1. Ancient poems about etiquette

"If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up."

————"The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi"

A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always be loved by others, and those who respect others will always be respected by others.

———Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia"

Courtesy should be reciprocated. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go.

——— "Book of Rites. Qu Li Part 1"

Behavior is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image.

——Goethe: "Affinity"

One of the most important tasks of civilization is to make man be dominated by form in his purely material life, and to make him beautiful in beauty. Become an aesthetic person within the realm of what the kingdom can achieve.

———Schiller: "Books on Aesthetic Education"

Politeness is the art of choosing from one's own true thoughts.

——A. Stevens: "Mrs. de Steele"

Politeness makes polite people happy, and it also makes those who are treated politely People rejoice.

——Montesquieu: "The Spirit of the Laws"

Nothing is lost by being polite, but everything is gained.

——Mar. W. Montague: "Letters"

Etiquette is the smallest but most stable norm among all norms.

———La Rochefoucauld: "Moral Proverbs"

Politeness is the flower of fraternity. People who are not polite cannot be said to have philanthropic thoughts.

——Joubert: "Collection of Quotes"

What makes a person great does not lie in wealth and family status, but in valuable behavior and noble character.

————Ovie: "Famous Quotes"

There are two types of bad etiquette: the first is shyness; the second is indiscretion and contempt; to avoid In these two situations, the only thing you can do is to abide by the following rule, that is, don't look down on yourself or others.

———John Locke: "Education Essays" 2. Are there any ancient poems about courtesy?

1. Courtesy serves the country

Idiom definition: Governance. Governing the country with the spirit of humility advocated by etiquette.

Source of the idiom: "The Analects of Confucius·Li Ren": "How can a country be governed by courtesy? How can it be possible? If a country cannot be governed by courtesy, what about courtesy?"

Examples of idioms: China again It turns out that "courtesy is for the country". Since there are etiquette, one must give in, and the more one gives in, the more complicated the etiquette will be.

2. Twelve Yuefu poems·Longshang Sigh

Author: Yuan Jie Era: Tang Genre: Category:

Driving to Longban with aid, poor people Gao Sui stopped driving. Looking forward to Rongdi Township, the tour is full of sadness.

With the help of emotions and teachings, plants and trees can still be transformed. The sages give way to the wind, why not spread throughout Xixia.

Father and son can tolerate speculation and harm, but monarch and minister dare to deceive. If this is the case now, I would like to live in peace.

3. Xunzi said: "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up. If you are rude, you won't be born. If you're rude, you won't succeed. If you're rude, the country will be restless." Civilization and etiquette are the foundation of our study and life. , is the arm of our healthy growth.

4. Harmony and soft words show your temperament, and humility and courteousness show your grace.

Time is limited, so this is what I can find for you. I hope it can be helpful to you. 3. Parallel sentences and famous aphorisms about civility and courtesy

If you lose today, you are not considered a failure, because you will come again tomorrow.

If you lose money, you are not a failure, because the value of life is not in the wallet.

If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a human being.

Civilization covers the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature. Its main functions are, firstly, to pursue personal moral perfection, and secondly, to safeguard public interests and public order.

Speaking of civilized etiquette, I thought of a story. Once, Comrade Lenin was going downstairs. In the narrow aisle of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. When the female worker saw it was Lenin, she stepped back to make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "It doesn't have to be like this. You have already walked halfway with your things, and I am empty-handed now. Please go over first!" He said the word "please" very loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and asked the female worker to go upstairs before he went downstairs. Isn't this also a reflection of good civilized etiquette?

I don’t want to give too many examples of great people here, because this can easily lead to an illusion: thinking that civilization and etiquette are only possessed by great people and celebrities, then we will not need to pay more or less attention to ourselves. Feel guilty for uncivilized words and deeds; or think that even if you practice the requirements of civilization, you will not become a great person or celebrity. Not only do we need moral big shots, we also need a group of moral people.

The level of civility and civilization in a society can reflect the level of civilization in a society and a country. If a person does not abide by social civilization, it will affect his own image in a small way and the reputation of the country in a big way. During the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li Hongzhang was on a mission to Russia. In a public place, his bad habit broke out and he spat everywhere. He was exaggerated and ridiculed by foreign reporters, which embarrassed the Chinese people. This is a historical lesson about not abiding by social civilization.

Public civilization is a manifestation of social consciousness, and public civilization is based on the level of personal moral cultivation. Just imagine, if someone doesn't pay attention to his own civilization, will he have a good public civilization? Won't! Personal civilization and etiquette are the root and foundation. If people want to have a good public civilization, they must start with themselves and around them. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "If China wants to compete in the world, its first priority is to establish people, and then everything will be done after people are established." "Erecting people" means to improve people's thoughts and civilized cultivation. Human civilized cultivation is not related to It is something you are born with, but it is something you have to continuously improve upon. To improve personal cultivation, you must first devote yourself to studying and improve your cognitive level; when your cognition reaches a certain level, you will have the ability to distinguish right from wrong; when you have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, you must correct your own mentality and not violate With your own conscience, try to make everything you say and do conform to moral standards, and your self-cultivation will be perfected. This is what the ancients said: investigation of things, knowledge, sincerity, correct mind, and self-cultivation. Improving personal moral cultivation will have the basis for promoting social fairness and civilization.

The civilized atmosphere of a society also has a great impact on its people. Why do you say this? I believe some students have experienced it personally after having been to Europe or Japan. Don’t talk about big things, just look at small things like crossing the road. As long as the red light is on, even if there is no car on the road, foreigners will never cross the road. They think this is a fair and civilized code that must be observed. Let me ask, in such an atmosphere, who would run a red light unscrupulously? This is the power of social atmosphere. But think about it again, if we don’t start from ourselves, where will this social atmosphere come from?

A reporter asked a Nobel Prize-winning scientist, "Professor, where did you learn the most important thing in life?" "In kindergarten. There, I learned something that will make me lifelong." Beneficial things, for example, sharing good things with friends, being modest, washing hands before eating..." The same is true for us to improve our own civilization. It does not necessarily have to take any great measures, but to eat and wash hands around us. Start small. Develop civilized habits, move the concept of civilization from the conscious level to the unconscious level, and make civilization permeate our every move.

We have been educated on civilized etiquette since childhood, and many classmates can talk endlessly about civilized etiquette. But how can we not feel heartbroken when we see lunch boxes and drink bottles discarded everywhere on campus, and when we hear the curse words uttered by some students? Are we all "giants of language and dwarfs of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar of the Ming Dynasty, said, "Knowledge is the idea of ??action, and action is the effort of knowing; knowledge is the beginning of action, and action is the completion of knowledge; knowledge and action are one entity and one effort. Knowing without doing is just unknown." We accept civilization If you are stingy about practicing etiquette education, or even do the opposite, what is the difference between this and never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must work hard on the "unity of knowledge and action", work hard on our own words and actions, and say goodbye to uncivilized behaviors. 4. Are there any ancient poems about comity?

1. The idiom definition of comity is for the country: Governance. Governing the country with the spirit of humility advocated by etiquette. Source of the idiom: "The Analects of Confucius·Li Ren": "Being able to use courtesy for the country" How can a country be governed by courtesy? "Idiom example: China originally believed in "courtesy as a country". Once there is courtesy, one must give in, and the more one gives in, the more complicated the etiquette will be. .2. Twelve Yuefu poems·Long Shang Tan Author: Yuan Jie Era: Tang Genre: Category: Aided vehicle ascends Longban, poor and high, then stops driving. Looks towards Rongdi Township, tours to revive the sorrowful story. Ziyi has sentimental teachings , the grass and trees can still be transformed. Sages and sages give way to the wind, why not spread throughout Xixia. Fathers and sons tolerate guessing and harm, monarchs and ministers dare to deceive. If it is suitable now, I want to live in peace. 3. Xunzi said: "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand, and people are rude. If you are rude, you will not be born, if you are rude, you will not succeed, and if you are rude, the country will be restless." Civilization and etiquette are the foundation of our study and life, and the arms of our healthy growth. 4. Harmony and soft words show your temperament, and humility and courtesy show your demeanor. "No "Learning etiquette is useless."

- "The Analects of Confucius. Ji Shi" A gentleman has benevolence in his heart and etiquette in his heart: a benevolent person loves others, and a polite person respects others. Those who love others will always be loved by others, and those who respect others will always be respected by others.

———Mencius: "Mencius. Li Louxia" Reciprocity should be reciprocated. It is impolite to go but not come; it is impolite to come but not go.

——— "Book of Rites. Qu Li 1" Behavior is a mirror that reflects everyone's own image. ——Goethe: "Affinity" One of the most important tasks of civilization is to make man be dominated by form in his purely material life, so that man can become an aesthetic person within the scope of the kingdom of beauty.

———Schiller: "Letter on Aesthetic Education" Politeness is the art of choosing among one's own true thoughts. ——A. Stevens: "Mrs. de Steele" Politeness makes polite people happy, and also makes people who are treated politely happy.

——Montesquieu: "The Spirit of the Laws" Nothing is lost by being polite, but everything is gained. ——Ma. W. Montague: "Letters" Etiquette is the smallest but most stable of all norms.

———La Rochefoucauld: "Moral Proverbs" Politeness is the flower of fraternity. People who are not polite cannot be said to have philanthropic thoughts.

——Joubert: "Collection of Quotes" What makes a person great does not lie in wealth and family status, but in valuable behavior and noble character. ——Ovie: "Famous Quotes" There are two types of bad etiquette: the first is shyness; the second is indiscretion and contempt. To avoid these two situations, you can only abide by the following rule. , that is, don’t look down on yourself, and don’t look down on others.

———John Locke: "Educational Essays."