Episode 32.

When I read the ending of Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei in the original work of "The World", I couldn't help but feel regretful. However, as two people with different backgrounds, it is conceivable that they would not reach the end. One of them would be offline and the other would remarry. The ending also seems logical.

Everyone has the right to freely choose love, and no one can morally kidnap Hao Dongmei's choice.

After Zhou Bingyi was promoted, he was falsely accused of taking bribes. After finding out the truth, he was diagnosed with cancer and finally died. His wife Hao Dongmei even married someone else not long after Zhou Bingyi's death.

This ending is actually very unsatisfactory. Under certain circumstances, it also implies that everyone has the right to pursue happiness and enjoy life. It also means that people who are not in the right family want to enjoy long-term happiness. It's really tough.

Episode 32 of "The World": Jin Yueji's words changed the ending of Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei

Hao Dongmei promised Zhou Rong to let __ live at home, but Hao Dongmei's mother Jin Yueji laughed Then he told her a truth.

Compared with loneliness, awkwardness is more terrifying. Loneliness can be overcome, but what about awkwardness?

This sentence actually sheds light on the relationship between Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi. Hao Dongmei is infertile, and the gap between the Zhou family and Hao Dongmei's family is the reason for their awkwardness.

This kind of revelation allows Hao Dongmei to know the problem of awkwardness in advance, so it implies that she and Zhou Bingyi will definitely solve the hidden pain problem between the two people. Even if Zhou Bingyi leaves first as in the original work, Hao Dongmei will also consider her mother's words to weigh the issues of loneliness and awkwardness.

Hao Dongmei is just lonely after losing Zhou Bingyi. If she remarries, she may have awkwardness. It seems that this sentence is explaining the problem of __ coming to live, but in fact it is also educating Hao Dongmei.

In Jin Yueji’s understanding, the emotions of being related but not related by blood are the most complicated, so she didn’t dare to let __ come live, because she clearly thought of the worst outcome.

She is afraid that something will happen to __. If something happens, she will have to take responsibility. Taking responsibility is a trivial matter. She is even more afraid that the Zhou family will blame her. Complaining about her will also have a negative impact on Hao Dongmei. After all, Hao Dongmei cannot have children. , from a certain perspective, Hao Dongmei felt a little sorry for the Zhou family

Jin Yueji considered it very comprehensively, and directly cut off the source of possible problems. It can be said that she decisively refused and was responsible for the Zhou family. It also creates better conditions for you to care for yourself in retirement.

She refused to let __ live at home because she believed that nothing would be wrong if she didn't do it, and there would be no conflicts if she didn't contact him. This is the "lazy" type of emotional communication between relatives.

The "lazy" type of emotional communication means less contact, less help, less talk, no gatherings and less meetings. If Jin Yueji's idea is followed, then everyone's relatives will no longer need to interact with each other and can only be quiet. Just live and become a breathing robot?

When Hao Dongmei’s father was alive, the family had no contact with the Zhou family to avoid suspicion, not even a meeting. Later, Hao Dongmei’s father passed away. , Jin Yueji retired, and the two families still had no contact. Jin Yueji just wanted to live her own small life, and there was no so-called family affection at all.

Obviously, Jin Yueji dislikes the Zhou family from the bottom of her heart. She always thinks that the Zhou family will have trouble with them, and never considers the meaning and value of family ties.

Take Zhou Bingkun for example. Six months before he moved in, his neighbors and friends helped him through the difficulties. Later, Zhou Bingkun developed well and lent his house to his friends for free. Zhou Bingyi almost After losing his life, Zhou Bingkun rushed over to save his brother without thinking at all. If Jin Yueji had thought carefully and considered the worst plan, then people would have no friends in this life, and all blood ties would gradually disappear.

Hao Dongmei’s parents are actually very cold-blooded. Even if the Zhou family cannot reach the level of the Hao family, Zhou’s mother is seriously ill and comatose and after she wakes up, as well as Zhou’s father’s retirement are all major events. We don’t come to see them at this time. Looking at the in-laws is really a bit unreasonable. I have never seen anything like the in-laws never meeting each other. I always feel that the Hao family is too high-minded.

The old actor’s lines are very chewy, and he can explain life in one sentence and make people realize.

This theory of loneliness and awkwardness is also suitable for young people’s marriage, always exploring the youth Why don't people love getting married so much? In fact, what is more terrifying than loneliness is awkwardness. After living alone for a long time, a person is afraid of the presence of another person and receives more negative information, so he is even more afraid of getting married.

Jin Yueji is afraid of conflicts if she waits too long. The same is true for young people who don’t find a partner. People get along with each other in the same way. People are always afraid of taking the wrong step and dare not take risks to try new things. On the emotional road, more and more people are using the Internet or raising pets to relieve loneliness but ignore the reality.