My favorite Confucius motto
I remember Confucius said, "Not strong but not far away, not working hard but not working hard, disloyal but not kissing, unbelieving and disrespectful, disrespectful and disrespectful". It means: you can't go far if you are not strong, you can't succeed if you are not diligent, you can't be close to loyalty, you can't be rewarded if you don't keep your word, you can't be respectful and have no manners. Please follow these five rules carefully, and you will live forever. Confucius' thoughts are profound and involve many aspects. Generally speaking, it is nothing more than two aspects: one is how to be a man, and the other is how to achieve things. See if it's strong. Confucius said that being a man is "kind without robbing, close without forcing, and can be killed without humiliating", which is a kind of fortitude. Only by being "strong" can we have grand and lofty feelings. Second, look at nothing. In a sense, suffering is proof that people are alive. When people die, there is no pain. Those who don't want to contribute but want to benefit are whimsical unless they are waiting for good luck. Let's look at infidelity. People are in an environment of intrigue all day, either calculating others all day or guarding against being calculated by others all day. Then there is no loyalty. We should try our best to treat others sincerely and selflessly, which is the moral criterion for dealing with the relationship between people. I never understood whether I believed it or not. Probably when dealing with people, you must first keep your word in order to have a return. Something like this. It was rude at last. Is to respect people, be serious and respect people. This is a ceremony. Treat people as human beings, and don't be arrogant and rude to people under any circumstances. This is my understanding. Please correct me if there is anything wrong.