There is no doubt that a white lie itself is a lie. Lies, lying is deception, deception is immoral, and immoral things are unpopular. These are all things our teachers have taught us since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who has never told a lie? Whether it is for our relatives, friends, or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add a "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept it. This is a concentrated expression of the weakness of human nature.
Mark Twain once said: "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponents and relieve your friends." Therefore, psychology The opinion of academic experts is: Don’t lie easily, even if it’s a white lie.
The second opponent, please note that even if it is a white lie, as a lie itself, it is an act contrary to integrity. Therefore, no matter whether the lie has a good purpose, as a lie itself, it will definitely hinder the Integrity. Therefore, I want to speak loudly here, let us reject white lies and jointly build an honest society.
A white lie is to tell lies, lies, exaggerate, cover up, and distort the truth without seeking truth from the facts. Let’s start with the analysis of the phrase structure of white lies. It is a biased phrase, and the central word is lie. Therefore, white lies are essentially lies. Although the motives of white lies are good intentions, because good intentions themselves have certain uncertainties, they are often exploited by some "professional liars" - this is an indisputable fact. "Lies" themselves are dark. The likes and dislikes of things cannot be measured by their purpose. White lies themselves are lies. Although he took off his beggar's clothes and put on a cheongsam, he still couldn't get rid of the essence of lies, and lies mean deception, thus hindering integrity. The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once such a lie is exposed, it will hurt the other party more deeply. As a lie itself, it is an act contrary to integrity.
In the 20-word code of ethics proposed in the "Implementation Outline for Citizen Morality Construction" promulgated by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "integrity" is a very important code. Integrity is the pursuit of "truth" and the pursuit of integrity. justice. The ancients said that "the true one" is the most sincere person. If you are not refined or sincere, you cannot move people.
As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The harmonious socialist society we want to build should be democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, integrity and friendliness, full of vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature. society.”
Through the above-mentioned multi-faceted analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie has a good purpose, it will definitely hinder integrity as a lie.
Because if you tell a white lie, the white lie will still be discovered later. Then people who are deceived by white lies will feel even more sad.
Honesty and trustworthiness are a beautiful quality of the Chinese people. We cannot destroy our Chinese quality just because some people tell white lies.
The reason "lies" are called "lies" is because they are false, untrue, and deceptive words. If a person often lies in his mouth and deceives others, over time, He will lose people's trust. We still think so - a lie is still a lie, no matter whether it is good or not.
A lie is still a lie after all. This is a fact and cannot be changed. No matter what lies are told, they are all lies. People must be honest and cannot deceive others, even if it is a white lie...
Examples of honesty
1. Young people talk about trustworthiness Achieve success
There was a young man in the United States whose father died young and left behind a pile of debts. This young man did not excuse his father's death to avoid debts like other people. On the contrary, he visited them one by one. The creditors were very sympathetic to the young man's plight and offered to defer the repayment for 20 years.
With hard work, he paid off all the debts left by his father and even paid back the interest. People who knew these things were very moved and deeply felt that this young man was a trustworthy person, so they all came to him. Cooperate to do business. As a result, the youth later achieved great success.
2. Be sure to deliver the goods on time
The American IBM computer company has developed rapidly and has not declined for nearly a hundred years. It relies on the high sense of responsibility of the company's service personnel in their work. and the virtue of adhering to integrity.
One day, a user in Phoenix was in urgent need of computer accessories to rebuild a multi-functional database. After the company learned about it, it immediately sent a female employee to deliver it. On the way, it encountered heavy rain and the river surged, submerging 14 bridges along the way. Traffic was blocked and cars could no longer drive. Normally, when encountering this special situation, the female employee would have every reason to return to the company, but she did not do so. What she thought was that the company had already promised the customer and she would do it no matter what. If she returned to the company at this time, the company's reputation might be damaged. Thinking of this, she used a pair of roller skates that had been stored in the car to skate towards her destination. It usually only takes twenty minutes to drive, but today it turned into a four-hour trek. After the female staff arrived at the user's location, she promptly solved the user's problem regardless of the fatigue of the journey.
IBM has won praise from the majority of users because of the responsible attitude and honest behavior of its staff.
3. The wolf is crying
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On the contrary
There is such a saying: white lies are beautiful. When we tell moderate lies for the happiness and hope of others, lies become understanding, respect and tolerance, and have magical power.
My eyes always get wet when I read the American short story "The Last Leaf". When the sick old man looked at the withering leaves and felt desolate and despairing, the loving painter used a carefully sketched green leaf to decorate the withered tree of life, thus maintaining the dying light of life for a while. Isn't this the ultimate lie?
Lies born out of good intentions are the nourishment of life and the source of belief. It ignites the fire of hope in people's hearts and makes them convinced that there is love, trust and touching in the world, thus finding more reasons to smile at life. White lies are the spirituality given to human nature, embodying the delicacy of emotion and the maturity of thought, prompting people to be strong and persistent, to strive hard involuntarily, and finally to overcome vulnerability and survive in desperate situations.
A lie from a parent can make the face of a child who is not familiar with the world as bright as a flower; a lie from a teacher can help hesitant students no longer be confused and grow better; a lie from a doctor can make the fearful students no longer confused. The patient goes from destruction to rebirth...
White lies do not hinder integrity at all. Don't think that white lies will hinder integrity anymore, because as long as you are thinking about others, then kindness Lies are precious. They will neither cause a crisis of trust, nor tarnish civilization, nor distort human nature.
White lies have the magical power to encourage you to make progress again and again and never give up for the dreams in your heart. Because the road ahead is completely illuminated by a happy mood, and life becomes better because of it.
If being honest and forthright is a mistake, I choose to lie.
If true confession and frankness are a kind of harm, I choose to lie.
If it is to save yourself or others from pain and sorrow, what’s the harm in lying more?
Positive
The reason why "lie" is called "lie" is because it is false, untrue, and deceptive words. If a person often lies in his mouth to deceive others, he will lose people's trust over time. Just like the child in the article "The Lying Child", he shouts "Wolf is coming" every day to seek excitement and happiness. But when the wolf really comes, he has only one person to face it and bear it, no matter what. Shouting would not help, and no one would come to help him again. Because maybe the people who came to help him have become accustomed to his shouting and thought he was "teasing you" again. It can be seen that lies are detrimental to integrity
I am very happy to talk about white lies today. Express your opinion on whether the integrity of the argument is compromised. The following is our view:
There is no doubt that a white lie itself is a lie. Lies, lying is deception, deception is immoral, and immoral things are unpopular. These are all things that our teachers have taught us since childhood.
But we ask ourselves, who has never told a lie? Whether it is for our relatives, friends, or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add a "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept it. This is a concentrated expression of the weakness of human nature.
Mark Twain once said: "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will embarrass your opponents and relieve your friends." Therefore, psychology The opinion of academic experts is: Don’t lie easily, even if it’s a white lie.
I think a person should be honest.
White lies often mislead people, causing them to make wrong judgments.
Your good intentions may be different from what others think. No one has the right to interfere with other people’s freedom.
Many things should be faced by oneself, and others should not interfere (a white lie is an intervention based on information.)
What do you think is a white lie? Do you think so too?
Are you sure that your opinion is correct? , Doing so is using your own subjective will to change other people's wishes, and it is interfering with other people's freedom.
Because white lies are interference with others, do you think they are wrong or right?
Even if it is a white lie, as a lie itself, it is an act that is contrary to integrity. Therefore, regardless of whether the lie has a good purpose, as a lie itself, it will definitely hinder integrity. Therefore, I want to speak loudly here, let us reject white lies and jointly build an honest society.