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In life, forbearance is everywhere and everyone needs it. People who can't stand it must hurt others and themselves. A happy and harmonious marriage requires patience, driving safely requires patience, and proper patience and concessions in business will make you gain more. Learn patience, realize the true meaning of patience, and you will be handy in your work and life, and finally reap rich fruits of life.

I read an article before, which was a few words that a mother said to her daughter. The content is "life is to endure, as long as you endure anything, you can endure it." If you really can't stand it, then bear it again. " In this life, people have survived and passed. "This is very reasonable! Life is to endure, we will encounter many things that we don't want but can't do, so we can only endure at that time.

If you can't stand the temporary pain in life, then your pain will be long.

Ordinary people are always indignant when they are wronged and frustrated. However, it is because of resentment, pain and suffering that we have always been with us. If you exercise your mind and character by facing the blow, and even treat the person who hit you as a bodhisattva to influence you, thank him for giving you the opportunity to exercise and improve yourself, you will naturally be painless.

Patience is a good medicine. People who can endure go everywhere; Wherever people who can't stand it go, it is a conflict of opposites; You must be the last person to get hurt. Just like the social news we usually read in the newspaper, there are always people who can't control their temper because of a temporary impulse, which leads to a catastrophe and leaves irreparable regrets in life.

There are many reasons for the estrangement and contradiction between people in life, among which the lack of tolerance should be an important reason. Many people, unreasonable and unreasonable, are quite entangled. After all, they want to be superior and have the upper hand. As long as people bow their heads, they will never give in to others. This is a hegemonic mentality. You should know that extremes meet, too rigid people are easy to fold, and too soft people will trip. They are by no means weak, but they should forgive others and be patient.

The same is true of contempt. When you can't figure it out, all kinds of pains and blows will follow, making you exhausted and physically and mentally haggard. I figured it out, and it turned out to be "the breadth of heaven and earth, the narrowness of despicable people." It is better to let go calmly than to struggle in pain. Who can help me?

Endurance lies in yourself. In the family, there are often a lot of troubles and trifles, and a lot of leisure. If you are willing to spend some time on the details, these troubles can be avoided. A person who can tolerate kindness must be kind and can make the enemy forget the grievances. And a harsh person, who doesn't want to eat at all, can only make his flesh and blood not blind date, let alone treat outsiders. It can be seen that the relationship between people is in themselves and can't be blamed on others.

Be patient and adjust your mind. As far as the collective team is concerned, everyone's personality, thoughts and emotions are different, so friction disputes often arise because of different opinions. At this time, you must learn to be patient. If everyone indulges himself and is self-centered, it is impossible for the group to be harmonious. So everyone should take a step back, let go of their subjective ideas, and then communicate and discuss from them, so as to make comprehensive and objective considerations, and then reach a * * * understanding, so as to make the team's operation more efficient. Only by being patient can we have enough time and flexibility to adjust our steps and ideas and not do things on impulse.

The taste of forbearance is unpleasant, but it is the only way for every wise person to live. When "the heart is willing but the strength is insufficient", be patient; Be patient when desires swell into crazy dreams; When a person's personal interests are damaged and a person bears a heavy responsibility, patience ... patience is a test of will and a manifestation of "tenacity" spirit.

When a person encounters difficulties in life, he should bear them; Be patient when you encounter setbacks and get hit in your career; Be treated unfairly, be vilified by others, and endure; Encounter the misunderstanding of friends and relatives, but also bear; Poverty and poverty are not good, but we must endure it; When you succeed, you will have great prospects, especially when you are patient; In the face of all desires and temptations, the most important thing is to endure!

Forbearance is a knife in the heart. Banqiao has a famous saying, "It's inseparable". What is the real meaning of this sentence? The "confusion" here is based on "wisdom", which is both "confusion" and "wisdom" in "confusion". If we can reach this state, we can regard all kinds of troubles and sorrows in the world as passing clouds. Not bound by fame and fortune, not trapped by gain, loss, honor and disgrace. Is it necessary to stab yourself in the heart with such an open spirit?

Learning to be patient is a basic livelihood course in life. If you know how to be patient, wandering around in life will become easy and handy. Be patient, bow your head, work hard, and self-evident to show your quality.

If you know how to endure, you will know what is intolerable. People who only know that they can't stand it, like children dancing with sticks, have been waving themselves exhausted but don't know most of the waving movements, just wasting their strength.

Endure morning and night, humiliation, suffering, hunger and cold. Put up with right and wrong, and be quiet. Benevolence is the heart, forbearance is the line, forbearance can preserve health, forbearance can accomplish things, forbearance is great wisdom and courage, and it is also a great blessing. Endure what the world can't endure, and ordinary people can't achieve great things. Patience is an attitude, a mind, an understanding, a life wisdom and a lifelong effort.

Tolerance, to a great extent, is not to swallow the humiliation and make peace, but a way of thinking to achieve a certain purpose in life and avoid being emotional. Forbearance is actually a kind of life wisdom. Many times, because a small place can't help it, it's not worth ruining a big event or doing something that you regret for a lifetime.

Forbearance, silence. Not talking doesn't mean I acquiesce, it's because I don't want to quarrel. I don't give in because I care about you. Similarly, talking doesn't mean I'm happy, just don't want to see you sad. Quarrel doesn't mean I'm unreasonable, just don't want you to misunderstand all the time. Conclusion: endure the anger for a while and take a step back!

Filial piety to elders. Parents and elders made mistakes and must endure them. Polite persuasion is always full of sincerity, so be patient and happy. Serving parents, respecting elders and being filial is a formula of heart-to-heart.

Tolerance between husband and wife makes peace. A person's life is a long several decades, and only husband and wife can finish this journey hand in hand. Therefore, the fate between husband and wife should be especially cherished. Husband and wife can't get along all day without contradictions. Put up with yourself a little more, so there's no need to compete. No argument, no quarrel. No noise is peace, and everything at home is happy!

It's good to be patient with friends. When dealing with friends, colleagues, bosses and subordinates, forbearance means only taking the advantages of others, regardless of their shortcomings. If you meet a person who is opinionated in honesty and frankness, you need to forgive his rudeness; When you meet a person with superior intelligence, you need to tolerate his arrogance; When you meet an honest man, you need to understand some of his blandness. It would be nice to be more tolerant in everything. You can tolerate others, and others will tolerate you.

"All rivers run into the sea, with great tolerance; The wall is tough, it just has no desire; Good water is good. " How many people today can understand the meaning of the old saying that has been circulating for 2500 years?

If a person's heart is full of too many grievances, grievances and resentment, how can he move from forbearance to virtue? The Book of Changes says that "a gentleman carries things with great virtue", and this [great virtue] contains the virtue of forbearance. Tolerance and tolerance of all things, tolerance and turbidity, reflects a person's generosity. Tolerance is a combination of quality, morality, kindness and fraternity.

Buddha said: six degrees and ten thousand lines, patience is the first. The way to get along with others lies in infinite tolerance and forbearance. Tolerance requires reason, but tolerance requires generosity. "There is nothing in the world that cannot be tolerated, only things that you don't want to tolerate." We should use forbearance and tolerance to solve interpersonal contradictions in life. Don't hate those who can't stand it well; If you are good, you must endure it. If you are not greedy, you will not be greedy!

Finally, I racked my brains and tore the word "forbearance" like an outlet. These days, I have been wronged by the world, confused by my family and gradually calmed down by my disappointment. No appetite, no drowsiness, shut yourself in the room, listen to sad love songs, fight with the word "forbearance", vent in your own way, and seek psychological balance. When I rubbed out all the concepts reflected in the word "forbearance", my heart relaxed and I felt the word "calm". It turns out that people are calm in patience.

The word "calm" is explained like this. It refers to the calm and elegant feeling presented by the cultivation of inner mentality to a certain extent. Calm is a state of mind, a state of mind and a state of life. Each of us needs this kind of mentality, so that we can take our time in life and bear the burden of humiliation. I will not get carried away with excitement, nor will I be sad to death!

The motto of "forbearance"

1. Put up with what people can't stand, what pedestrians can't do, what people can't stand and what people can't do.

2. People with great wisdom and happiness can endure humiliation that others can't.

If you don't think twice, you will lose in the end, and people can bear it without worrying.

4. If you regress, you should regress and forgive others.

5. forbearance is a sacrifice, a determination and a virtue.

6. Qi is an open flame, while forbearance is an enemy. But leave a square inch of land for future generations to cultivate.

7. forbearance is a treasure of the body, and it never rains but it pours. Think about this word, what a happy party.

8. When people are depressed, they should use the word forbearance first, and then forget the word. This is to adjust their spirits and soup.

9. deceiving others is a curse and forgiving others, and forbearing words can be used all over the world.

10. forbearance is a kind of yin virtue, which can increase the blessings. Therefore, if someone bullies you and wrongs you, you should not only worry, but also thank others because they bring you good news.

1 1. Patience is a kind of wealth. I can't bear to be angry once, and fighting hard is a big disaster. I can't stand anger, I will haunt you all day. What are the disadvantages of making people step by step? It is a great blessing to have no troubles.

12. People who submit to humiliation laugh when they say you are good, and frown when they say you are not good. In this way, you cry when others tell you to cry, and you laugh when others tell you to laugh. What are you, a puppet that hasn't been played? If you are really a strong man, you won't be led by the nose!

13. Enduring weakness can nourish the heart, enduring hunger and cold can establish products, enduring language can avoid right and wrong, and enduring struggle can eliminate regrets. When things come, you should bear them most. When things are over, you should bear them again. Life is not afraid of a hundred forbearance, but a forbearance. If you can't bear it, all the blessings will disappear. If you can bear it, all the disasters will turn to ashes.

14. forbearance is the most important thing. Remember, forbearance makes gold. Be patient in everything, roll with the punches and leave no trace. Being able to practice is brave, and gentleness is the most useful. Showing your generosity is the real cow force, forbearing is the knowledgeable person, forbearing is the real hero.

15. Hanshan asked me: There are people who slander me, bully me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me, humiliate me and cheat me. What should I do? The poor monk took it over and said, just bear with him. Let him, avoid him, let him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, and see you in a few years.

16. Humiliation is different from servile flattery, humiliation and loss of personality, but a noble and difficult effort, which can only be achieved by people with great wisdom and great measurement.

17. Patience with a hundred ninjas is the source of all blessings.

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