1. Put others before yourself. ——"Book of Rites"

2. Those who make friends with money will lose their friendship when their wealth is exhausted; those who make friends with sex will become weak and love you.

3. Give me a peach and repay me with a plum. 〖JY〗——"The Book of Songs"

4. The knowledge of poverty and lowliness should not be forgotten, and the wife of chaff should not go to court. ——"Book of the Later Han Dynasty·Song Hong" "Book of the Later Han Dynasty·Song Hong Biography"

5. When you live, you must choose your hometown, and when you travel, you must choose your scholars. ——"Xunzi"

6. Treat others with truth, even if they are sparse, they will be close; ——"Han Shi Wai Zhuan"

7. If you like the right way, righteous people will come, and if you like the evil way, evil people will come. ——Cheng Hao

8. Friends must help each other in times of adversity, only then can it be called true friendship. ——English Shakespeare

9. Human life is inseparable from friendship, but it is not easy to obtain true friendship; friendship requires loyalty to sow seeds, enthusiasm to water, principles to cultivate, and understanding to cultivate. care. ——Marx

10. One of the peculiar functions of friendship is: if you tell one friend about your happiness, you will get two pieces of happiness; if you pour out your sorrow to half of your friends, you will get one piece. sad. ——Bacon

High Mountains and Flowing Waters

In the Spring and Autumn Period, there was an outstanding musician Boya. He was so good at playing the harp that it was said that even the grazing horses would raise their heads to listen when he played the harp. At that time, Zhong Ziqi was the person who understood Boya's qin skills best. Boya used the piano to express his feelings about the mountains. Zhong Ziqi heard it and said, "It's so good. Emei is as tall as Mount Tai." When he used the sound of the piano to express the mood of flowing water, he said, "It's so good. It's as vast as a river." Later, Zhong Ziqi heard it. When Qi died of illness, Boya was so distraught that he broke the qin, broke the strings, and vowed never to play the qin again.

The friendship between Guan and Bao

In the Spring and Autumn Period, Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya of Qi State were good friends, but they each did their own thing. Later, Xiaobai, the young master whom Bao Shuya served, was appointed as Duke Huan of Qi. However, Bao Shuya recommended Guan Zhong as prime minister to Duke Huan of Qi, and he was willing to serve under him. With the assistance of Guan Zhong, the state of Qi became increasingly powerful, and eventually became the overlord of "nine points of princes, one rule of the world". After his success, Guan Zhong said with emotion: "My parents are the one who gave birth to me, and Bao Zi is the one who knows me."

Guan Ning cuts off the throne

During the Eastern Han Dynasty, Guan Ning and Hua Xin People are classmates and friends. One day, the two of them were weeding in the garden together and found a piece of gold in the ground. Guan Ning regarded the gold as a tile and kept hoeing, while Hua Xin picked up the gold and put it aside. Once again, the two of them were studying at the same table, and a dignitary passed by in a car. Guan Ning was not disturbed and could study as usual, while Hua Xin went out to watch, filled with envy. Guan Ning saw that Hua Xin and he were not really like-minded friends. Then they divided the seats and sat down separately. From then on, Hua Xin was no longer a friend.

Friends are more important than the number one scholar

When Bai Minzhong, a politician and writer in the Tang Dynasty, was a young man, he was very good friends with the free-spoken He Ba. The two went to the capital to take the imperial examination together. . Wang Qi, the examiner at the time, admired Bai Minzhong's talents and wanted to make him the number one scholar, but was dissatisfied with his association with He. So he sent someone to bring a letter to Bai Minzhong. Bai Minzhong really wanted to pass the exam, so he rejected He's letter. However, he regretted it afterwards and ran out to chase He and told him what had happened. Then he said: "What's so great about being the number one scholar? Is it more important than friends?" The two of them said. So they drank happily. When Wang Qi found out, he admitted them both.

True and Fake Friends

Su Jun, a scholar of the Ming Dynasty, distinguished between true friends and false friends in "Cockcrow Occasionally". He pointed out that friends who strengthen each other morally and advise each other when they make mistakes are called "fearful friends". They can rely on each other for life and death, whether in daily life or in critical moments. Such friends can be called close friends; those who cater to others with sweet words and eat and drink Friends who talk about friendship through fun are called "close friends"; people who compete with each other for interests and fight against each other when encountering disaster are "friends who are thieves".

A close friendship

Zhang Taiyan, a famous modern writer and anti-Qing strategist, and Zou Rong, a famous patriot and author of "Revolutionary Army", are 16 years apart in age, but they have similar interests. People form friendships that last forever.

Zou Rong was persecuted during his anti-Qing rebellion in Japan and was forced to return to China. He visited Zhang Taiyan in Shanghai. The two hit it off and became close friends. Zhang Taiyan was arrested for inciting revolution, but Zou Rong took the initiative to surrender in order to take responsibility. After being persecuted to death, Zhang Taiyan built his tomb and personally wrote articles and carved stones to express his deep condolences to his deceased friend.

It is enough to have a confidant in life

Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai met in the spring and summer of 1932. They hit it off immediately and were very compatible with each other. From then on, they fought side by side to promote the revolutionary cultural movement and forged a profound friendship. During the white terror, Qu Qiubai took refuge in Lu Xun's home. Later, Lu Xun arranged a residence for Qu Qiubai and asked him to publish essays under the pen name of Bai Zhi. Lu Xun once personally inscribed the couplet written by Qu Qiubai "It is enough to have a confidant in life; this world should treat him with sympathy" and presented it to Qu Qiubai. After Qu Qiubai's death, he still insisted on compiling and printing "Forests Above the Sea" for his friends despite his illness, to express his deep condolences.

The most sacred thing

The famous Italian Renaissance writer Boccaccio believed: "Friendship is the most sacred thing, not only worthy of special admiration, but also worthy of eternal praise. . It is the mother of generosity and honor, the sister of affection and kindness, the sworn enemy of hatred and greed, and is always ready to sacrifice half of its life for others, entirely of its own free will.

The great German writers Goethe and Schiller were close friends. Although they were very different in age and temperament, they shared the same pursuit and love of literature. They were closely connected. When Schiller wrote the script of "Wilhelm Tell", Goethe provided all the relevant information he collected to Schiller, and Goethe also obtained the writing of "Wilhelm Meister". After Schiller's untimely death, Goethe wrote with great sadness: "I have lost a friend and at the same time half of my life. ”

The friendship between Marx and Engels

Since the two founders of Marxism, Marx and Engels, met in Paris in 1844, they were both international political leaders. They worked hard for the communist movement and forged a sincere and selfless friendship during the struggle. During the 40 years, they cooperated sincerely and maintained a high degree of consistency in their views on all major issues. They jointly wrote many classic works on scientific socialism. Even though they were separated in two places, they kept in touch, exchanged thoughts and feelings, and supported each other. Their friendship surpassed all ancients and became a good story in the history of the international communist movement

I would rather have a friend not be the number one scholar

Bai Minzhong, the prime minister during the reign of Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty, went to Chang'an to take the imperial examination with his friend He Basheng when he was young. He wanted to take Bai Minzhong, who was born in a noble family, as the number one scholar, but he didn't like He Bashen, who was born in poverty. So he sent someone to send a secret message to Bai Minzhong: As long as he didn't associate with He Bashen, he would be the number one scholar. After hearing this, Bai Minzhong said: "What's the point of being the number one scholar?" Qi Qi, you can’t live without friends no matter what! "After saying that, they held a banquet and drank happily with He Ba Shen.

Later, Wang Qi was moved by Bai Minzhong's character of valuing friendship over fame, so he married Bai Minzhong and He Bashen together.

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A blanket is affectionate

When the Xi'an Incident occurred in December 1936, Zhou Enlai shouldered the mission of the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China and went to Xi'an to negotiate with Zhang Xueliang, General Yang Hucheng and Chiang Kai-shek in custody. Before departure, Zhu De. The commander-in-chief gave Zhou Enlai a blanket that had been with him for many years to keep out the cold. This blanket was given to Zhu De by Dong Zhentang, the former Kuomintang uprising general.

After the outbreak of the Anti-Japanese War, Zhu De. The commander-in-chief went to the front line to command the battle, and Zhou Enlai gave this blanket back to Mr. Zhu.

A blanket that firmly binds the deep friendship between the two old revolutionary comrades.

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Although the famous physicist Einstein and the outstanding film artist Zhuo Belin only met once, they had a close heart and a deep friendship. Einstein always paid attention to each other. Outstanding achievement in Belin's performing arts.

He wrote in a letter to the distinguished Bellin: "Your film "The Gold Rush" is a work that everyone in the world understands and likes. You will definitely become a great figure." But at that time, Einstein proposed " "The Theory of Relativity" but few people understand it. Even some famous physicists did not acknowledge the great significance of the "theory of relativity" in the development of science. Instead, they ridiculed Einstein as a "madman" who spoke "crazy words". In response to this, the distinguished Bellin wrote in a letter to Einstein: "I admire you even more. No one in the world understands your theory of relativity, but you eventually became a great man."

11. There is nothing more beautiful and pleasant in the world than friendship; without friendship, the world seems to have lost the sun. ——Xissetu

12. Living with good people is like entering a house of Zhilan. If you don’t hear about it for a long time, you will be transformed into it. Living with unwholesome people is like entering an abalone house. You don't smell the smell for a long time, and you become transformed by it. ——Confucius

13. Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. ——Fu Xuan

14. Those who are friends with the upright will be prosperous, and those who are friends with the evil and the soft will be harmed. ——"Xue Zhiqinggong's Readings·Making Friends"

15. Make friends when things go well, and test them in adversity. ——Latin proverb

16. When making friends, keep your word. ——"The Analects of Confucius"

17. Trust a false friend and add a hostile witness. ——Spanish proverb

18. Those who say good things about me behind my back are my friends.

19. Friendship is the same soul inhabiting two bodies. ——Aristotle

20. Friends see friends as transparent, they exchange lives with each other. ——Romain Rolland

21. You may forget those who have laughed with you, but you will always remember those who have cried with you