Leave a gap in life. Excellent composition 1 As the saying goes, "Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind." In life, there are always too many people who think they are saturated and don't need to make progress. In the end, I can only stand still and be caught up by the people behind me. Leave a gap for yourself and leave some room for development. Only in this way can we make continuous progress.
Qi Baishi, a famous painter, once saw that one of his disciples painted very well, so he borrowed it from his disciples to copy. His disciples were very surprised. Qi Baishi said, "Although I am your teacher, you are not necessarily worse than me." Hearing this, his disciples were awed by the teacher's modest attitude.
Just like "A disciple is not necessarily a good teacher" in Teacher's Commentary, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, even great men have inevitable disadvantages. Like Qi Baishi, he doesn't feel superior or complacent because he is a famous painter. On the contrary, copying his disciples' paintings shows Qi Baishi's love for painting and his attitude of learning with an open mind, which is precisely the attitude of leaving a gap for himself.
During the Red Army's Long March, Zhu De wrote a poem praising the Red Army's spirit of not being afraid of hardship. After reading it, Chairman Mao pointed out several shortcomings in the poem. Upon hearing this, Zhu De humbly asked Chairman Mao for advice, hoping that he could help to revise it. After Chairman Mao changed it, he showed it to Zhu De. After seeing it, Zhu De praised it again and again, thinking that it had made great progress.
Commander-in-Chief Zhu De led the Red Army across 105,000 Li, but he remained modest, corrected his mistakes in time, asked for advice modestly, and improved his writing ability.
Similarly, Zhu De also has this modest attitude, leaving a gap for himself to constantly improve and perfect himself. No one is perfect, and no one can be truly perfect. Self-righteous behavior and attitude towards people will only make you retreat. Never think that you are saturated, so you will never make progress. Leave some space and gaps for your own development and let yourself learn new knowledge continuously. Why not?
Great men can learn with an open mind, let alone ordinary people. Taking other people's strengths to make up for their own shortcomings is not to leave a gap for yourself? In every learning process, leave yourself room for progress. Over time, you can make greater progress.
Leave a gap for yourself and a little room for progress.
Leave a gap in life. We often pursue perfection, which is of course a positive attitude towards life. However, in real life, the belief of perfection and happiness does not necessarily have a positive impact on us, but sometimes it will bind our feet and make success out of reach.
The so-called "water overflows when it is full, and it loses when it is full." Nature tells us this truth. If there is no gap in the soil, it will lose the brilliance of bearing life; If there is no gap in the mountain, it will lose the beauty of the deep valley; If the green leaves have no gaps, they will lose the change of mottled shadows. Looking around, there are cracks everywhere in the universe, lurking under every vitality and extending behind every beautiful scenery. The laws of nature inspire us to understand the philosophy of life.
Experienced carpenters will pay attention to leaving gaps when working, because with the impermanence of cold, hot, dry and wet, the shape of materials will change slightly, and small gaps can accommodate this change, so that the overall structure will not change. Master Gao Ming's genius lies in his ability to leave a gap just right. Similarly, when laying a railway, there are also small gaps between the rails, which provide safety guarantee for trains running in different seasons in severe winter and hot summer. Because of the gap, the rail will not be squeezed, shrunk or deformed due to the rise and fall of temperature.
Pay attention to the density of work, and work and study also require moderate Zhang Chi. There is a kind of person who always arranges his schedule full, works and studies hard, leaving no gaps, forgets to eat and sleep all day, eats and drinks, and does not know how to adjust and rest; There is another kind of person who pays attention to work or study as well as rest and relaxation every day. Moderate rest and relaxation ensure the efficiency of work and study, and you are energetic and clear-headed when you work or study. Therefore, the former group may achieve some success in the short term, but it will not last long; The latter kind of people can persistently keep in good condition, so they can often achieve greater success. The ancients said, "Relaxation once is the way of civil and military affairs." In fact, many people don't understand this truth, including many great scientists, writers and artists. They were brilliant but died young, and their poor health limited their career development. It can be seen that although the gap is small, it is difficult to understand and even more difficult.
Treating people is not perfect. First of all, leave a gap for yourself. We don't have to force ourselves to establish friendly relations with everyone. After all, "no common goal, no common goal." As long as you can smile at others, be kind and stay true to yourself. At the same time, leave a gap for others. We shouldn't ask too much of our friends. We should tolerate the shortcomings of others with a tolerant heart. "There is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple in people's view." The person who can leave a gap in life must be a wise and open-minded person, an easy-going and tolerant kind person.
Perfection is what we pursue, and the gap is what we need. In this way, our life will be beautiful and our success will no longer be out of reach.
Remember, the germination of successful seeds needs gaps.
Leave a gap in life. When I got up early in the morning and was still sleepy, my mother rushed over and asked me to take soybeans from the refrigerator to squeeze soy milk. I opened the refrigerator conveniently. As soon as I opened the door, the bag of beans that had not been put away suddenly fell down. I quickly reached for it. Hey, I obviously caught it. Why do I hear a drop of beans fall to the ground? It turns out there is a small hole under the bag. Looking down the sound, a naughty little soybean pounded on the ground and ran to the balcony. I hurried to catch up, but I could go to the balcony. Small soybeans have disappeared. I squatted down, looked left and right, and finally found this soybean playing hide-and-seek with me in a tiny gap. Look at that crack and reach for it? Too much trouble. Leave it alone and let it rot there. I stood up, shook my hair and took the remaining soybeans to my mother to squeeze soy milk.
Five days later, I walked to the balcony with a bucket of freshly washed clothes, and suddenly I found a thin and tender seedling sticking out of a gap in the balcony. What kind of plant is this? Growing up in this narrow crack! It's incredible. When I was amazed, my mind suddenly remembered the soybean that rolled into this crack five days ago. So, this seedling is the soybean that I thought would be moldy here! I'm surprised to think of this. How did a small soybean survive in this dark and humid corner? Is it difficult to live on the balcony with a little sunshine and dripping water from clothes? Can you produce such tiny buds? I squatted down and looked down. It looked so small, so weak, but so tenacious. A feeling of admiration arises spontaneously, spontaneously!
A humble soybean can still struggle for its own life, so as a higher organism, shouldn't human beings work harder and live a good life? What reason do we have to say that we are small and humble? What reason do we have to indulge ourselves and give up on ourselves? At the beginning of the school year, it was reported that a nine-year-old boy from a private primary school in Chang 'an was not used to the first transfer, so he was under great learning pressure and committed suicide by jumping off a building at home. This is disrespect for life! How painful! Think about it at ordinary times, we always give up lightly for some trivial things, and always find various excuses to excuse ourselves because of our own selfish desires. A person's life is not long or short, but no matter whether life is long or short, we should live well and devote ourselves wholeheartedly to life without regret.
From then on, whenever I encounter difficulties and get discouraged, I will think of life in the cracks. Every time I think of it, I will have the power to overcome difficulties!
Leave a gap in life. Everyone likes perfection and wants to have a perfect life. In fact, leaving a gap can sometimes achieve our higher goals in life.
Su Shi, a great writer in history, was very successful in his first half of life. The huge gap in life position has cut a huge gap in Su Shi's complete life, which has caused all kinds of hardships to flood in and made Su Shi encounter unprecedented difficulties. It was this gap that allowed the rain to seep in, washed Su Shi's soul, cleaned up all kinds of uneasiness in his heart, and made Su Shi reborn again, so that Su Shi could sing in the rain: bamboo sticks and straw sandals are lighter than horses, who is afraid that a rainy day is a lifetime! Let Su Shi be fearless and unhurried when disaster strikes. Perhaps this is a gift for Su Shi, leaving a gap in his perfect life and making his life more perfect.
Sima Qian, a famous historian. When he devoted himself to writing Historical Records, he defended Li Ling's adherence to justice, so he was punished inhumanely. It has to be said that it has caused great trauma to his mind and left a huge gap in his perfect life. If Sima Qian hesitates again in class, will his life be less miserable? If Sima Qian had no justice in the lobby, wouldn't it be immortal in the future? If Sima Qian didn't dare to fight for justice with the emperor in court, wouldn't he encounter so many storms in the future? But Sima Qian did it. He could argue with the emperor in the hall. The consequence is endless physical pain and mental torture, but Sima Qian was not defeated, because he saw his unfinished dream through that gap, his ambition was not realized, and his career was not completed. He was inspired by the deeds of the sages who rose up in adversity and made a difference. In prison, he endured humiliation and sharpened his mind. After he got out of prison, he worked hard, buried himself in writing, forgot to eat and sleep, and worked day and night, and finally wrote Historical Records. If Sima Qian didn't have that gap in his life, he might lack a great historian!
Zhou Wenwang was arrested and played Zhouyi; Zhong You wrote Spring and Autumn Annals; Qu Yuan's exile is a tribute to Li Sao. Zuo Qiu is blind and has "Mandarin"; The ruler of the revised version of Sun Tzu's Art of War; It's not Shu, but Lu Lan. Han Fei imprisoned Qin, expressing embarrassment, loneliness and anger; All these people have gaps in their lives. Therefore, we should leave a gap on the road of life and see our life clearly.
Leave a gap in life. Life is like a blank sheet of paper. Life is a brush to draw this piece of paper. There is a life experience between this drawing paper and the brush. Perhaps, we will draw this piece of paper with our hands to make the scenery on the paper dazzling, but we never thought that such a painting would make people's thinking expand without a trace, let alone achieve something. Therefore, in order to give the audience more room to think, we should leave a gap for ourselves.
Perhaps, in the eyes of many people, this gap is not very good. As everyone knows, in the eyes of the audience, it is this simple gap that makes their thinking expand endlessly. They let go of their ideas. They imagined the scenery and life on the other side of the gap. They are deeply attracted by this gap. Perhaps, they are thinking: what is on the other side of the mountain? Or a mountain?
Of course, there are countless examples in life. I once heard a story about a girl applying for a model in a small city in America. Because she has a big mole on her face, she is always eliminated by the company. They all advised her to get rid of the mole, and she almost wavered. However, in the end, she persisted. After many failures, she was finally hired by a boss. Because of the boss's employment, she gradually became famous in the art world. Later, because of the mole on her face, she became more outstanding and special. People didn't remember her name, but they remembered the mole on her face. People think that moles make her look more beautiful, so leaving a gap for ourselves will make our life more colorful.
In fact, why didn't we live like this? We often pursue superficial happiness, but forget to leave a gap for life. Woodworking should pay attention to density and adhesion when doing it. If it is sparse, it will easily come apart.
Ostrovsky once said: "If the rushing seawater doesn't touch the rocks, it will be difficult to stir up beautiful waves", yes! This is our life. If we leave a gap for ourselves and make our life more difficult and tempered, then our life will be more colorful.
I finally understand that being too plump and too happy is often counterproductive. If you leave a gap in it, it will be more attractive.
I always believe that leaving a gap for myself will give me a "scissors-like February spring breeze" spring; Will let me have an "endless lotus leaf" summer; Will let me have an autumn in which frost leaves are redder than February flowers; It will also let me have a winter that blows open the petals of ten thousand pear trees; Leaving a gap for myself will make me a broad-minded girl who refuses to live in a cold branch!
Leave a gap in life. 6 She, my God, is a trap of reality!
She is my front seat. She was honored to sit in front of me when the first year of high school started. With the passage of time and personnel changes, the people around her have changed one after another. Only she sticks to that position, stays calm and never gives up. Until next semester, I came to my class and was surprised to find this indisputable fact.
I tried to talk to her, but after several times, I gave up. Her words are just like her clothes-in winter, the clothes are wrapped tightly, and she always likes to wear a coat with a hat. From my point of view, the hat is like being tied tightly around her neck. Oh, my God! But this dress is the warmest and most comfortable hut in her eyes, because she told me coldly, "I'm just afraid of the cold."
However, her grades are very good and she can solve some incredible problems for us. Therefore, I still have to ask her "old man" from time to time, but whether to tell me or not depends on her mood. So you must ask her when she has just solved a difficult problem and is smiling. Sometimes she will say some "technical terms" that you don't quite understand. Before you know them, she will turn around and leave you a hat with a cold back and a bright neck.
One day, I was sad to see her "black eyebrows" locked, so I went to have a look. Oh, I was working on a problem and I couldn't work it out.
Quiet, quiet.
Suddenly, she looked up and said, "You, have you worked out this problem?"
"Well, then."
Her face was full of surprise: "How did you do it?"
"Several of us have discussed it."
"Oh-well, tell me about it." I pulled up a chair and sat down next to her-
Then I don't know how to do it. After a weekend, I returned to the campus. All the flowers in the garden are in full bloom, white and fragrant, which makes people relaxed and happy. Yes, spring has come.
When I walked into the classroom, I saw her at a glance. I came early as usual. But she took off her winter clothes and wore a sky-blue shirt without a hat, which set off her white face. "hey!" I went over to say hello and sat down behind her. There is a piece of paper on the desk with a few beautiful lines on it: I thought I could concentrate on my study by enclosing myself with a wall of iron and copper, but I found that it would only freeze me. When spring comes, I cut a door on that wall. I will open it from time to time, let sunshine and breeze in, warm me and caress me and my heart.
I slowly raised my head, looked at the fresh girl in front of me and smiled. The sunshine hits me like cotton wool, soft and warm. Is the sun shining through the gap in her door?
Leave a gap in life. If a leaf thinks too much and dreams about green leaves are dripping, how can it really harvest that thin shadow?
If a spring, dream for a long time, a long time about broad ambitions, how can there be a moon at that moment at sea.
Just like a person, how can he "package" himself too full and leave no gaps? Getting along with others is too firm and "full", how can you get a happy enjoyment and life?
When the moon is full, it will be lost, and when the water is full, it will overflow.
When you are alone with yourself, you should calm down and think about it. Is the goal he sets for himself and his life too full every day? Is it always like a tight bow with no breathing space? In this case, leave some space for yourself, leave some space for life, and let those beautiful evenings and bright mornings; Those blooming flowers and cheerful notes make you happy. In this way, you will not be exhausted every day, always in a hurry, and have no time to look at the sunny sky.
Only those who know "emptiness" will have real wealth. Those idle walks will not leave your life blank, but will add a quiet color.
When a person gets along with others, it is the same. You always fully show your enthusiasm with others, but it will bring unnecessary trouble and pressure to others.
Just like an oil painting is too strong. At first glance, these colors are very attractive. After reading it for a long time, I yearn for an artistic conception of ink painting, which is detached. The so-called "friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" is a very good philosophy. Keep a proper space when meeting people, leaving such a gap. You will find that the world has become more open, and there are fewer bumps and bumps between you and your friends that hurt your feelings.
Exquisite wood products are not closely linked, but are made like carpenters. Only by leaving a gap can we get more exquisite art ... knowing exquisite wood art, why not have a refined life?
Just do it like that. Blend slowly, leave a proper space for yourself, let your imagination fly, let the music dance with you, and make life delicious in your hands; Slowly adjust the gap between yourself and others, appreciate the rare mountains and rivers, and enjoy the happy and free mood of life.
Leave a gap in life. Excellent composition 8 is dense and well bonded. The sparse is sparse. These are the principles of carpentry. Simply put, it is necessary to pay attention to leaving some gaps appropriately. -
I think that leaving a gap can be applied not only to the working principle of carpenters, but also to our real life.
After the establishment of Christianity, the leader of Christianity, Jesus, preached everywhere and was regarded as a god by those believers. It seems that he is an out-of-touch immortal, and his only task is to publicize teachings and Christianity. But when people later learned that he was only the son of a carpenter, most of them dispersed in a hubbub. And people's faith in Christianity has become less loyal than before. Because there was no gap left, people's awe of Jesus disappeared. Therefore, people who originally believed in Christianity no longer adhered to their own religion.
Similarly, if two hedgehogs love each other regardless of their own conditions, but blindly want to get closer to appreciate each other, the result will be scarred by the thorns on each other. When this gap narrows, beauty disappears. Therefore, leaving a gap properly can sometimes not only protect yourself, but also protect the people you love from unnecessary harm.
Leonardo da vinci's Mona Lisa is still watched by people even after years of baptism. Guess. Look at her dignified and charming face. Guess the real reason for her charming smile.
Mona Lisa's smile is so charming, not only because it was written by Leonardo da Vinci, a master painter. Maybe it's because we left a gap in front of Mona Lisa's smile.
And this gap just caused us to speculate about her life experience and the real reason for her smile.
It can be seen that in some cases, if a gap is left properly, it will be dense and airtight. If you leave some gaps between anything and things, you will avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles and problems and get a lot of unexpected gains that you can't imagine.
So, my friend, please remember: please leave a gap at any time and leave a sufficient space for yourself and others!