A person who strives to be the protagonist everywhere will make people feel quite contemporary, but at the same time it will also make people feel inexperienced and foolhardy. In fact, many times in life, we are all asked to be supporting actors. Just engaged in a job, we should be prepared to be a supporting role. This is a modest attitude and a cooperative attitude. Only by doing a good supporting role can we learn a lot from the protagonist and let the protagonist impart knowledge wholeheartedly. However, if you rush at once and rush to do everything, others will be wary, and everyone is afraid that such people will come to grab their jobs.

As a novice, in order to enrich yourself, be willing to be a supporting role; As an old hand, you should also be willing to be a supporting role, so that novices have a chance to get exercise.

In addition, when you meet something that everyone can do at work, don't rush to show it. Even if you do, others won't praise you, and competing with others to do such a thing is easy to cause contradictions. And when others can't do something, you can bravely strive to be the protagonist and show it well, which can show your heroic nature. People who like to show their faces everywhere are often easy to become targets of public criticism. Those who are practical and willing to work at ordinary times are the most competitive at critical times. Therefore, we should learn to be a "dark horse" in life instead of trying to be an "early bird".

And to avoid some fame and fortune, so as not to end up with the reputation of snobbery, although capable. Because too many people like this kind of thing, fighting will make them filthy. If you can play a supporting role in the issue of fame and fortune, such people will have foresight and achieve great things. Mr. Qian Zhongshu has such a high reputation, on the one hand, because he is knowledgeable, on the other hand, because he is light and famous. In his words: Do you still care about money if you have been surnamed money all your life?

At the critical moment, we should strive to be the protagonist, but we should be fully prepared to be the protagonist, and we should not be impulsive. First of all, we must estimate our ability and have enough confidence in ourselves. Of course, this confidence cannot be blind. In addition, we should be able to handle all kinds of complex contradictions brought by being the protagonist, that is, all kinds of interpersonal relationships, and of course, we should also consider all kinds of accidents and be prepared to bear corresponding responsibilities.