-Feng Jicai

Man is a book. Reading people is more difficult than reading books written in other languages. I have read it carefully, and I have read it for most of my life, but I still don't understand this "People's Tales".

Some people are willing to lend you their umbrellas on sunny days, but when it rains, they leave quietly with umbrellas.

Don't blame him when you read him. Because he doesn't want to get wet by himself or share other people's difficulties. What can you say? Keep an umbrella for yourself.

Some people, when you have power and influence, run around you, you leave your job, or you have no power and influence, but he hides far away.

You must understand him when you read him. Because he used to praise you for a certain need, now you don't have that ability, there is no need to sing any hymns for you. Here, you need to calm down and think about whether you trusted others too much in the past.

Some people, in the face of your affection, the expression of language is like a clear and sweet river, but there is a dirty undercurrent under the riverbed.

Don't hate him when reading him. Because anyone who deceives others with hypocrisy as a mask, his life is very difficult, and maybe he will be punished by the same hypocrisy. You should understand his lifestyle and wait for his return and reflection on humanity.

Some people, when you sow hard, stand by and refuse to shed a drop of sweat, but when you harvest, they share your fruit shamelessly for various reasons.

-when you read him, don't be disgusted. Because someone is willing to share the sweetness of the harvest with you, no matter what kind of psychology he is, he should be welcomed. You made a little sacrifice, but you fulfilled a person's desire for performance. Slowly, he will learn some self-esteem and self-love.

Some people pay attention to the decoration of appearance, and their clothes show a luxury, but their hearts are full of emptiness, ignorance and ignorance. The form of that culture is often unconsciously revealed in his speech and behavior.

Don't despise him when reading him. Because he doesn't know that clothes are made by tailors, and they are only signs of money, but knowledge, morality and temperament are a person's real life value. For vulgar people, we should compare our behaviors in time.

Reading others is actually reading yourself, truth, goodness and beauty, as well as hypocrisy behind hypocrisy, ugliness behind beauty and cunning behind smiles. ...

Reading people, the most important thing is to know what kind of people.

Reading people is to be a real person.

Therefore, when reading people, we should learn to be tolerant and generous, so that we can read something beneficial to ourselves, noble, happy and happy.

Although I haven't finished reading People's Tales, I will always try to read it from all aspects.

Feeling:::::

After reading Feng Jicai's Generous Reading, I have a new understanding of my outlook on life. It can be said that he wrote a classic quotation of life philosophy. It is said that a person is a book, and reading a person is more difficult than reading any book written in words.

Learn to be tolerant and generous when reading people, so that you can read something beneficial to yourself, noble, happy and happy. I remember reading this article, the biggest feeling is that a person can live so easily and happily, and feel that his heart has been touched and suddenly enlightened. He feels that all the grievances in this world seem to have passed, and he doesn't want to care about anything anymore.

If you are generous in reading, you will forgive those who are willing to lend you an umbrella on sunny days, but when it rains, he leaves quietly with an umbrella-don't blame him when you study. Because he doesn't want to get wet in the rain or share other people's difficulties, what can you say? Keep an umbrella for yourself. If you read generously, you will forgive those who stand by and refuse to shed a drop of sweat when you are trying to sow, but when you harvest, he shares your fruit for various reasons without shame-don't be disgusted when you read him. Because someone is willing to share the sweetness of your harvest, no matter what kind of psychology he is, he should be welcomed. You made a little sacrifice, but you fulfilled a person's desire for performance. Slowly, he will learn some self-esteem and self-love. There is another kind of person who pays great attention to the decoration of appearance and shows a luxury in clothes, but his heart is full of emptiness, ignorance and ignorance, and often unconsciously exposes himself in words and actions-don't despise him when reading him. Because he doesn't know that clothes are made by tailors, and they are only signs of money, but knowledge, morality and temperament are a person's real life value. For vulgar people, you can compare your own behavior.

Once faced with some unreasonable things, I couldn't let go for a long time and felt that people were tired when they were alive. Because of such problems and reasons, friends, colleagues and husbands often have some frictions and contradictions, and once felt that life was helpless.

It was "reading generosity" that taught me how to face adversity, and everything became so insignificant. Some mistakes will inevitably be made at work, and interpersonal relationships will not be bad forever. Not everyone likes you and appreciates you. Some people in the world are allowed to dislike you and appreciate you. As long as you are sincere and work hard, there will always be sunshine and starry sky.

Marriage is an eternal thing for two people. Pay, communicate, communicate, care, tolerate and appreciate ... husband and wife will not get tired of life, cherish each other and taste the sweetness of love and the warmth of family. Mr. Lu Xun has such a famous saying: "Love must be updated, grown and created from time to time." Therefore, when you encounter unhappy things, annoying little people and whispering cynicism, just open the book, find Generous Reading, enjoy it, and read it repeatedly ... The impetuous heart will be gradually smoothed away, and the agitated mood will be relaxed for a moment. I really want to reinvent myself and be a generous and tolerant person.

A generous person must also be a tolerant person. Broad-minded as the ocean, boundless; Broad-minded as the sky, boundless blue. The sky is blue, the sea is blue, and the heart is brilliant.

Reading others is actually reading yourself, truth, goodness and beauty, and also reading hypocrisy behind hypocrisy, ugliness behind beauty, and cunning on the other side of a smile. ......

Reading people, the most important thing is to learn to read all kinds of people in order to change with each other. Correct mentality, and strive to be a generous person, a tolerant person.