2. The expression of love is not necessarily expensive or time-consuming. After living together for a long time, the expression of love may become some trivial living habits. For example, make a cup of hot tea for your lover, tuck your lover in, and play a joke on your lover. Of course, the tea may be too hot, the quilt corner may not be necessary, and the joke may be a little vulgar. However, don't refuse. Because what you refuse is not an action, but love.
3. In this world, there are many kinds of love. It doesn't exist, but we can't feel it. Don't doubt anything until you are sure, sometimes it will hurt others, and more often it will hurt yourself. Don't be stingy with your love, open your mind and give more, and you will find yourself bathed in love.
4. Collect wonderful life: you will be more free and easy if you have a free heart; With a normal heart, you will be more calm; Have a compassion, you will be kinder; With a grateful heart, you will be more satisfied; With a causal heart, you will be wiser; Have a tolerant heart, you will be happier; With a detached heart, you will be more indifferent; With a simple heart, you will be purer; With an inclusive heart, you will be more open-minded; Always look at yourself and you will be wiser; The contented are happier.
5. You want to feel safe, so love your lover desperately, work hard and make money hard. However, the more you do, the more tired you get. Foreign things make you satisfied, but it is difficult to make you feel at ease. The real sense of security comes from the inner strength and the destination that can make you stop. When you are tired, you know that someone is always waiting for you at home. No matter what time, the lights are on, and your heart warms up unconsciously.
6. Learn one person before you can find another. But learning a person is often forced. I learned a person because I lost someone. Such a person takes everything lightly. Even some of them are indifferent, there is nothing to say, that's all. Such a person is simple, does not need too much satisfaction, just works hard, and there is nothing to be sad about.
7. You can hardly be happy in the noisy urban jungle. At this time, you might as well take time to take a trip to the country. Take a breath of fresh air, smell the fragrance of the earth, look at the green land and listen to the sonata of nature? Cicadas, birds and streams? You will feel different.
8. Happiness is to look down on worldly material worries, instead of seeking glory and profit. If you like martial arts novels, you don't have to live up to a dream of red mansions; If the person you like suddenly disappears, you don't have to make a desperate attempt to assert that he must leave freely; If your friend is unlucky, you don't need to complain; If you think Maggie Cheung is gorgeous and beautiful, you don't have to be greedy and abuse your wife. If you are physically and mentally ill, then go to church to confess, there is no need to hate others' mediocrity; Face your heart calmly, and happiness is in your heart.
9, an inch of emotion, a miss, in the lonely world, who has brewed Acacia painstakingly, and made it a thousand-year treasure, watched for a thousand years, and kept it warm and clear in autumn, who kept it in a circle with a foolish look, like a water-filled year, and who held his miss in his palm!
1. A supercilious attitude can sometimes be a prerequisite for your success. Don't be humble in front of people who are stronger than yourself, and don't be arrogant in front of people who are weaker than yourself. You will win a chip for your success. For the sake of one's personal dignity, one must strive for it according to reason, no matter whether the other party is strong or weak, because a person who dares to maintain his self-esteem will give people respect. While maintaining your dignity, you will be pleasantly surprised to find that sometimes opportunities for success will come along.
11. A person always looks up to and envies the happiness of others, only to find that he is being looked up to and envied by others. In fact, everyone is happy. However, your happiness is often seen by others. The mountain of happiness has no top and no head. You should learn to stop and go, see Shan Lan, admire rainbows and blow the breeze, so that your mind can be satisfied with life when you relax.
12. I understand your profiteering, but I really can't accept your way of life. Can material satisfaction really outweigh spiritual pleasure by sacrificing feelings for so-called interests? I don't think my education is out of date, and I don't think the heroes we once worshipped are out of date and become us instead of them.
13. Greed is a stubborn disease, and people can easily become its slaves and become more and more greedy. People's desires are endless, and when they get a lot, they still expect more. Greed is the root of all evil. Greed can make people forget everything, even their own personality. Greed makes people lose their minds and act foolishly. Therefore, the attitude we should really adopt is: stay away from greed, enough is enough, and those who are satisfied will always be happy.
14. Being content, not knowing enough, and not being satisfied is easy to say, but difficult to do. We need to understand it with our heart, grasp it with our wisdom, and practice it with our actions. If a person can put himself in the position of being satisfied, ignorant and unsatisfied, his life will be more exciting and beautiful, and his career will be smoother and more brilliant.
15, life is like a journey, a contented person? Can you be calm and quiet, touch green mountains and green hills, and look at the sky? . They usually stick to it? The distance starts from the near, and the big things start from the small things? , usually? Be an honest man and work hard? , don't admire vanity, don't pursue fame and fortune, When you are out of the water, your body and mind are at ease; Can you explore the fun of Gankun and know the articles of heaven and earth? , end up? Clean hands, relaxed, carefree, no regrets? .
16. If you don't blindly compare with others, you will be carefree. If you don't set too high a goal in life, you will always be happy. If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain. If you don't always demand yourself, you will live freely. If you don't always find fault, you will be relaxed. If you live too tired, you will be miserable and content!
17. People should be contented and always be happy, and nothing should be complicated. If the mental load is heavy, they will blame God and worry about others. If you are simple, the world will be simple for you. A simple life can lead to a happy life. Delete the memory once regularly, and discard the unpleasant people and things from the memory. Formatting yourself is to delete you. Zhang Ailing said: Because I have loved, I am compassionate; Because you know, you are tolerant.
18. Silence is a virtue, but silence in front of your lover is cowardice. If you really like someone and want to give her happiness with your own hands! If you really like a person, please put down your noble face and like that a person is innocent. It's really nothing to lose face. Why do you have to die for shame? If you really like someone, say it out loud! Come on!
19、? Practice is the only criterion for testing truth. The development of human society has never been a straight line, and there will be contradictions at any stage. . But people should not only understand society from their own interests, but should learn? Be content with what you are, and be patient with yourself? ，? Plain is true? , let yourself live calmly, in? Slow life? Feel at ease and make others feel safe and full because of you.
2. I understand your profiteering, but I really can't accept your way of life. Can material satisfaction really outweigh spiritual pleasure by sacrificing feelings for so-called interests? I don't think my education is out of date, and I don't think the heroes we once worshipped are out of date and become us instead of them. ? "Beijing Love Story"
21. A person's mind is also like a person's eyes. All eyes are searching for the world. The eyes searching for the world are not afraid of strangeness, but they are afraid of emptiness. If a person can't search for the place of friendship, he is likely to be hostile to all people. If the search can't find a sincere place, he is likely to doubt the whole world.
22. Satisfaction is the choice after persistent pursuit. Satisfaction is not synonymous with being content with the status quo and stopping, nor is it an excuse for not making progress and being depressed. Think about it carefully, satisfaction is not another kind of wisdom flash, the realm of life.
23. The * * in the distance is very beautiful, and the things in the vicinity are too strange. However, many things that we can't get with all our efforts are just hidden in these wonders. Only when we look under our feet will we find the diamond with strange light.
24, whenever and wherever, I will learn to feel happiness. Go to work instead of making money; To love, first forget all the bad things that others do to you; Go dancing regardless of whether others pay attention to it; Sing without thinking about whether it is very beautiful; To live is like a paradise in this world. If I want to do this, I will be happier than living in a real paradise.
25. We don't know how many hardships and frustrations we will encounter in our life, as well as all kinds of bad luck and misfortune. Just because of the hope that burns like a flame in our hearts, we are unwilling to be swallowed up by the immediate difficulties, and we dare not be happy with the temporary setbacks, which binds us to move forward.
26. The key for people to get happiness is to have an optimistic attitude, and contentment is a fundamental requirement of contemporary people and contemporary society. In life, people always think about what they don't have and ignore what they already have. Often have more than the actual expectations of society and leaders, once they are not satisfied, they will be full of complaints, and they will be resentful when they see that others are powerful, get high salaries, drive luxury cars and live in luxury houses.
27. She looks forward to having her own future, but she is afraid of breaking away from the past. She dreams of having a man, but she doesn't want to be hunted by him. After every fear, there is a dormant desire. Conquest makes her afraid, but she is looking forward to passivity. She is therefore doomed to be false, and there are countless excuses. She is destined to be tortured by all kinds of negative emotions intertwined with anxiety and desire
28. Contentment means being satisfied with the life or desire she has already got, not being jealous of those who are stronger than herself, not being proud of those who are weaker than herself, and doing their best to help those in need; Contentment is not to be content with the status quo, but to fully cherish the existing gains, fully enjoy the current achievements, and fully tap the existing potential, providing a platform for future innovation and progress. Rational progress should be based on the mentality of contentment.
29, they are very satisfied, because with their own hands, dripping their own sweat, go their own way, even if there is no halo on their heads, their hearts are full of sunshine. It is precisely because of this open-mindedness that countless talents were born and wrote a beautiful movement.
3. Knowing how to refuse is an ability and a skill. Rejection sends a signal to the world that you know how to express your views correctly. You have your own needs, expectations and priorities; At the same time, we also attach importance to and respect the needs of others. You know not only how to satisfy yourself, but also how to make others happy.
31. Patience is the accumulation of willpower and explosive power. We use silent struggle to break the net and melt the hard ice with invisible flame. Work hard in patience, and then struggle in patience. Learn to endure, learn to persevere in the pursuit of patience, and understand life more deeply in patience. ? Genius is nothing more than long-term patience! Work hard. ? Mo Bosang lost Flaubert's words and eventually became a superstar in the world literary world.
32, content? The boundary of a person's desire is not a bottomless pit, nor is it anything? The lion opens his mouth? Instead, while meeting their own needs, they stopped their desires, made steady progress, and kept themselves sane. Everyone's desire has a certain limit, although it is also their own inferiority, but it will not extend to the spiritual world indefinitely, even that kind? Greedy snake swallows elephant? The moth group will not be reckless forever, eventually? Doing justice for heaven? The moment. And? Moths? Also with their own greed buried deep in the dark abyss,? Never turn over? . In contrast, the result seems too clear, but it is this that shows a kind of spiritual beauty: contentment is always a pleasure.
33. Help others when you have a good time; Be content when you live a normal life; Learn to enjoy yourself in times of adversity. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes, because it's not worth it; Don't punish others with your own mistakes, because when you hurt others, you will be hurt again; Don't punish yourself with your own mistakes. It doesn't matter if you make mistakes, just find out the reasons carefully, learn from them and change them!
34. Life is about living happily. Learn to be content, and don't always suffer for loss, because loss is another kind of possession. Smart people know how to give up, true people know how to sacrifice, and happy people know how to be detached. Being content with giving up and sticking to a quiet life is the value of life. ? Nothing in the world, much ado about nothing? , to take up, but also to put down. Delete yesterday's unhappiness, refresh today's mood, and the coming will come naturally.
35. It is the precipitation of wisdom, the philosophy of life, and the light that cannot be concealed. Even if the sky does not leave my trace, I am already satisfied, because I really flew! Enjoy the sunshine, rain and dew in your life and enjoy everything you have. As long as you learn to be satisfied, Facing the sea, spring blossoms? !
36. Love is a lamp that illuminates the distance in the dark; Love is a poem that warms the longing heart in the cold; Love is the wind in summer, the sun in winter, the rain in spring and the fruit in autumn. No one can measure the length of the road under the feet of love, and no one can test the depth of the sea in love. Only time and its eyes can keep watching behind and in front of love. Clear the footprint of love, follow the loved ones, and record the story of love.
37. Happiness is to look down on worldly material desires and troubles, and not to be greedy for profits. If you like martial arts novels, you don't have to live up to a dream of red mansions; If the person you like suddenly disappears, you don't have to make a desperate attempt to assert that he must leave freely; If your friend is unlucky, you don't need to complain; If you think Maggie Cheung is gorgeous and beautiful, you don't have to be greedy and abuse your wife. If you are physically and mentally ill, then go to church to confess, there is no need to hate others' mediocrity; Face your heart calmly, and happiness is in your heart.
38. Love does not exist at this moment, but in memory and expectation. A one-way road is usually also a return road. You can't ask for anything, but you can desire something. This is true freedom. This kind of love needs no return, it answers itself and satisfies itself.
39, there is always a bright morning, there is always a gorgeous dusk, and there is always a meteor night; Don't forget what you once owned, but cherish what you have got; Don't give up what belongs to you, leave what you have lost as a memory, and work hard to get what you want; When you are tired, put your heart on the shore. When you are bitter, you will know how to be satisfied. When you are hurt, you will enjoy life. When you are hurt, you will know how to be strong.
4. People should be content when they are alive. Only when they know that they are satisfied can they be happy. People's desires are not satisfied, so as long as you are willing to pursue them, it will definitely make you feel sorry until you die.