2. Promote Mien and fight Miqiu. (Fighting rice is good, forbearing rice is enemy. )
It means that if you give people little help in an emergency, people will appreciate you. If this goes on, suddenly you don't help for some reason, and the other party will hate you for life!
Just like people who receive relief, when they are used to it, they often take relief for granted. They naturally don't think about what they do and get food by their own labor. If you later find out that he has recovered his working ability and you don't help him, he will hold a grudge against you.
This is because the other person takes for granted what you originally supported with love.
This is Damien, Shimizu. The meaning is to help others, make others dependent, from gratitude to taking it for granted, and finally become enemies.
3. Long-term gratitude will make enemies.
4. Great kindness is great hatred.
5. Softness without boundaries will only make the other side push your luck; Unprincipled kindness will only let the other person do whatever he wants.
Extension:
There is a short story in Historical Records and Biography of Huaiyin Hou, which tells about Han Xin who helped Liu Bang conquer the world. When Han Xin was young, he was not only poor, but also had bad conduct. He can't be an official, he can't do anything in business without laws. He had to live in other people's homes for nothing, and he was not welcome anywhere.
Seeing that Han Xin was lonely, a local pavilion director took good care of him and invited him home for dinner, so Han Xin often went to the pavilion director's house for dinner.
After a long time, Tingchang's wife was very unhappy. One day, she deliberately cooked the meal in advance and told her family to finish the meal early. Even the pots and pans were clean, leaving no food for Han Xin. When Han Xin arrived at Tingchang's house at the usual time, there was only an empty dining table waiting for him. Han Xin turned away in a rage and never went to Tingchang's house again.
After leaving Tingchang's home, Han Xin couldn't find food, so he had to go fishing by the river to fill his stomach. Han Xin met an old woman in a fishing place. She lives by the river all the year round and washes clothes for a living. She sympathized with what happened to Han Xin and beat him up.
Later, Han Xin made great contributions to the Han Dynasty. Remembering the kindness of the old woman, he ordered people to give her 1200 gold in return. But for the Tingchang family who took care of him for a few months, they only gave him a hundred pence and said, "You have done a good deed from beginning to end, but you are just a villain."