1. She is not a bird in a cage. A bird in a cage will fly out if the cage is opened. She is the bird embroidered on the screen - a white bird among the golden clouds on the melancholy purple satin screen. As time passed, the feathers became dull, moldy, and moth-eaten, and even the dead ones remained on the screen.

2. Ordinary men like to teach women to be bad, and they also like to change bad women and make them good women - Zhang Ailing's "Love in a Fallen City"

3. I am a weird girl who has been regarded as a genius since childhood. I have no other purpose in life except to develop my genius. However, when the fantasy of childhood gradually faded, I found that I had nothing but the dream of genius-all but the weird shortcomings of genius. The world forgives Wagne for his arrogance, but they will not forgive me.

4. In my novels, except for Cao Qiqiao in "The Story of the Golden Lock", they are all incomplete characters. They are not heroes, they are the burden bearers of this era. Because although they are not thorough, they are serious after all. They are not tragic, only desolate.

5. In the dim yellow light, this hall looks like a train, traveling from a foreign land to a foreign land. The woman on the train met by chance, but she was an amiable woman.

6. The life of an ordinary person, no matter how good it is, is like a peach blossom fan. If you hit your head and the blood splashes on the fan, just add a little bit of it and dye it into a peach blossom.

7. Photos are just broken shells of life. Years have passed, melon seeds have been swallowed one by one, and everyone knows the taste. The only thing left for everyone to see is the mess. Black and white melon seed shells. ——Zhang Ailing

8. When I hear something that is obviously irrelevant, I will think of you several times in my heart.

9. The cutest thing in life is when you let go.

10. A close friend is like a mirror, reflecting the most beautiful parts of our nature. ——Zhang Ailing

11. In the name of youth, do all these bad things luxuriously, and then turn around and make corrections in time before the age of thirty. From now on, take off your childish coat and take away your wisdom. Then, be a qualified person, start taking responsibility, and start loving life and the world tenaciously. ——Zhang Ailing

12. Every butterfly is the ghost of a former flower, coming back to find itself.

13. I thought love could fill up the regrets in life. However, it creates more regrets. But it is love. ——Zhang Ailing

14. In front of you, I become very low, as low as the dust. But I like it in my heart, flowers blooming from the dust. (Zhang Ailing wrote on the back of the photo she gave to Hu Lancheng)

15. Even if individuals can wait, times are in a hurry, destruction is already occurring, and greater destruction is coming.

16. It’s always afternoon in my father’s room. After sitting there for a long time, I feel sinking, sinking.

17. Before the age of thirty, look back in time and make corrections. From now on, take off your childish coat. Take away the wisdom. Then, be a qualified person. Start to bear the burden, start to love life and the world tenaciously. ——Zhang Ailing

18. Memory is like water poured into the palm of your hand. No matter you spread it out or hold it tightly, it will still flow cleanly from your fingers drop by drop.

19. If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you, I wouldn’t be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I wouldn’t lose my self-confidence and fighting spirit, and I wouldn’t be in pain. It would be great if I could stop loving you.

20. Some people pursue happiness, so they work hard; some people have happiness, so they give up - Zhang Ailing

21. White roses are holy wives, red roses are passionate mistresses. Marry a red rose, and over time, the red one will become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white one will still be "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; marry a white rose, and the white one will become a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one will It's a cinnabar mole on the heart.

22. As a woman, you have to be a well-behaved woman. A well-behaved woman can get benefits that ordinary bad women can't dream of if they are a little unbridled occasionally.

23. Only when you were not loved by others will you cherish the person who will love you in the future.

24. Ah, you have to become famous as early as possible. If you come too late, happiness will not be so pleasant.

Even if individuals can wait, times are in a hurry, destruction is already occurring, and even greater destruction is coming.

25. I looked back at my growth path and watched day by day. I stood on the roadside with my hands in the pockets of my windbreaker and saw countless people passing by me expressionlessly. As I walked by, someone occasionally stopped and smiled at me, as bright as a peach blossom. I know that these people who stay will eventually become the warmth in my life. Seeing them reminds me of never leaving.

26. The details are often harmonious and fascinating, but the theme is always pessimistic.

27. When a man longs for a woman’s body, he cares about her soul and lies to himself that he is in love with her soul. Only after occupying her body could he forget her soul.

28. We may not have caught up to see the moon thirty years ago. Young people think that the moon thirty years ago should have been a red and yellow halo the size of a copper coin, like a cloud-shaped letterhead. A teardrop fell on the paper, old and confused. The moon in the memories of the elderly thirty years ago was happy, bigger, rounder, and whiter than the moon in front of them. However, looking back after thirty years of hard work, no matter how good the moon was, it was a little sad. ——Zhang Ailing's "The Story of the Golden Lock"

29. Only men have the right to propose marriage - as long as this system exists, marriage will not be a fair transaction; women will always bring it up and accuse her of it in the first place. She "granted his request" and thus gained the upper hand in the quarrel, and for this reason the woman insisted that the man should propose. —— Zhang Ailing's "Talk about Women"

30. "No matter how bad your conditions are, there will always be someone who loves you. No matter how good your conditions are, there will always be someone who doesn't love you." - - Know how to let go of those who don’t love you, and know how to be grateful to those who love you. Don’t be too inferior or overconfident. ——Zhang Ailing

31. This is not enough to love others, it is enough when you get married. ——Zhang Ailing

32. Sitting on the tram, I looked up at the people standing in front of me. Most of them had good looks and extraordinary appearance, but their nostrils were rarely clean, hence this sentence. : "No one can pretend to be a hero in front of his subordinates." - Zhang Ailing's "Children's Words Are Unbridled·Adults"

33. A man brags about his victory - a woman brags about her retreat. But the reason why the enemy attacks is often caused by her herself. ——Zhang Ailing's "Talk about Women"

34. This is generally the case in the world - the finished cake will never be as good as the cake being made. The essence of the cake lies in the burnt aroma during the baking period.

35. A child in a loving family, no matter how unstable his life, is still full of self-confidence and compassion - positive, enterprising, and brave.

36. We can never go back - "Half Life"

37. People waste money because they are unhappy in their hearts, which is a kind of compensation. ——Zhang Ailing

38. People are originally animals, but no one is as definitely an animal as she is.

39. Suffering is long, life is short.

40. An apartment is the most ideal place to escape. People who are tired of the big city often miss the peaceful and quiet countryside, and long for the day when they can retire and return to the fields, keep bees, grow vegetables, and enjoy some happiness. Little did they know that buying an extra half a pound of bacon in the countryside would cause a lot of gossip. On the top floor of an apartment building, you can just stand in front of the window and change clothes.

41. Those people who said they would never be separated are already scattered at the end of the world.

42. The only difference between scholars and fools is: scholars believe a little but are not willing to admit it; fools admit it but don't really believe it. A large part of this vague psychological background is Buddhism and Taoism, which is mixed with the gods and monsters of the later period of Taoism. It has been immersed in the minds of Chinese people for several years, and the result is very different from the original Buddhism. The superstitions of the lower classes are fragments taken out of this vast mechanism-the whole mechanism is rarely examined, probably because they are too familiar. Since the superstitions of the lower classes are part of a systematic view of the universe, they are not superstitions. ——Zhang Ailing's "Chinese Religion"

43. A broad agreement between life and death - being happy with your son, holding your hand, growing old with your son is the saddest poem... life, death and parting , are all major matters that are not under our control.

Compared with the power of the outside world, we are so small, so small! But we insist on saying: "I will always be with you, and we will never leave for the rest of our lives." ——As if we ourselves are in charge.

44. The four greatest hatreds in life: Begonias are fragrant; anchovies are spiny; Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions" is incomplete; Gao's erroneous changes mean that he will die unjustly.

45. I look at you smiling, silent, proud, and disappointed just like now, so I am happy with you and sad with you, but I always stand in the present while you always stay in the past.

46. Love will end when it comes to an end, and when the time comes, it doesn’t matter if you don’t want to. Love turns out to be drinking poisonous wine with a smile. It's hard to love someone, and it's even harder to give up the one you love. When you fall in love with someone, you are always a little afraid, afraid of getting him; afraid of losing him. If you were not loved by someone before, you will cherish the person who will love you in the future. ——Zhang Ailing

47. Because we know each other, we understand. Because we understand, we are compassionate. ——Zhang Ailing

48. Feelings are difficult to deal with. You can’t just put them in the refrigerator and think that they can be stored for a certain period of time without deteriorating.

49. There is no emotion in this world that is not riddled with holes.

50. People who dress up decently appear in decent places, see similar people, and are seen. This is social interaction.

51. If you haven’t finished talking about some things, forget it.

52. Books are your best friends. The only drawback is that it deepens my myopia, but it is still worth it - Zhang Ailing

53. Love turns out to be drinking poisonous wine with a smile.

54. A useless woman is the most powerful woman.

55. The saddest distance in the world is that two people were originally very far apart and did not know each other. Suddenly one day, they met and fell in love, and the distance became very close. Then one day, they no longer loved each other, and the two people who were so close became far apart, even farther than before.

56. If you knew me in the past, you might forgive me now.

57. Only young people are free. Once they gain knowledge, they find that their freedom is a rare thing and they cannot keep it. Just because freedom is precious, it seems to be hot to the touch - a free person kowtows everywhere, begging others to accept his freedom.

58. Loneliness is not something you are born with, but starts from the moment you fall in love with someone.

59. One of the definitions of love, I think, is to exaggerate the difference between one person of the opposite sex and all other opposite sexes. Zhang Ailing's classic love quotes

1. People waste money because they are unhappy in their hearts, which is a compensatory effect.

2. Laugh, and the whole world will laugh with you; cry, and you will cry alone.

3. Liuyuan said: "Some people are good at talking, and some people are good at housekeeping. You are good at bowing your head." Liusu said: "I don't know anything. I am a useless person." Yanagihara smiled and said: "A useless woman is the most powerful woman," - Zhang Ailing's "Love in a Fallen City"

4. Beautiful girls, regardless of their background, always have an unlimited future, or it should be said that they have an unlimited future. It is estimated that she has the mystery of her destiny. As soon as they got married, a queen died, or a courtesan died, no one knew which.

5. Pleasing people with your beautiful body is the oldest occupation in the world, and it is also a very common occupation for women. Women who marry for a living can all be classified under this category. It goes without saying that there is no big difference between having a beautiful body and pleasing others with your body, and having a beautiful mind and pleasing others with your thoughts.

6. If you marry a red rose, over time, the red rose will become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white rose will still be "the bright moonlight in front of the bed"; if you marry a white rose, the white rose will become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall. A grain of rice crumbs, the red one is still a cinnabar mole on the heart. ——"Red Roses and White Roses"

7. There is always time and opportunity for things to be done; there are always excuses for things not to be done.

8. The most disgusting person, if you study carefully, you will always find that he is just a pitiful person.

9. It was completely dark, and the whole world looked like a gray Christmas card.

10. The way to a woman’s heart is through the vagina.

——Zhang Ailing's "Lust and Caution"

11. Because you understand, you are compassionate.

12. When you fall in love with someone, you are always a little afraid, afraid of getting him; afraid of losing him.

13. You want me to be a good woman in front of others and a bad woman in front of you. Your highest ideal is a pure and provocative woman. —— Zhang Ailing's "Love in a Fallen City"

14. If you laugh, the whole world will laugh with you; if you cry, you will cry alone - from Zhang Ailing's novel "Withered Flowers"

15. The slender moon at the end of November is just a streak of white, like frost flowers on the glass window.

16. One day I will walk away from you silently without making any sound.

17. When I die, she will die again in my blood. ——Zhang Ailing

18. If you really commit suicide, it will be over if you die, but life is more terrifying than death. Life can develop without limit and become worse, worse, and worse than death. The most unbearable state that I imagined at the beginning is even more unbearable.

19. The wind blew hollowly. Another year passed like this. The coming year will continue like this. I don’t know whether there is frustration hidden behind the stability, or whether there is stability in the depression. We just can't find it.

20. I love you, and for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything - including you.

21. Being able to love someone enough to ask for pocket money is a severe test.

22. I always believe that those who have gone through the misty years and mountains and rivers of Pinghu and experienced all kinds of disasters and tasted all kinds of flavors will be more vivid and pure - Zhang Ailing

23. Many of us think that we will never know it in our lifetime. The things we forget are forgotten by us in the days when we remember them.

24. Loving someone is difficult, and it is even harder to give up the one you love.

25. The moon thirty years ago has already sunk, and the people thirty years ago are dead, but the story thirty years ago is not over yet - it cannot be over.

26. No matter how good a woman is, if she cannot get the love of the opposite sex, she will not get the respect of the same sex.

27. Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love.

28. Small sorrows and difficulties can develop a serious outlook on life.

29. The green bamboo curtain and a pair of golden and green landscape screens reflected in the mirror are still rippling back and forth in the wind. After looking at them for a long time, I feel seasick. When she looked again, she saw that the green bamboo curtain had faded, the golden and green landscape had been replaced by a portrait of her husband, and the person in the mirror had aged ten years.

30. After a man completely understands a woman, he will not love her.

31. Kind people will always suffer. The burden of sorrow seems to be innate, so they can only be patient.

32. You will never see me when I am the loneliest, because I am the loneliest only when you are not by my side.

33. You ask me whether loving you is worth it. In fact, you should know that love does not ask whether it is worth it.

34. Meet the person you want to meet among millions of people. In millions of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, there is no step too early or one step too late. You just happen to meet them. , there is nothing else to say, except to ask softly: Oh, you are here too.

35. Deep affection is a burden that I cannot bear, and words of love are just lies that come true accidentally.

36. Some silly things must not only be said behind others’ backs, but also behind one’s own back. It's embarrassing to let yourself hear it. For example, I love you and I will love you forever. ——Zhang Ailing's "Love in a Fallen City"

37. Everyone is a king, domineering in his own world. You don't want to listen to me, but you don't want me to listen to you either.

38. Women don’t like kind men, but they regard themselves as a magical reformatory. Once they get married, they think that their husbands will immediately become saints.

—— Zhang Ailing's "Talk about Women"

39. For young people, three to five years can be a lifetime - "Eighteen Spring"

40. Shuoda The incomparable self and this rotten and beautiful world, the two corpses are tied together back to back, you fall to me, I fall to you, sinking.

41. When I meet you, I become very low, even as low as the dust, but my heart is happy, and a flower blooms there.

42. A useless woman is the most powerful woman. ——Zhang Ailing's "Love in a Fallen City"

43. Remember despair and hope, fighting each other.

44. If memory had a smell, it would be the scent of camphor, sweet and steady, like well-remembered music, sweet and melancholy, like forgotten sorrow. ——"Changing Clothes"

45. Few women are loved because of the beauty of their souls. ——Zhang Ailing

46. Many women waste money because they are unhappy, which is a compensatory effect. For example, her husband is indifferent to her and spends money indiscriminately.

47. If a person is not free, it is because he does not want to be free. If a person cannot leave, it is because he does not want to leave. If a person gives you too many excuses, that is Because I don’t want to care. ——Zhang Ailing's "Red Roses and White Roses"

48. Looking back many years later, he still felt that she was still very missed. She has such a temper that once something belongs to her, she always looks better and better at it, thinking it is the best in the world. ——He knew, because he once belonged to her. ——Zhang Ailing's "Eighteen Spring"

49. Holding hands is a very sad process, because after holding hands, you let go.

50. I can still imagine the psychology of ecstatic people; I simply cannot understand people like you who are too humble!

51. You will never Understand my sadness, just like the day does not understand the darkness of night.

52. For most women, the meaning of love is to be loved. ——Zhang Ailing

53. It turns out that children who are involved with words are never happy. Their happiness is like playful children, wandering to the sky, wandering to the sky but refusing to come back.

54. Men do wrong things, but women go all out to plan how to do wrong things. Women don't think much about the future - and at the same time try to forget their past - so God knows what they have to think about!

55. A person's greatest shortcoming is not selfishness, passion, brutality, willfulness, but It's paranoid love for someone who doesn't love yourself.

56. The drama of life is unhealthy. People like us who grew up in urban culture always see pictures of the sea first, and then see the sea; we read love novels first, and then we know love.

57. Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two. Marry a red rose, and over time, the red one will become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white one will remain "moonlight in front of the window"; marry a white rose, and the white one will become a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one will become A cinnabar mole on the heart.

58. The result of spiritual love is always marriage, while physical love often stops at a certain stage, with little hope of marriage.

59. If a person is famous to a certain extent, he has the right to talk nonsense.

60. Time is money, so every time a girl spends time in front of the mirror, she has to spend money in a fashion store.

61. Even if it is a treasure treasured at home, you have to take it out every once in a while and let others appreciate and comment on it, and then you will rediscover its value.

62. I like money because I have never suffered from money and I don’t know the disadvantages of money. I only know the advantages of money. ——Zhang Ailing

63. Life is really not easy in this life. "What is short is life, what is long is suffering." Zhang Ailing's words express that living in this life is not easy. ——Zhang Ailing

64. Feelings are so fragile. Can withstand the wind and rain, but cannot withstand the ordinary... - Zhang Ailing's "A Lifelong Farewell"

65. Not every effort will be rewarded, but every effort must be made with hard work. An irreversible proposition of fairness.

Love quotes by Eileen Chang