? Kawabata Yasunari mentioned in "Dancing Princess" that the monk Ikkyu once said: It is easy to enter the Buddhist world, but difficult to enter the demonic world.
? When he introduced Japanese culture, he also said: "Ikkyu ate fish and drank wine, and was also close to women. He transcended the rules and precepts of Zen Buddhism and liberated himself from imprisonment to resist the The shackles of religion are determined to restore and establish human instinct and the nature of life in the hearts of people who have been shattered by war. After "It is easy to enter the Buddhist world", another sentence "It is difficult to enter the demon world" is added. ”
? Of course, later generations have different interpretations of Ikkyu’s words. Kawabata Yasunari borrowed the character in "Dancing Princess" and said: "The so-called demon world is a world where you live with a strong will." Bar. "This should be Ikkyu's original intention. I think the Buddhist world is a world where we live from a secular perspective. In this world, there are values ??recognized by the world. For any identity, what should be done and what should not be done has already been arranged. Well, as long as you live according to this value as a human being, you will enter the Buddhist world. In this way, it is indeed difficult to enter the demonic world.
"Although marriage leave is a personal right provided by the law, you also have it. Taking into account the school's teaching arrangements, some of our teachers take marriage leave during the winter and summer vacations. "
? "What's the point? This is how the school stipulates, just do what you are told! ”
? “Forget it about old teachers. What kind of recliners do young teachers use for lunch breaks? The impact is too bad. Just lie down on the table and squint for a while.” "
? "We have worked so hard as parents to bring you up, why don't you listen to us? "
? "You have grown up, haven't you? We are not old yet. If you are so disobedient, will you still be able to speak when we are old? "
? "You don't even have children, why would someone marry you? "
? "Everyone of your generation is going to have a second child, so make plans quickly. ”
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? Look, since you were born, this society has prepared one Buddhist world after another for you. You don’t need to think about it, just follow it step by step. You can easily enter Buddhahood. However, not everyone is willing to do this. There are always people who will have the idea of ??living according to their own will. This is to enter the devil world and to fight against the secular world. In this secular world, there is your future and development, as well as your parents'. The grace of nurturing.
? Work is the way for everyone to survive in society. The lucky ones can meet considerate and reasonable leaders, while the unlucky ones can only survive with bosses who are arbitrary and exploit their employees. Under the clutches of others, facing unreasonable instructions, you can only obediently enter the Buddhist world set by the orderer, otherwise you will be labeled as "disobedient" and will be relegated to the sidelines and receive promotions and salary increases. I feel like a stranger to you.
? Parents are the standard equipment for everyone when they come into the world. After all, there is no Sun Wukong in reality. The lucky ones can have parents who understand each other well, but the unlucky ones can only live. Under the shadow of "harm in the name of love", as a generation with higher education, we should be considerate of our parents' cultural class, tolerate their solidified class values, and understand their love of face and comparison. Otherwise, you will become an "unfilial son" in their eyes, and you will have to bear the reputation of "disobedience".
I often feel that for the unfortunate, the world is not only imperfect, but also terrible. Faced with all kinds of constraints, it is too difficult to live according to your own will. Even if what you think and do is completely reasonable, in an environment full of solid values, no matter how reasonable it is, it will be considered treason. This power of distorting things will make you depressed and world-weary, and eventually you will either go crazy or compromise. It is difficult to enter the devil's world, because it is too difficult to have the courage to resist worldly interference.
So, I am. I respect those who dare to enter the devil world, because they are strong enough. This kind of strength not only means not caring about the opinions of others, but also the courage that can make the world unparalleled.
If the boss is willful and exploits his employees, then. Just leave, there is no room for others here. Are you afraid that there will be no place for heroes? The premise is that you have to make yourself a hero.
If your parents are stubborn and controlling, then Just communicate with others. If it doesn't work ten times, try it a hundred times. If it doesn't work a hundred times, then you will die. As long as it is reasonable, what can they do if you are gentle and firm? The premise is that you must be gentle and reasonable.
? In this way, living according to one's own will does not necessarily mean fighting against the whole world. Finding an appropriate method and practicing it gently and firmly is also a way. Perhaps, entering the devil's world is not that difficult.
p>? In May, you can hear the ethereal chirping of birds at four in the morning. In the slow sunrise, the world becomes brighter little by little. I no longer struggle and try to make myself a hero. Enter the demonic world bravely, in a way that does not make you an enemy of the world. After all, difficulty and ease are often just a matter of thought.
? It is easy to enter the Buddhist world; it is not difficult to enter the demonic world.
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