It means you can only save the poor for a long time.
Let's talk about the emergency first
If friends around us come to borrow money from us in the following three situations, we can help our friends tide over the difficulties within our power.
The first situation is that the children at home are short of money for school.
Children are the hope and future of a family. It takes ten years to plant trees and a hundred years to educate people. If children do well in school, it happens that there is not so much money at home. When friends want to borrow money from us, we should help them. Because at this time, we can help children's lives, which is a matter of infinite merit, so in this case, we can help or help.
The second situation is that family members need to borrow money to treat diseases when they are sick.
Life is life, nothing is more important than life. Because saving a person's life is equivalent to saving a family and avoiding the separation of a family. When our friends borrow money in this way, we should lend a helping hand.
The third situation is that there is no money for weddings and funerals at home.
Hongshi: It is easy to understand that when there is a happy event at home, the whole family is very happy at this time, and they all hope to get the blessings from relatives and friends. When people around us come to talk about it, we try not to give them any trouble, but we should help them if we can.
White matter: it means that someone in the family has died and needs to do something. The ancients said that when people die, the most important thing is to be buried. This is the end of a person's life and a major event in the family. Everything has to make way for this matter. So if someone around us needs money in this situation, we should try our best to help him.
In the above three cases, the family situation is critical. When we ask for money, we are duty-bound.
Besides, don't save the poor.
But in two cases, no matter how good the relationship is, we can't lend him money.
The first case: the other party wants to commit a crime. You can't borrow this money If you lend it to him, it's an accomplice, and you become his accomplice. If things get too big and you have to go to court, it's not worth the loss.
The second case: the other party borrows money and does not pay it back. As the saying goes, it is not difficult to borrow after borrowing. What credit can such a person have if he breaks his word? Once you lend it out, you can never get it back.
come to a conclusion
"Urgent is to save the poor" means that we can measure whether the other party's affairs are urgent. If there are sudden changes or temporary difficulties at home, we can help them tide over the difficulties. But if we borrow money because we are poor and can't live any longer, then try not to act rashly.
Because poverty is not temporary, nor can it be solved by giving him a sum of money. The ancients said,' It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish'' If he doesn't have the ability to support himself, it is impossible to change the status quo with the help of others. We should also be less contaminated with such people, otherwise it will be like a dog skin plaster. We can help for a while, but not for life.
This is an epigram left by our ancestors, which can keep us away from the trouble of borrowing money from others.