at the sky.

27. Some people are destined to wait for others, and some people are destined to be waited for.

28. The love you want and the happiness you want are just holding hands and looking at each other in ordinary days day by day; just the happiness accompanying each other as time passes day by day; just simple greetings day by day; just the warmth when getting along. Care; just one day, the beautiful moment when we enter marriage.

29. Your heart can carry my reincarnation, but my palm prints cannot atone for our sins.

30. My tears touch your eyebrows, but your smile cannot match my tears.

31. Happiness is not a person’s words.

32. What is Du’s admiration for? It’s the angle from which we miss her. Why should we raise our head to 30 degrees? In order to prevent our tears from falling.

33. A person always has to take a strange road, see strange scenery, listen to strange songs, and then at an inadvertent moment, you will find that the things you tried so hard to forget are really Just forgot about it.

34. One day, the sky fell in love with the sea, but the air blocked them. They could not love each other, so the sky cried, and the tears fell into the sea. Even if we can't love each other, the sky will entrust our souls to the sea. From then on, the sea was bluer than the sky.

35. What are you doing? I'm looking up at the sky.

36. Escape may not necessarily be inevitable, and facing may not be the most uncomfortable.

37. Your heart can carry my reincarnation, but my palm prints cannot atone for my sins.

38. Love is attractive and marriage is binding. Trying to escape both is futile.

39. By standing on tiptoes, can we get closer to happiness?

40. Love is like multiplication, one of which is zero, its effect will always be zero.

41. There is a kind of pain that screams reluctance. You want to have it but can’t take a step forward. You want to leave but you can’t let it go. You are born passionate but ruthless. You can’t control it or wander around. You can only watch and feel heartbroken and speechless. I can only listen and my heart is far away. Cutting off roots and thoughts cannot cut off love.

42. Give us a tear, and we will see the whole ocean in your heart

43. The princes began to live in seclusion, and all the women saw were white horses

44. If stones can shed tears, I want to be a stubborn stone and cry against your heart. At least, I can feel your warmth.

45. When a man is truly emotional, his love is much greater than a woman's love. But from another perspective, a woman's hatred of someone lasts much longer than a man's.

46. When we begin, we know that there will always be an end.

47. Because you have loved, you will not be an enemy; because you have been hurt, you will not be friends.

48. The flowers are blooming like brocade, and life is a fickle play. I don’t care if you say I am hypocritical.

49. Even if you cannot be kind, it is still kindness, but the illusion is thin. No matter how intense it is, it is still just a firework, leaving nothing but cold dust on the ground.

50. If I forget you and feel like two strangers passing each other when I see you, then I must remember you forever.

51. Two hearts are destined to become odd numbers, either too crowded or too lonely.

52. The heartbeat was slowly forgotten after you were silent. I smiled, but you couldn’t see it anyway.

53. The princes began to live in seclusion, and all the women saw were white horses.

54. Bravery is half reason and half impulsive!

55. If you give me a tear, I will see the whole ocean in your heart.

56. If the whole world denies you, then I will accompany you to deny the whole world.

57. If you can’t forget him, don’t forget him. True forgetting requires no effort.

58. I just happened to be very sad, I just happened to decide to give up, I just happened to forget to cry, I just happened to meet you.

59. The fish drowned in order to let the sea remember him.

60. Your face in my memory pales my appearance. Try your best to smile and show it to the person in the mirror. The corners of his mouth turned up.

61. I always feel a little scared when I am happy.

Maxims about ideals

1. When the most ideal situation is unattainable, people often do not know how to settle for the next best thing.

2. If you have too much ambition and too many ideals, the reality will not come to you, and the result will naturally be disappointment and boredom; if you have too little ambition, if you stick to the rules, and you will be numb and depressed, the result will be degeneration.

3. Only when combined with this world can our ideals bear fruit; without this world, our ideals will not bear fruit.

4. In the vast sea of ??life in which this man sails, ideals are the compass needle and passion is the strong wind.

5. In the ideal and best world, everything is designed for the best purpose.

6. When a person concentrates on himself, he can only become a beautiful, small package at best.

7. If a person has lofty and great ideals, he must also have noble sentiments. Without noble sentiments, no matter how lofty or great an ideal is, it cannot be achieved.

8. When a person is moving towards a goal, he should look straight ahead.

9. Whether a person has enough "ambition" directly determines the success or failure of something. As long as we don't give up our wishes, don't change our original intentions, and pursue development in what we think is the most suitable thing, we will naturally succeed one day.

10. A person with a fulfilling spiritual life must be a very ideal person, a very noble person, and a person who is only the master of material and not its slave. .

11. Faith is not a new product salesman who goes around looking for customers. It will never take the initiative to knock on your door.

12. People who care about small things and are indifferent to big things and big things will not achieve anything. I never regard comfort and happiness as the purpose of life itself. This ethical basis is what I call the ideal of the pig pen.

13. No matter human beings or nations, they cannot survive without lofty ideals.

14. I want to turn life into a scientific dream, and then turn the dream into reality.

15. My ambitions and ideals for my career are based on "truth" as the beginning, "goodness" as the process, and "beauty" as the ultimate goal.

16. The world is a guild.

17. Life is like traveling. The ideal is the route of travel. If you lose the route, you have to stop moving forward.

18. If a person does not know which dock he is sailing to, then any wind will not be a tailwind.

19. If you can live according to your ideals, act with the spirit of true freedom, the perseverance to move forward, and the thoughts of honesty and non-self-deception, you will surely reach a state of perfection.

20. Only when people have material things can they survive; only when people have ideals can they live life. Do you want to understand the difference between survival and life? Animals survive and humans live.

21. Human happiness and joy lie in struggle, and the most valuable thing is the struggle for ideals.

22. Your ideal of moving towards a great goal will be the inspiring force that enables you to bravely walk into life.

23. The higher the goal, the more valuable the ambition.

24. Without ideals, that is, without some kind of good wishes, there will never be a good reality.

Adopted children must teach them family mottos and mottos

1. There is no need for father’s inheritance to be good. (Continued from children’s sayings)

2. If you want your son to be obedient, you must first be filial to your parents. (Continued from children’s sayings) Chinese tradition and culture

3. Don’t offend heaven and earth with your thoughts, and leave a good example to your children and grandchildren through your words and deeds. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

4. In the Qing Dynasty, talented people are more valuable, but in wealthy families, children are more charming. ("Zeng Guang Xian Wen")

5. When dealing with relatives, you must cultivate your ambitions, and do not let your beloved son live in peace. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

6. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, so don't compete with them. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

7. Everyone hopes that their descendants will become high officials, but I do not want to be high officials.

8. I hope to be a gentleman who is educated and sensible. ("Letter from Zeng Guofan")

I love life more than before. Therefore, when life is about to end, I can't bear it. The more I love life, the less I can abide by the conditions of living. If you just want to stare at life, what should you do consciously? - Du Garr

9. The bad qualities of the children of the capital are all due to arrogance and extravagance.

10. When I was young, I was indulged in indulgence and arrogance, but when I grew up, I betrayed the love of my family. ("Children's Talk")

11. It is important to know that children can be taught, but don't tell them how to teach. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

12. It is the father's fault to raise but not teach. ("Three Character Classic")

13. Raising a son without education is like raising a donkey, and raising a daughter without education is like raising a pig. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

14. If you are rich and don't teach your children, your money and grain will perish; if you are rich and you don't teach your children, your clothes and clothes will not last long. ("Zeng Guang Xian Wen")

15. During the period of housework, you should be simple and teach your children in a righteous way. ("Zeng Guang Xian Wen")

Filial piety comes first among all virtues. ("Gift to Guang Xian") In traditional Chinese culture, filial piety should be done to the best of one's ability, not just to maintain one's health. The crow has the filial piety of feeding back, and the sheep know the kindness of kneeling down to breastfeed. ("Zeng Guang Xian Wen")

16. Mencius' mother, who was an able teacher, moved to teach three times, and she was determined to predict Wu Guifang in Yanshan Mountain. ("Zengguang Xianwen")

17. Training of children must start from prenatal education, and education must start from the beginning of primary school. ("Zeng Guang Xian Wen")

18. Character must start from a young age. If you are adaptable and have too many tricks, your character will be bad throughout your life. (Family Precepts)

19. If you are a writer and study, you must follow the rules. If you follow them, you will have no regrets throughout your life. (Family Precepts)

Reading ancient books is based on exegesis; writing poetry is based on tone; raising relatives is based on gaining favor; maintaining health is based on being less angry; establishing oneself is based on not lying; The basis of running a family is not to worry; the basis of being an official is not to need money; the basis of marching is not to disturb the people.

20. You and your brothers should be warned and warned. ("Book of the Family of Zeng Guofan")

21. The children of ordinary families have the same clothing, food and daily life as poor people, and they can become great people;

22. If they are contaminated with the habits of wealth and honor, they will Hard to hope for success. ("Zeng Guofan's Home")

Classic maxims about strength

●Although bamboo shoots are tender, they are not afraid of heavy pressure and dare to struggle and stand out.

●Don’t let the boat of pursuit be anchored in the harbor of fantasy, but raise the sail of struggle and sail towards the sea of ??real life.

●No matter how beautiful the dream of a wise man is, it is not as good as the hard work of a fool

●The sweat of the cultivator is the milk that nourishes the growth of seeds.

●If you don’t cultivate and sow, no matter how fertile the fertile soil is, you won’t be able to grow crops; if you don’t struggle and don’t create, no matter how beautiful your youth is, you won’t be able to bear fruit.

●Keep corals away from the erosion of rough waves? That is tantamount to ruining their beauty.

●Those who dare to declare war on darkness must be filled with light.

●Noble ideals are like flowers growing on high mountains. If you want to get rid of it, diligence is the rope to climb.

●The seeds kept in mind Yudrop’s advice of sacrifice and strengthened their courage to stand out.

●Without ups and downs in nature, there would be no spring and autumn fruits on the earth.

●Those who only fantasize but do not take action will never experience the joy of harvesting the fruits.

●Diligence is the password of your life and can translate a magnificent epic for you.

●For climbers, it is not a pity to lose the traces of the past, but it is dangerous to continue moving forward if you lose your way.

●Strugglers sail their career boat to the other side of their ideals in the river of sweat.

●Bees who are busy collecting have no time to talk in front of others.

●A warrior can brave the stormy waters without sinking, but a coward will drown in calm waters.

●Only those who brave the rapids can appreciate the wonders and scenery at the source of the river.

●If both legs of the compass move, it will never draw a circle.

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