"1"
In 216, the film and television circles and sports circles were very lively. First, Wang Baoqiang broke the news that his wife Ma Rong cheated on his agent Song Zhe; Another badminton star Lin Dan was exposed to his wife Xie Xingfang's derailment during pregnancy; Later, Chen Sicheng was exposed to infidelity; The series of derailment incidents verified Zhang Ailing's well-known saying: Life is a gorgeous robe covered with lice. The life of the stars in the spotlight is like a gorgeous robe, well-made and dazzling, but it is a pity that it is covered with lice. Why don't you want this gorgeous robe because of these lice? Of course not. Clever as snow's wives all greet the prodigal men with broad minds, so Ma Yili's "Love is easy, marriage is not easy, and do it and cherish it"; With Xie Xingfang's "Our family will support this man who dares to take responsibility and repent, and our family will go through thick and thin". Seeing this, the people who eat melons are not happy. What, what, can't they grow up and take a break from those derailed men and fight for our female compatriots? ! Tear, curse, divorce? NO, it's too expensive to hurt. These clever women all know that there is no perfect life. How can there be a flawless life? The key is what attitude we choose to face it? Only by forgiving, letting go, will you be born again and have it.
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A friend asked a woman, "Where does your husband work?" "He's free, he's got a piece of land on the mountain, and he's self-sufficient." The woman said calmly.
This is a simple story about a short family life, which has no significance to write. But when you learn that this woman's husband died of a sudden illness in his forties and was buried in the mountains, do you still accept this funny joke? And when I heard this, my heart was already in a state of turmoil.
In front of her, her temperament is elegant, and her face is full of wealth and happiness. It is difficult for us to associate her with words such as "misfortune and suffering". You know, after her husband died, she didn't remarry, and she brought up her children with hardships. It is not humane for a woman to take care of the sadness and hardship of her two children during this period, but she never returns her life with a "bitter hatred" attitude. On the contrary, she tidies herself up neatly and manages her life with emotion and tone, so that her two children can live in the nourishment of love and grow up healthily physically and mentally.
I think that such a woman will become today's philosophical and strong after being polished and influenced by time and experience. When it comes to the late husband, it will pass lightly with a joke! People have gone, there is no resurrection, why bother to be sad, laugh at the pain, and laugh at the rivers and lakes. This is a philosophical attitude towards life.
"3"
A young woman is charming and charming, and many men are courting her. In the eyes of outsiders, she is a goddess, and women are envious and jealous of her. But one day, she committed suicide by jumping off a building! The news was no less than a bomb, which exploded the whole office building and scared her colleagues who lived with her day and night. Everyone didn't understand and didn't accept it. How beautiful and glamorous her life was? How can you take this road of no return? Later, I learned that her husband was stationed abroad all the year round, gathering less and leaving more, and the relationship between husband and wife was weak. And her daughter's adolescence is also very rebellious, which makes her eager to pursue perfection unacceptable and eventually leads to no return. And she never said all this after work. How can she reveal her own little bad in front of everyone with strong self-esteem? All the misfortunes are supported by themselves, resisted by themselves, and finally can't resist. They get depressed and go to the road of suicide! It really makes people sigh and sigh!
If she doesn't wrap herself so tightly on weekdays; If she has a bright and cheerful personality, she should communicate with colleagues and friends. If she can look down, maybe her mood will be relieved and not lead to tragedy!
people float in rivers and lakes, which one doesn't get stabbed? Why bother to take life seriously, why bother to take your own life!
if life is beautiful, it is called wonderful. If it is bad, it is called experience!
"4"
I remember that during the Sichuan earthquake, there was a joke circulating on the Internet. When a Sichuanese was rescued, he saw a foreign rescue team around him and said, "Damn, this earthquake is so fierce that it shocked me abroad!"! This sentence made everyone at the scene laugh! A misery full of sadness made the Sichuanese resolve a lot in one sentence! We can't resist natural disasters, and we can't predict man-made disasters, but what we can choose is to accept it with a philosophical attitude and then face it with a more positive attitude.
Look at the writer Wang Xiaobo, who made friends with a pig when he jumped the queue in the countryside, and wrote A Pig Walking in a Unique Way. Reading that article, the language is relaxed and humorous, and life is childlike. What you see and feel is not the hardship and desolation of the countryside, but the childlike innocence and optimism and joy of the writer Wang Xiaobo!
life itself is a process, an experience, an experience! People come to the world naked, no matter whether life gives you ups and downs or ups and downs, you are just experiencing different lives and playing different roles. When the stage curtain calls, we will eventually take off our makeup and head for the unknown destination.
So, dear, let us all see the essence of life, understand the living truth, face it with an optimistic and indifferent attitude, and live the present with a laughing and cursing attitude! ! !