"People cannot be arrogant, but they cannot be arrogant." This sentence is a famous saying by the famous art master Xu Beihong. An arrogant person has an air of arrogance. He likes to reveal and show off his talents excessively. He is so arrogant that he is arrogant and arrogant. It is the kind of behavior that insists on showing "very capable" even if he has "three talents". It is self-righteousness. The vanity is the arrogance of all the talented people in the world who would rather me. This kind of person is domineering when interacting with others, and his typical characteristics are arrogance, domineering and gangsterism. Especially when he has a certain power or status, he will become bullish. Xiang Yu was arrogant, so he defeated Wujiang, and committed suicide in anger; Guan Yu was arrogant, so he defeated Maicheng, and died an untimely death. Arrogance is the most terrifying hidden danger of success and the most powerful catalyst for self-elimination. It is scorned by others.

Proudness is what people often call an upright and unyielding person. Pride is not pride, but a person's deep appreciation and cherishment of himself. You can knock him down 99 times, but he will stand up as long as he has a little strength; you can make him worthless, but he firmly believes that he can make a difference. A proud person cannot be bent by heavy objects, blown down by strong winds, frozen by ice or snow, or washed away by huge waves. There are proud men who can break long halberds, break silver tassels, destroy iron castles, and sell heavy armor. Pride is not measured by pounds, nor by money, nor by a small heart. A man with pride is a real man.

Regarding arrogance and arrogance, Li Ka-shing, the richest man in China, made a detailed analysis based on his personal experience in a speech. There was a boss of a large company who promised to do a business deal with Li Ka-shing, but later he went back on his word. Li Ka-shing went to the boss and asked: "You promised me something, why did you suddenly go back on it? This is wrong. If I were you, I would not be able to sleep." But the other party said arrogantly: "I won't Like you, I will sleep as comfortably as a baby." Three days later, the man came to Li Ka-shing and was willing to pay 50% more to complete the deal that he originally regretted. So Li Ka-shing asked him: "Didn't you say you couldn't do this business at the beginning, but could you still sleep as comfortably as a baby?" The other party answered honestly: "After that day, I really haven't had a good night's sleep."< /p>

After talking about arrogance, Li Ka-shing talked about the topic of arrogance, which he also experienced personally. More than 20 years ago, when he first joined the plastic flower industry, he often had to go to foreign banks to negotiate business. Once he met with a large customer who accounted for more than 90% of his factory's production to negotiate a contract. The customer is full of arrogance and treats Li Ka-shing in a condescending manner. At first he tolerated it, thinking that he would inevitably get a little angry when discussing business with big clients. Later, the other party said: "What would you do if you didn't have the support of our company?" Li Ka-shing suddenly stood up and said, "Please leave immediately." With this slap, he overturned the water glass on the table. Afterwards, he believed that this was a necessary approach. Although the way to do business is to put profit first, but if you let others do it without principle, you will not have even the slightest bit of pride. In the end, you will definitely suffer the loss. Pride is a tenacious quality in the inner world and the foundation for having the courage to face harsh environments without being humble or overbearing. Mei has pride, so she can despise the coldness of winter; Peony has pride, so she can not fear the power of the powerful; Tao Qian has pride, so he refuses to bend his back for five buckets of rice; Zhu Ziqing has pride, so he would rather starve to death than Eat American relief food. Proudness is the idea of ??resistance or rebellion deep in one's bones. This idea is praised and respected by others.

It can be seen that there is a huge difference between arrogance and pride. Pride is pale and powerless in front of pride, because pride is at best like an embroidered pillow, sluggish in it, while pride seems to be a hidden peerless martial arts, full of power. A 30-year-old man has said goodbye to the arrogance of a 20-year-old man, and has not yet been infected with the sophistication and cowardice of a 40-year-old man. He is just in the season of being arrogant and proud. This may be one of the sources of their charm.