The scenery on the road of life is "interesting" and "boring" in our own view.
There is a temple to the east of the mountain, where some gods are enshrined. This temple is famous far and near, and people from all over the world come here to pay their respects. Because the temple is on the mountain, there is only one path up the mountain, and people who go up the mountain often pass by.
People who go up the mountain are full of expectations and have a happy smile on their faces. When they meet people going down the mountain, they ask, what's the scenery like on the mountain? The people who went down the mountain said discontentedly, the mountain is boring, it's really not interesting at all, just a few gods and nothing else. Go down, it's very boring! People who go up the mountain don't think so, thinking why they won't go up since they're here, quietly saying, "Oh, it doesn't matter, let's go up and have a look around", shouldering their backpacks and continuing up the mountain.
After a while, this wave of climbers came down and met a wave of climbers. The climber asked, what's the scenery like on the mountain? The man who came down the mountain said, "There are only a few gods on the mountain, which is boring. Don't go up. " The mountaineer said disapprovingly, "Never mind, let's go up and have a look."
Marriage is different. I always yearn for marriage before marriage. When I asked the downhill man, I was also trying to persuade you and tell you that you didn't agree. When I became a "downhill person" and warned "uphill people", their reaction was exactly the same as that of you at that time.
The real you, calm down. Think about the previous marriage, the old saying goes, "My parents ordered the matchmaker's words", and today's language is, "Free love. "Didn't you find what's the problem in the middle? Have you ever heard the word divorce in your previous marriage? Don't! What about now? The divorce you hear the most is nothing new. Be kind to yourself and the person in your life who is willing to accompany you to the old age. Don't treat marriage as a joke. If you meet a bald man, choose a person to die.