When you are poor in the busy city, no one asks what it means to be rich and have distant relatives in the mountains. When you are poor in the city, no one asks, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives. It comes from "Zengguang Xianwen? Part 1", which roughly means that when people are poor, no one will pay attention to them even if they live in a prosperous place. When people are rich, people will visit them even if they live in remote mountains. In fact, it is human nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Don’t blame the indifference of people and the harsh world, because not every ordinary person can easily achieve a selfless and noble state, so whether you are in a high position or no one cares about you, you must maintain a considerate attitude. Forgive worldly people for their shallow humanity. Don't complain about others being indifferent. In fact, if you think about it, you would probably behave the same way. No one is nobler than anyone else, only one can see more clearly than anyone else, so don't care about how others treat you. What you should do After seeing through the reality, we no longer care about the shallowness of human nature. This is the best attitude towards life. The meaning of this sentence is the most realistic portrayal of the disparity between rich and poor.
My opinion is that everyone is working diligently to make money every day. Why is that? I just hope that I can be nothing more than a lowly person. , living under the roof of others, I also hope that my parents will have someone to rely on when they are older. When they get sick, we can also have money to treat them. When the children are young, we can let the children grow up healthily. When the children grow up, When we need help, we can also lend a hand. There are many people who need us, so we can't be cash-strapped. If we don't have money, how can we take care of our parents, how can we raise our children, and various interpersonal relationships? What to maintain? It won't work just by talking.
An ancient saying goes: When you are poor in the mountains, you have no one to ask, but when you are rich, you have distant relatives in the mountains. If you don’t believe it, just look at the wine at the banquet. Cups are served to the rich first. ?
People’s lives nowadays are very stressful and very realistic. Like young people or elderly people, we don’t dare to be lazy, afraid to get sick, afraid to have no job, and afraid to travel, just because we are poor. .
Because the pressure of life is too great, young people want to start a business, and when they get older, they are afraid of increasing the burden on their children. Only when you are young can you truly live a carefree life.
All of these require us to be strong and independent, but it is never that simple. There will be times when we can’t stand it and feel particularly aggrieved and sad. So what should we do?
Let us take a nap and wake up the next day to continue working and living.
We cannot fall by ourselves, because we are the best on our own!
The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, while the poor have no one to care about in the busy city. The original words should come from "Zengguang Xianwen": The rich live in the mountains and have distant relatives, but the poor live in the busy city and no one cares about them. I have long heard that if you read "Zeng Guang" well, you can speak, and if you are proficient in "The Analects of Confucius", you can govern the world. In the Song Dynasty, Zhao Pu only had half of the "Analects of Confucius" and became the prime minister to govern the world. But I read "Zeng Guang" thoroughly when I was young, and I still can't speak. "Zengguang Xianwen" is mostly famous quotes and aphorisms, summarizing life experiences, giving people a lot of teaching and inspiration. But not every word is a good word, every word is precious. Some of them are cold and cold, only reflecting the cold reality, exposing the bad nature of human nature without any solution, making some people feel sad, angry or negative after reading it. Being discouraged does not give people good encouragement. This is another kind of mountain that looks like a ridge when viewed from the side and a peak from the side.
Being upright, having a wise and kind heart, and being yourself is the most important thing.
Everything is divided into two parts. Since ancient times, it has been difficult to eradicate some of the bad qualities of human beings. Gold is not pure, people are not perfect, who has no advantages and disadvantages? Whoever can exploit his strengths and eliminate his weaknesses is the best.
But some people only see their own strengths but not their own shortcomings, and only see the shortcomings of others but not the strengths of others. Can such people do their best?
People have their own personalities and personalities, and they also have their own advantages and disadvantages. If you are rich in the mountains and have distant relatives, but you are poor and live in a busy city with no one to care about you, this is not a reflection of human nature. Is it a bad habit of sex? Looking at ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, this is the reality. Who is not snobbish? Who has not acted as a villain with a despicable personality? Whose love, morality and goodness are not diluted by greed and gain? Who doesn’t want to get rich and profit by relying on wealth? A fox will fake the power of a tiger, and a dog will rely on the power of others, let alone a person who claims to be extremely smart. It has become the norm to look down on the poor and to want to climb high and become rich.
To deal with the world in life, you need wisdom, courage and strategy. When doing things for others, you must live a decent life without losing yourself. You must also have a bottom line of principles. You must not forget about your good personality for the sake of wealth. I can't care so much about others. I must at least take care of myself. If you can't change others, change yourself first and be yourself. It is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself. If others are rich, it is always better to be rich than yourself. I have become different from others, and others like to make things better, and I prefer to provide help when it is time for others.
Keep kind thoughts in your mind, be low-key in words and deeds, don’t be arrogant when you are rich, and don’t feel inferior when you are poor. Nothing can be done without money, but money is not everything. If a person is poor, his ambition will not be short, and if a person is rich, he will not be arrogant.
Being poor and living in a busy city with no one to care about, but being rich and having distant relatives in the mountains?, this is This is a sentence from Zengguang Xianwen, also known as "Xianwen of the Past" and "Xianwen of Ancient and Modern Times". It is a children's enlightenment book compiled during the Ming Dynasty in China. The Ming Dynasty lasted from 1368 to 1644, which is 647 years ago. The ancients were so smart. They knew this principle more than 600 years ago and used it to educate children. It also shows that human beings are just repeating what happened more than 600 years ago and is happening again today.
Why do you live in poverty in a busy city with no one to care about you, and why do you live in poverty in the mountains and have distant relatives?
Zengguang Xian also said in his article: There are wine and meat, and there are many brothers. You will never see one person in a crisis. If you don’t believe it, just look at the wine at the banquet, and persuade the rich first cup by cup. The ancients said that friendship is all false. If you don’t have money, no one will care about you. If you have money, you will be a guest. Rich people are fawned over by others because they want to take advantage of them.
Even if rich people hide in the mountains, they will still be visited by flattering and flattering people. They just want to raise some funds from the rich people and get some benefits for themselves, so Rich has distant relatives (also hypocritical relatives) in the mountains.
What benefits can being poor bring to others? Relatives and friends can't even hide away, for fear that the poor will ask them to borrow money. They always turn their heads when meeting them, fearing that the poor will see them. When you are poor, you live on a busy street and no one even greets you.
The poor living in the busy city with no one to care about, the rich living in the mountains with distant relatives are all caused by poverty.
Stay away from villains and approach gentlemen, live your own life in an ordinary way
Stay away from the tendency to be attached to others, villains who hate the poor and love the rich, live a good life in your own family, let your husband and wife be harmonious, and have children. Be a filial mother and a virtuous mother, and you will be happy. Don’t interact with villains, inappropriate friends? Delete the ones that should be deleted, and don’t interact with those that should not be associated with each other. You will get angry if you interact with villains, so it is better not to interact with them, even if they are relatives, they will be treated the same.
Life is a repetitive process. The problems that occurred 600 years ago have not been solved today.
When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives? Do you agree with this sentence? Thank you for the Wukong Q&A? Invitation. These two sentences are a reflection of the real life in ancient times, especially in the feudal agricultural society. Everyone sweeps the snow in front of their own door and does not care about the frost on other people's tiles. The era of small-scale peasant economy, in which one household and one household is not concerned with matters, is a high-level summary of reality and social and life phenomena.
Today, when technology is highly developed and everyone is closely connected. Following the inflammatory trend, there are many people who dislike the poor and love the rich, so this phenomenon also happens from time to time. But the overall trend is that on the basis of the general improvement of people's consciousness, this phenomenon will become less and less, and when one party is in trouble, there will be more and more support from all parties.
With the advent of a moderately prosperous society in which everyone is prosperous, in the future, when communism is realized, the poor in the downtown area have no one to follow, and the rich in the mountains have distant relatives? They will also withdraw from the historical stage of human interaction.
People have ways of thinking and doing things. Although kindness and gratitude are our traditions, the methods and degrees of inheritance are different. Some people can only succeed by not forgetting their original intentions, while some people can burn bridges and be ungrateful. , not everyone has the same qualifications, so there are good and bad, heaven and hell, high and low. Therefore, if you are poor in the busy city and have no one to care about, if you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives. Some people are just snobbish. If you are in trouble and are in poverty, even your brothers and sisters will not be willing to help you, and they will even draw clear boundaries and boundaries. If you have power, you will They try their best to please you and get close to you. They look down on others, even to the extent and purpose of being shameless, so as to gain power and gain status, so as to achieve the purpose of rising tide. I hate the most shameless people who sacrifice their own bodies to gain the upper hand of those who are rich. The powerful and unscrupulous clinging to get money? and everything! I think this sentence is correct for some people in society, but it is nonsense for most people who have a sense of justice and positive energy. Please comment on what I said, is it correct?
"If you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you; if you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives."
This has been said since ancient times, because people’s behavioral norms are different, that is to say: when people are poor, no one dares to take care of you when you stand in the middle of a busy city, because they are afraid that you will be implicated. He (she) is "poor and no one cares about it in the busy city."
Rich people have distant relatives in the mountains. Anyone who has read "A Dream of Red Mansions" knows that Lin Daiyu's poor family went to live with relatives in Jia's family, and was treated by Jia's family. Despite being left out, the fate of Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu was still due to the fact that they were not in the right family and died of hatred. No matter where the rich lived, there were people who wanted to curry favor with him or her, because there was no risk in going to the rich's house, and they all wanted to make some money. So the rich in the mountains have distant relatives.
The poor in the city have no one to care about, and the rich in the mountains have distant relatives? In today's human society, the exchanges between relatives in rural areas and cities will become more and more intense. Slowly becoming less and less. They will drive away within 10 minutes of arriving. Due to the lack of communication, some people say that visiting relatives now is like acting. In the future, if you are poor in the city, no one will care about you, and if you are rich in the mountains, you will have distant relatives. There may be more phenomena.
When a person is very poor, you have no relatives to greet you even in a busy market. When a person is very rich, even if you live in a rural area in the mountains. , will not be without relatives. This sentence reveals the cruelty and indifference of human society, which makes us tremble.
Today’s question is both scientific and realistic. This reminds me of another sentence~ Brothers, let’s settle the score. If these two sentences appear in the same topic, it means holding the twist and not eating it. What’s important is the twist!
Okay, let’s go back to the topic. It is said that the rich live in the mountains and have distant relatives, but the poor live in the busy city and no one cares about it? The truth of this sentence is: there are three major hardships in life~ The first one to bear the brunt is losing my mother when I was 4 years old. My mother passed away when I was 4 years old. Our family really I was impoverished and had no relatives at all. I only remember an aunt who often came over to sew and mend my car. I had no relatives until I was 14 years old.
In 1968, I bought a Forever brand car. One day, a man suddenly came and asked me to borrow a bicycle. I asked him, "Who are you?" He said so politely, "How come you don't even know your relatives! They have never interacted with us but now?" Saying that I don’t know my relatives is really confusing right and wrong.
?My father heard someone yelling at me loudly in the room. When he came out, he smiled and said: "My baby is ignorant, don’t be surprised." ?As he said that, he gave it to the house. The relative said: I won't go in. Give me your bicycle. I immediately replied: I have to go out for something. You can come back another day. I turned around after saying that. I went out on a bicycle~ What kind of relative is this kind of person?
Let’s talk about my brother. He later lived a very wealthy life. He has many relatives. My brother lives in a very remote mountainous area. .
And although I live in a provincial capital, I am a poor worker, so I have no relatives to interact with. By chance, a relative comes to visit? He still comes to stay overnight! They wouldn't come to my house if they weren't trying to save money.
Okay, I won’t go into details here.