Get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, and be neat inside and outside. According to my experience, all the first sentences in China ancient culture have profound significance, not just the beginning. For example, the first sentences of The Analects of Confucius, Laozi, Yijing, Mencius and The Book of Songs. After a special analysis, the meaning outside the literal is very profound. And sighed: "The first words of all sages in ancient and modern times have profound meaning. If you memorize and practice it, you will get real benefits in life. " I don't need to list them here, but I often think that children in China must understand their traditional culture and finish reading the books at the latest. If they can't do it, they should at least know their first sentence and profound meaning. The so-called "outline", "outline, everything goes well". It is inevitable to get tangible benefits, which must not be underestimated.
The first sentence here is about getting up early, followed by neatness. Did our parents tell us from an early age that they were afraid of our life? Since it is well-intentioned, I am afraid that everyone will regard it as a cliche and no longer pay attention. However, the content of the cliche is precisely the most important!
As the saying goes, "get up early with three lights, get up late with three panic." The primary school textbook says that Lu Xun carved the word "early" on the desk. If he is late, it will cause a lot of unnecessary trouble. "Zeng Xian Wen" said, "Be a monarch first, then a minister. Mo Daojun left early, and there were more early pedestrians. " Tell a joke, catch the bus and get a seat first, and then you will get a seat! Those who arrive later have no seats left. If there are no seats, they can only wait and stand. However, the people in office are not too early, and drivers and flight attendants are earlier. What do you mean? If you want to get a good seat, you have to hurry. Drivers and flight attendants have to be early if they want to do business well! In this competitive era, we are even more required to be early! That is, diligence. Korean entrepreneur Jin Yuzhong said in the book: "Statistics show that there are 250,000 senior talents in Korea every year, and another 250,000 people can't find jobs even after graduating from college." It is also difficult for Japanese college students to find jobs after graduation. The emergence of a large number of "kangaroo families" in France means that children can't leave their parents after graduating from college because they can't find a job. Therefore, in this competitive era, we should be diligent and early.
These are all engaged in theory. In theory, many people in ancient and modern times have profound discussions. Physiologically, Li Hongzhang's "Letter from Home" said: "The air is the best in the morning, and the bedroom is closed at night. Once the air is inhaled, the spirit will be refreshed and all diseases will be eliminated. " From the perspective of housekeeping, Zeng Guofan's letter said: "Starting from scratch is the fierce virtue of the whole family", "Running a family should be based on not starting from scratch", and "Being diligent in housekeeping, getting up early is the first expensive, followed by constancy". Seneca, a Roman philosopher, said that "our life is not short, but short life is made by ourselves", which means that if we don't cherish time, life will be artificially shortened, which is a pity! Jin Yuzhong said: "There are only 24 hours a day, which is equal to everyone. The difference lies in how to use time. " "Young people tend to forget the value of time because they are still young." "You can't idle away your time in pursuit of appearance."
Look at the practices of people at all times and at all times. "Zeng Guofan's Letter" said: "I am in the same strain as the sages. When I am right, I will always get up and will not change for 200 years. According to legend, my great-great grandfather got up early in the morning, so I got up before I met Mr. Jing Xi and Mr. Xing Gang, and sat for about an hour in the cold winter before I saw the morning. My father, Mr. Zhu Tinggong, also got up at dawn, but something happened and he didn't stay until dawn. " Get up early, get up at dawn, and don't cling to love after waking up. Li Zongwu, the originator of the Lara Sect, talked about his family in the book, and said that he was well-off at that time and could afford a lot of long-term jobs, but his father got up early every day, even in winter, after a pack of cigarettes, he didn't ask the long-term workers to get up until dawn. Li Hongzhang gets up at 6 o'clock every morning and writes 100 in small letters.
I saw with my own eyes that many people especially like to sleep so late. I hope you will consider the above words.
About neatness. How to understand? "Zeng Guofan's Letter" said: "Brothers are not easy to clean up, which is a bad atmosphere. If one generation is lazy and the second generation is promiscuous, the number of people who sleep and smoke opium at night will gradually increase. " See the big with the small, and prevent the micro-duration! You can't tell without foresight. )
When you are unconscious, you will rest. If you close the door, you will behave well. ("Zeng Guofan's Letter" said: "Don't go out at night-you are exhausted, quit!" After a day's work, in the evening, it is a good time to strengthen your study, recharge yourself and prepare for the challenge. Why go out to sing and dance to watch the rest day? The so-called entertainment is inevitable, irrelevant and avoidable. What is the most precious resource in a person's life? I know there are three. Time, health, knowledge. I can avoid things harmful to time, health and knowledge. Like smoking, drinking, playing mahjong, nightclubs. This is a waste of time, health and knowledge. So do many social gatherings. Chekhov said: "Even if you want an animal-like happiness, life will make you happy while drinking, and it will always hit you." Reasonable arrangement of one's spare time is a kind of life wisdom. It's hard to keep thinking about things when it's not easy to think. It is better to prepare for a rainy day than to dig a well when you are thirsty.
Self-help must be frugal, and banquet guests must not stay overnight. (drinking, it's almost over. Stop dawdling, it's endless. It should be noted that after drinking, it is extremely sad. If you don't get well after drinking to a certain height, some people, on the wine table, are at a mild level, delirious, delirious, vomit in confusion, get under the table, or even fall to their death for several days on the spot, or even reveal secrets on the spot or afterwards, or talk about it, or drink alcohol, or drink and drive, or fight, endangering social stability. So, what does it mean to be delicious? Not much, definitely not much. ) utensils are clean and tidy, and tiles are better than gold. A good diet is better than garden vegetables. Don't run fancy houses, don't seek fertile land. Love your children, you don't have to leave them a lot of property. If the child is not a tool, his property will encourage his evil virtue, and his property will be destroyed sooner or later. When a child becomes a tool, he will rise in adversity. How many dudes are there in ancient and modern times? It is ok to leave some necessary savings. Then, if not all the property is left to future generations, how to arrange the rest? Pay. Just like Mr. Nan Lao's feelings that "the works belong to heaven and earth, and the gardens make way for future generations". Is it stupid? Otherwise. Wealth is really not taken away when you die. It is a common psychology to be willing to leave your property to your children and grandchildren so that they can live a better life. Then think about it, aren't other people's children and grandchildren just children and grandchildren? My children and grandchildren are well-fed, but there are still some dropouts in border areas who will not know how to acquire the necessary knowledge and skills to make a living! Qiong Yao's new work Princess Zhu Huan and its sequel are popular all over the country. Qiong Yao claimed that her creative purpose was to love her parents and children, and also to love other people's parents and children. She said: "In Princess Pearl, I put great emphasis on the idea of' not only kissing, but also being an only child', so that people can love not only their parents and children, but also other people's parents and children, and everyone in this society. This is the theme of Princess Pearl. I think people nowadays are too alienated, it is selfish for individuals to live their own lives, but there are still many people around us who deserve our concern, so I think it is a good thing to summon this human potential. I have always hoped that everyone can' turn hostilities into friendship', and I always feel that I should advocate a word' love' ... "This is compassion! The world is a world where all beings coexist and prosper together. When the spring breeze blows on your face, a flower can't dress up the whole spring, and a hundred flowers are all loves. A drop of water will never dry up until it is thrown into the sea. Is Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, not stupid? He publicly stated that only $6,543,800+was left to each child after his death, and the rest was returned to society. )
Three aunts and six wives are the media of prostitution and theft. A beautiful girl and a concubine are not the blessings of the boudoir. Servants should not be handsome, and wives should not wear heavy makeup. Although our ancestors are far away, we can't sincerely sacrifice. Although our descendants are stupid, they must read the classics. The life cycle is simple, and the godson should have an upright side. Don't covet unexpected wealth and drink too much.
Trade with your shoulders, don't take advantage; When you meet poor neighbors, you must be more considerate. If you are stingy and married, you won't enjoy it for long. Right away, from ruin. (this is honest. Li Hongzhang has a saying: "If you are exhausted, there will be a spring in your chest." A generation of famous ministers are still like this, and they must be loyal and humiliated. ) Brothers and uncles should be generous. Young and old, both inside and outside, should be strictly disciplined. Listen to the woman say, dear flesh and blood, is it a husband? If you value wealth and ignore your parents, you can't be the son of human beings. Choose a husband when you marry your daughter, and don't ask for re-employment. If you marry a daughter-in-law, you should ask a lady, regardless of thickness. Find a partner and don't be too greedy for money. )
It is most shameful to be ashamed of being rich and most shameful to be proud of being poor. If you quit fighting at home, the lawsuit will be fierce; Don't talk too much in life, you will suffer. ("Zeng Guofan's Letter" said: "The way to observe people: virtue without bureaucracy, many words without words." People who preach are not necessarily self-attested. People are second-hand, so we should talk less and do more, and serve the people in a down-to-earth manner. ) Don't bully widows, don't kill birds.
If you are partial, you will regret many mistakes. Being lazy will lead to happiness, and it will be difficult for families to succeed. If you show kindness to a young man, you will get bored for a long time. Listen carefully and think patiently. If you are arguing about something, you must calm down and think about it.
Don't forget to give help, but don't forget to accept it. Leave room for everything and be proud of it. People should not be jealous when they are happy. People should not be happy in trouble. If you want others to see you, you shouldn't behave well. If you are afraid of being known, it is a great evil. Seeing the color will make you addicted and report it to your wife and daughter.
The family is happy, although awkward, but still full of joy. The Chinese studies class ended in the morning, but there was nothing left. I was very happy. Reading is aimed at sages, serving officials and serving the country. Keep quiet and listen to the weather forecast. (a) "Zeng Guofan letter":
"Man proposes, God disposes; Merit is in the minister and happiness is in the country. "
"Fortune is God's, good and evil are human, and there is nothing God can do. Those who belong to people can count as one point and one day. " This is not idealism, but an admission that there is an unknown variable, which is called "heaven". It is equivalent to the function y=f(x)+k, which is more complicated. Another example is "Celebrity Collection": "Convenient for others, convenient for yourself. But doing good deeds will bring the future to Mo Wen. " .
Second, Tang Wang Bo's "Teng Xu":
"ah! Bad luck, ill-fated Feng Tang is easy to get old, and Li Guang is hard to seal.
Qu Jiayi is in Changsha, not without a master;
It's time to escape to the sonority of Haiqu.
It depends on a gentleman's poverty and his talent for understanding life.
When you are old and strong, would you rather be moved?
Poverty is strong, not falling into the sky.
I feel that Chanquan is very cool, but I am still very happy after doing it.
Although Beihai is on credit, it can be accepted; The cold corner has gone, and the mulberry is not late.
Meng's taste is noble and pure, and he has an empty heart to serve the country;
You can't cry to the end of the road if you are crazy! If you do this, you will be very close.