In the process of dealing with people around you, don't listen to others too much and don't get too close to others. People who are really smart know this. Just like there is a cloud in "Caigen Tan", a gentleman should not be regarded as angry when he is in the world. His heart, liver and bravery are all seen by people. Being a man, although you can't cover everything, you must keep some heart and know how to disguise yourself. A man with a deep talent will have "six characters", so he should learn more. Take the road of social development, wander the rivers and lakes, don't be too simple, lest you be used by people with sinister ideas.
1 "Be careful" is not used to saying that people are outspoken, usually careless people. This kind of person likes to pry into the right and wrong of people around him wherever he goes. Once they hear a rumor, whether it is true or not, they will tell it to those who are far away from them. If he says others are nice behind their backs, that's all right. The key lies in his attitude of causing trouble, which makes him always like to talk about other people's "dirty things". Exposing other people's shortcomings behind their backs and discussing other people's housework will bring inconvenience to themselves once it is introduced into the ears of the parties.
A person who really understands people's hearts will never expect others to keep secrets for him. He can't control the result of his mouth, but he can never stab anyone in the back. When others get together to discuss right and wrong, he always listens and says nothing; When others are in a hurry to express their opinions, he often behaves calmly. "It has nothing to do with yourself" and does not participate in other people's gossip. This is a kind of intelligence. Even if you don't like anyone, you won't gossip behind your back, and you won't leave a handle on others because you are outspoken. This is also a way of self-protection.
2 "Low key", don't show off casually. The more vain people are, the more they like to show their intelligence and skills in front of others. If you make a career, or you earn more money in business, your whole body will begin to drift, and you will repeatedly show off your success to others. While talking about how good your daily life is now, you also talk about who you know and how wide your contacts are. Such blind flattery can only arouse the resistance of others.
If you meet that kind of dirty and nice person, you will often destroy its brand image behind his back, or deliberately expose his contact with others, which is not good for her at all. Being a person incisively and vividly will actually become more and more low-key, only concentrate on making money, and don't want everyone to know their abilities, including relatives and friends.
The better you live, the more you have to hide the light, because when you are better than the people around you, everyone's focus will be on you. You should learn to guard against others and try not to be poor, instead of showing off your poverty. You can live a better life by lying down and making money.
3 "Smooth", there is a real person who does not turn his face casually, and he is particularly "one-track" in dealing with problems. No matter with his relatives and friends, or with his work colleagues, as long as the other party is not satisfied with him, he will break these words and turn his face willingly. When people are doing things, they love to do the right thing and lose their temper. This character is actually very dangerous. Especially when others embellish and gossip around her, she will be more likely to believe that others are greedy and leave for some people. Some little things are not worth taking too seriously. Don't make friends with others, because you can't control your temper. That's really not a good thing.
The road of life, life is meaningful. Sometimes you think that people who can't be used for a lifetime can help you if you want. Don't make the connection too ugly unless you have to. Save face for each other and get along well afterwards. People should be tactful, sometimes perfunctory, please others moderately, and will not easily damage their brand image, leaving room for others and leaving room for themselves.
Dealing with people is never an easy task. Being too honest and too smart is not good for you. The best thing is: don't have any bad intentions, but at the same time don't trust others too much. Don't reveal what you shouldn't say; Do not show off, do not easily prevent poverty. Talking about getting along with others is a false reality in itself, a false reality, a person who sees through and doesn't tell the truth. Just be yourself with a clear conscience.