Day 180 of Daily Diligence

Name: Chen Peinan

Group Name: Transformation 6 Group

Date: February 26, 2021

Learning-Knowledge

Listen to books today: "Fan Deng Talks about the Analects", "The Front and Side of Zeng Guofan", "The Wisdom of the Wolf", "The Stranger Effect", " "Rural China", "The Journey of a Lifetime"

Today's reading: "The Method of Happiness" (7th book in 2021)

Analects of the Day: Confucius said: "Taibo, This can be said to be the most virtuous. If the world gives way, the people will not be able to achieve anything."

Today's quotation: When the attention is focused on a certain task, whether it is an individual or an environment, will have a positive impact.

------Abraham Maslow

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Xi-Practice

1. One of the F4 members A baby encountered some confusion, which happened to be a problem in intimacy, so while driving on the road, I shared it with the group in voice mode for about 20 minutes. It’s not that I’m a good teacher, because everyone is familiar with me, so I just shared my Some of my personal experiences and understandings, I didn’t expect to have some inspiration for both husband and wife, and I am deeply gratified.

2. Suddenly I found that my work didn’t seem that busy, or I didn’t work hard at all these days, but I still felt like I didn’t have enough time during the day. After careful reflection, I discovered that too much fragmented time was wasted unknowingly, and too much surplus time was not formally used.

3. The time during the day is wasted wandering around, strolling here and there, occasionally checking messages on the phone, chatting on the phone, meeting customers, making tea, and so on. Sleep is wasted. In fact, you can also finish what you must do first during the day, so that you won't stay up late every day at night. At the same time, you can also use your time to create some value, such as work value or study value, if you really have nothing to do. You can read a book, just like in your hometown.

4. When I called home to greet my father at night, I talked about the decoration of the house in my hometown. Since I was out for a long time, I told my father that I had no plans to do any decoration for the time being, which caused him to have some small problems. A small loss. After the exam, I didn’t feel very comfortable inside. I first accepted my emotions, then explained it to my dad, told my reasons, and at the same time, I also had a good understanding of my dad’s thoughts.

5. I originally planned to participate in an offline event on non-violent communication tonight, but since it was the Lantern Festival, Xiaoyu called me specifically to tell me that I would try to take time to go home and eat glutinous rice balls with my children in the evening, so I planned to go early. Go home and spend time with your family. I feel a little ashamed. I have been in Xiamen for so many days and have not spent time with my family. I don’t know what I am busy with.

6. Several live broadcasts were going on at the same time in the evening. I chose to listen to a live broadcast about speeches. It was very good and full of useful information. I learned several ways to express myself. It makes your thinking clearer and also leaves some assignments that can be completed. In order to make greater progress, you must get out of your comfort zone and complete the four assignments seriously.

7. The company has released some new products this year. Since most of the time is spent on study and life, the professional knowledge at work is not very familiar, and some are even unwilling to learn it. Maybe I have become lazy, and at the same time, professional knowledge is too difficult. As a result, the performance in front of customers is not so familiar, which is a bit embarrassing. Since everyone has such a passion for learning, they should inject passion into work that can bring them wealth. It is even more important to fully study and demonstrate your professional abilities, starting from stepping out of your comfort zone again.

8. "The Method of Happiness" mentioned that we must have our own goals and at the same time give the goals a certain meaning. In the process of achieving your goals, you must also enjoy the present and live with a travel mentality.

Thinking about myself now, my goals are not very clear. Maybe I am enjoying every process, but in the end I seem to be a little blind, so I will set some more detailed goals for myself next. I will think about it carefully at night and find that there are still many. Things need to be done by me.

9. Intrinsic goals include learning more knowledge, meeting more people, using interesting knowledge, meeting interesting people, and making myself more interesting. This may be my What I want to do most right now. Yesterday, a book friend mentioned why some people have studied a lot and read a lot of books, but still cannot bring wealth. In fact, there is no direct connection between wealth and knowledge. Maybe he has a subconscious resistance to wealth. , or he simply doesn’t understand how to face wealth. Knowledge itself cannot actually bring wealth. Knowledge can only bring action, and action cannot bring wealth. Only the results of actions can bring you wealth. So since you have knowledge, you should use it and use it to bring you some results. Naturally, you will have the wealth you deserve.

Jue-Discovery

1. In "Russian China", sociologist Fei Xiaotong takes us to understand the real differences between China and foreign countries. Among them, the local flavor is the most powerful humanistic representative of our Chinese people from ancient times to the present. Mr. Fei let us know why our fathers like to use soil to grow things, and even like to smell the smell of soil. This also explains why we feel particularly relaxed every time we go home to the countryside during the holidays. Maybe this is the flavor of the country, the taste of home. Maybe this is the kind of feeling that the soil brings to us. Sense of happiness.

2. "Journey of a Lifetime", this book mainly talks about the legendary life of Robert Egger. As the CEO of Disney, his various experiences are worthy of our study, and some of the things that happened to him There is a reason for everything. As for how he became what he is today, it shows his strong sense of responsibility, patience, and insight. All great people are surrounded by the support of another group of great people. Iger also has a very good relationship with Steve Jobs. He mainly talked about his career experience, how he climbed from a TV station employee to such a high position step by step. With a talent like him in the history of movies, it is true that movies will not be too monotonous. He always has a lot of creativity and a very unique vision, so he can see the value and future form of Marvel. That’s why he was able to innovate desperately in the three major sectors of television, movies, and sports, and used his many ideas to create many miracles for us.

3. "The Wisdom of Wolves", where there are wolves, there are forests. This sentence is a famous saying in Russia, which reflects that wolves play a very important role in ecological balance. Different from some books about wolves that we have read before, this book not only talks about the cooperative spirit of wolves, but also talks about their living environment and habits. They mainly focus on family units and how they choose the alpha wolf. , the standard is not only physical strength, but also sufficient intelligence. There are usually two alpha wolves, and they mainly listen to the female wolf. This shows that they respect each other, especially women. The book also talks about how wolves compete, such as occupying territory, and that their good friends are crows, and they also cooperate with each other. Finally, we talked about the various relationships between wolves and humans. What impressed me most was the last question about the philosophy of wolves. The author said that when we encounter problems, we might as well think about what the wolf would do? (what wolf will do?), after thinking about it this way, we may be able to figure out a lot and solve some of the problems that tangle us.

4. The real book "The Stranger Effect" starts and ends with a story, and there are also many celebrity stories interspersed in the middle. The story can explain some concepts more clearly. Among them, the story about how Chamberlain was misled by Hitler is the most profound, and it is also the story that can best embody the core theme of the whole book. Sometimes meeting is not as good as being famous. If, like Churchill, you only read Their books are introduced to understand their stories, or to get to know them better.

But when we face him, it will actually be too misleading and there will be a lot of prejudice. At the same time, there are some loopholes in confronting prisoners with experts. The book talks about a lot of professional words. There will be expert loopholes in expert comments, and there will be some wrong matches, which will show short-sightedness and lead to stress reactions and so on. In fact, it is just to illustrate the need for objective evaluation between strangers and not to be misled by superficial factors.

5. "The Front and Side of Zeng Guofan". I have read "Zeng Guofan's Letters from Home" before and know that he has some very self-disciplined habits. After reading this book, I truly understood his detailed life experience. As one of the two half-perfect people in history, he is already very powerful, but his life experience is the most worth learning from, because he has mediocre qualifications and has experienced five difficulties in life. However, he has gained wisdom every time he learns. , every time he encounters failure, he can always sum up a method. He knows that failure is the best learning opportunity, and difficulties are also opportunities for learning. Next, he also talked about how he employed people in battles and how he maintained his health. He talked about his physical condition and life experiences in great detail, and finally summarized some of his seemingly clumsy, but actually smart, methods.

“Live like a beam of light and illuminate a group of people!” I promise to become a lifelong learner, and my check-in will begin on August 31, 2020