Four books a woman must read in her life

Four books a woman must read in her life. You may be too busy for work or unemployment, and you may not even have time to eat. What about reading? It doesn't matter. There are so many books in the world that you can't read them all. So which of the four books a woman must read in her life?

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First: When you start to love yourself, the whole world will love you

Have you ever doubted yourself?

doubt your decisions and your life. Even, I suspect that no one loves me.

This kind of doubt and anxiety easily troubles some people who are not so confident. Gradually, these doubts have turned into powerful negations, lingering in my heart and becoming an invisible dark cloud that will never be scattered.

At this time, in fact, this dark cloud is hard to dissipate through the outside world, and we can only talk to the real heart to let go of our doubts and embrace ourselves.

The author of this book, Zhou Fan, is a national psychological counselor. At the same time, he is also a columnist of the domestic professional psychological website "One Psychology".

She is good at analyzing all kinds of life problems from the psychological level, and easily resolves those lingering doubts and puzzles with concise and gentle language. And, let you learn to accept yourself and fall in love with yourself again.

When reading this book, you will feel that Teacher Zhou Fan is right beside you. Take you step by step to explore the truth behind those depressed anxieties and disappointments in life, and find the inner source and strength.

I like a sentence in teacher Zhou Fan's book: "What you have to do is not to ask for happiness, but to practice happiness."

Too many people complain about unhappiness, but they just ask for happiness from the outside world, and attribute the happiness of others to good luck, while they belong to the category of bad luck.

such people often ignore their own ability to feel happiness and practice happiness. In fact, happiness can also be created.

The dimension of life often depends on how you look at life. When you learn to love yourself, you will find that the world around you will be full of love.

Second: Your independence is your confidence

In the book The Second Sex, Beauvoir, a female writer, once famously said: "The misfortune of a woman lies in being surrounded by almost irresistible temptations, and everything is tempting her to take the easy road. When she found herself fooled by a mirage, it was too late, and her strength had been exhausted in the failed adventure. "

In recent years, all kinds of female hit dramas, such as My First Half Life, Ode to Joy, Nothing But Thirty, etc., have completely different storylines, but without exception, they are all around a core, which has set off everyone's buzz.

that is, the importance of women's independence.

Too many people, especially women, tend to ignore the importance of independence, and have been playing the role of greenhouse flowers on the seemingly smooth road of life. However, when facing an accident and losing protection, they find themselves in despair and have no way out at all.

"Flower Road has always been a thorny road." The popular author of the best-selling book has a thin hand, which is said in this book.

The seemingly smooth road is actually full of traps. Just like the apple that the queen gave Snow White, the more deadly the poison, the more hidden under the bright appearance, tempting the general public and ruining their own future.

when we open this book, we will have too many * * * sounds, because those tragedies caused by independence are repeatedly staged on people around us.

It may be that an elder we are familiar with has been financially dependent for a long time and is too cold-eyed to divorce at home. Or a friend, who has been mentally dependent on the other half but has been suppressed, is losing confidence more and more; Or just ourselves.

This book is divided into four albums: I have pride and tenderness; In the fickle world, live affectionately; Life is not flustered, and the years are not displaced; If you don't want to accept your fate, then go for it.

It is explained that independence is an indispensable part of women from four vital fields: love, marriage, life and career.

The author has a good hand, and the idea he wants to convey is independence, not just the so-called "female man" independence, but the true independence in the spiritual sense.

while writing gives us a sound, it also produces invisible power. Let you and I, trapped in the quagmire of despair, understand that through our own efforts, we can make the best of ourselves and have the confidence to say "no" to anyone and anything!

Third: Dong Mingzhu: Women really want to do something, and no one can stop them

Dong Mingzhu, the chairman of Gree Group, is a well-known female entrepreneur.

However, many people only realize the extraordinary splendor of Dong Mingzhu's business circles, but often ignore the untold hardships behind this splendor.

The author of this book, Zhang Jiang, tells the legendary life experience of Dong Mingzhu in detail with very infectious words. What she tells is not only the story of Dong Mingzhu, but also the international brand legend of Gree, which is made in China, from a general electrical appliance manufacturer under Dong Mingzhu.

All kinds of business struggles and workplace games, from the aspects of marketing strategy, company management, leadership ability, etc., teach readers the business skills that must be learned for people in the workplace.

At the same time, Zhang Jiang, a national second-class psychological consultant, uses professional psychological insight to analyze in simple terms how Dong Mingzhu has successfully transformed from a single mother in bad karma whose husband died to a queen of the business world today.

Maybe Dong Mingzhu's experience cannot be duplicated, but the brave and independent "Dong Mingzhu spirit" behind her can be completely duplicated. As long as you have this persistence and tenacity that no one can stop, then you will eventually live the life you want.

This is a history of women's struggle that is worth reading by all professional women.

Fourth: Carnegie's Advice for Women's Life Happiness

Although this book was published half a century ago, it has occupied the best-selling list until now. It is enough to show that classics are timeless and never out of date.

Dale Carnegie is not only the father of American modern adult education, but also the greatest spiritual mentor in the 2th century.

His representative works "Weakness of Human Nature" and "Advantages of Human Nature" are well-known masterpieces, and his book is a happiness guide specially for women.

As a married woman, this book has always been placed on my bedside table, which has become a pillow book that I often turn around, and it is also my "spiritual medicine".

in the long years, it is inevitable that there will be moments when emotions are out of control or lost. At this point, the book becomes a book of answers.

Because all my puzzles, puzzles and worries can be perfectly answered in this book, which makes me suddenly enlightened in countless sleepless nights.

"When the storm of life strikes relentlessly, women should not blindly immerse themselves in the harm it brings to you. Let the beautiful rainbow guide your thoughts to be braver, happier, calmer and more powerful. "

I have been deeply impressed by this passage in the book, and I even took notes.

Women are often very emotional. Sometimes life is like a blank sheet of paper. Women are easily trapped by some details, and only see sporadic stains on the paper, but they ignore it. In fact, most of life is still white and beautiful.

When women are not affected by trivial matters, the whole person's heart will become transparent, so happiness comes into being.

No matter whether you are single, in love or married, as a woman, I suggest that you use this book as a pillow book, because it is a guide to happiness that can accompany you all your life. 2

1. The Condor Heroes

Jin Yong's research on women has almost reached a superb level: smart and clever Huang Rong, deep-minded Zhou Zhiruo, kind and strong Cheng Lingsu ...

Lin Yanni once said of Yang Guo: "At first sight, Yang Guo is a lifelong mistake." It is true that Yang Guo is a man of temperament, and the little dragon girl is committed to his life and death. Cheng Ying and Lu Wushuang are madly in love with him, and Gongsun Lve is deeply in love. Even Guo Xiang is attached to him, which shows the charm of Yang Guo. But a simple woman should not fall in love with him easily, unless you think you are capable, you will be hurt by love.

Because a new good man like Yang Guo, he will only look up to such a beautiful person as "Little Dragon Girl". What he says is that he has the best ...

In fact, it is Guo Fu who really "missed his life" for Yang Guo. She has always had a crush on Yang Guo. After she failed to get the love of Yang Guo, her temperament changed greatly and she complained about others. But who can understand her mind? Guo Fu's feeling in the chaos of the army is the most successful psychological description in Jin Yong's novels, which is very emotional! But Guo Fu's character is so unpopular. When she is mentioned, she always hates it. This is her failure.

Li Mochou in "The Condor Heroes" is also a woman with great personality, but a woman like Li Mochou is the most terrible. A Lu Zhanyuan makes her infatuated and sad all her life, letting her youth pass in vain, and killing people everywhere to vent her anger. Harm others and harm yourself, which is spurned by the world. Women should never think that this is a deep affection, which is abnormal.

Fortress Besieged

One of the highlights of Fortress Besieged is that it depicts the bad habits of men in China and helps you to break all kinds of unrealistic fantasies about the male world. Fang Hung-chien is the first one who combines the achievements of bad habits.

Fang Hung-chien is kind by nature, but his greatest weakness is indecision and unprincipled. Today, it is fatal for men to be indecisive and unprincipled. Female readers must pay attention to whether their boyfriends are "Fang Hung-chien" or "Li Hongjian". If not, it is certainly a good thing. If so, help him change slowly with deep feelings and be prepared for a long-term war of resistance.

Other people such as Zhao Xinmei, Li Meiting, and President Gao are not without their lives, so it's best for them to protect themselves. However, several girls are very distinctive: Su Wenwan is not cute, but if you think about it carefully, from the perspective of modern people, she is a strong woman; Tang Xiaofu is very cute, but unfortunately she has a crush on a man like Fang Hung-chien. Sun Roujia is not cute, but has a deep side.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu, the author of Fortress Besieged, is a well-deserved writer. Seeing the relationship between men and women is delicate and sharp, and female readers must ponder it carefully. From then on, seeing men is not blind, so it is the first choice.

3. Gone with the Wind

It's not enough to read Gone with the Wind, the world card. The original work should be read. Because margaret mitchell will teach you to be a successful woman. There is no difference between China and the United States, and you can do what Scarlett can do. Being strong, independent and active is an essential quality of modern women. If you are not as beautiful and moving as Hao Sijia, you must never feel inferior. You also have the right to pursue beauty, and you can make yourself colorful. Just like Scarlett can't really have Rhett, if you can't get the man you love deeply, it doesn't matter, you can still love yourself.

Women who want to achieve great things should learn from Scarlett's demeanor, never give up, and it is only by fighting against the cruel reality that Scarlett is valuable, and only by doing so should women read Gone with the Wind.

Fourth, A Dream of Red Mansions

It is inconceivable for a woman to read A Dream of Red Mansions. The reason is simple: I have only seen A Dream of Red Mansions. Only then can you understand that women are so sad and moving, so graceful and delicate, so clever as ice and snow ... Cao Xueqin tells you what a real woman is, and it will also let you know what you really are.

She is as heroic as Shi Xiangyun, and she is also as foolish as a drunken peony. Smart as Xue Baochai, but also childlike; Only bitterness like Lin Daiyu can bury the fallen flowers. A Dream of Red Mansions allows us to truly see the beauty of women and appreciate the profound meaning of women made of water. Even if the power is vicious, such as Wang Xifeng, her sociability, decisiveness and calmness are still worth learning from today's women.

It must be reminded that you should never be Second Sister You. It is difficult to have a happy ending when you are hidden in a man's house. Don't imitate Lin Daiyu's vitriol, especially if you have no talent or beauty; Don't learn from Jia Xichun, you are weak and weak, just walk away, be a courageous woman; Don't learn from You Sanjie. You wiped your neck for Liu Xianglian and the so-called honor. There are many good men in this world. Without love, the sky won't fall.