1. I increasingly accept the view that systems are important, but culture is the most effective factor in reducing system implementation costs.
2. I find it incredible how irrational, stubborn, and selfish people can be. What is deeper and unfathomable than the sea is the sky. What is deeper and unfathomable than the sky is the human soul.
3. Don’t let some collective will or emotion blind you. You are freer than you think.
4. Some people are destined to be cancer in your life, while some people are just a sneeze.
5. Those who have nothing to do with you just have nothing to do with them, even if they smile sweetly, even if they have insignificant interactions, even if you work hard to manage this relationship. Those who are related to you are related to you, even if you have only met three times, even if you have only known each other for three years, even if you can't remember his appearance, even if you are thousands of miles apart.
6. It would be wonderful to have a close friend in your life, but you can’t find it but you can’t ask for it. Really, maybe you can neither meet nor ask for it. The only thing you can ask for is yourself. You have to lean down and Stretch out your hand toward yourself deep in the darkness.
7. Maybe everyone needs a fog to blur life, to blur the simple to cruel life of eating, drinking and sleeping, so that we can be a little curious about the future, although the future is destined to be empty. , but outside this hollow, there are so many boxes, layer by layer, layer by layer. It takes us a lifetime to dismantle and dismantle them.
8. My lifelong ideal is to find a tall and big boy. He can be so handsome, and I can be so casual. Then as time goes by, we hold hands and spend our time together. getting older.
9. Greater freedom means greater responsibility.
10. Anthropology is a science that observes humans from the perspective of monkeys.
11. I think the essence of the university spirit is not to make us profound, but to restore human innocence. Only naive people will endlessly ask questions about the truth of this world. What universities want to cultivate is this spirit of questioning, which is the nerdy spirit that mature people dismiss.
12. Hard work often fails those who are willing to work; it should not be that important whether hard work fails or fails those who work hard. The value of hard work cannot be measured by whether it pays off or fails.
13. I imagine falling in love with someone is like being struck by lightning when you go out. Although the probability is very small, there is nothing you can do. It just happens, you get set on fire and you turn into a pile of ash.
14. Everything can be started over, except youth. So many things are beautiful if they are tied to youth, but they are foolish if they are separated from youth.
15. If you want to define a good life, it is comfort. If you want to give a definition of comfort, it would be three or five close friends, talking and laughing happily.
16. It turns out that the best cure for cynicism is to keep looking in the mirror.
17. The more a person possesses, the more he is possessed.
18. When you are young, you don’t know how high the sky is, you think the earth is on your feet, and you have a sense of justice armed with hormones. When these things get mixed up, people get fucked up. And the most damning thing about this is the flattery complex and herd mentality hidden in the seemingly rebellious spirit.
19. Some people are destined to be cancer in your life, while some people are just a sneeze. All this is said to be due to some mysterious fate.
20. Many times, impulse is a kind of pleasure, and other times, staying away is a kind of conduct.
21. Every human identity is a kind of self-kidnapping, and only loss is the way to freedom.
22. Under the cover of youth, decadence is courage, laziness is resistance, and emptiness is sexy.
23. After the thick fog of youth clears, the wasteland of time is exposed.
24. Since when did learning become a compulsive disorder in modern life? Everyone is rushing to see the emergency room. Our relationship with society is much like the relationship between an insecure woman and a charming husband.
25. As soon as the music started, I burst into tears, as if relatives I hadn’t seen for many years were reunited after separation. My whole youth swayed with his singing like a wheat field, golden.
26. Love is an ability rather than an encounter.
27. Adapting to loneliness is like adapting to a disability.
28. There is no boring life, only a boring attitude towards life.
29. How amazing are knowledgeable people, their brains are like spider webs, clinging to all the little insects of knowledge. And my brain is like a piece of watermelon rind, and all the knowledge slips away without a trace as soon as I step on it.
30. In front of the vast world, how humble a person is, how happy he will be.
31. For aspiring young people, it is simply obligatory to go crazy.
32. Sometimes, what people need is real despair.
True despair has nothing to do with pain and sorrow. It's calming, it's humbling, it makes you go back to your own heart. Despair is not discouragement, it is just a pragmatic attitude of giving fate to fate, and oneself to oneself. That is, it is freedom.
33. Happiness is actually much simpler than we think. The problem is that if we don’t explore and experience all the complex misfortunes, and don’t take all the falls that need to be made, we don’t take them. After climbing all the mountains, we can't believe that there is happiness under the palm-sized tree shade at the foot of the mountain.
34. A person is like a team, recruiting troops in his own mind and heart. He is not discouraged, has a calling, and loves freedom.
35. You are not young anymore, just do what you have to do, don’t plunge into that beautiful sadness, trying your best to get in while shouting for help...
36 . I am not actually withdrawn, I can almost be said to be cheerful and lively, but most of the time I am too lazy to manage a relationship. There are also other times where I just love freedom and feel that any kind of relationship will constrain me. Of course, the most important thing is that it is difficult to find a close friend. I always feel that when interacting with most people, I can only bring out one dimension of myself, and it is difficult to find someone with the same endless interests as myself.
37. When I was young, I thought being alone was cool. When I grow up, I feel lonely is a very desolate thing. Now, I feel lonely is not a thing. At least, try not to make it a thing.
38. When a good thing comes too late, it becomes a bad thing.
39. Chance is cruel, but the beauty of chance lies in its uniqueness. Things that can be copied infinitely are not beautiful, things that can be copied infinitely are not precious, and things that can be copied infinitely are just industrial assembly lines.
40. Encounter is a miracle. Let the encounter interpret a beautiful story, which is the square of the miracle.
41. The total amount of a person's feelings is limited. If you use it up piecemeal, your account will be empty by the time you need to spend a large amount of money. Although there may be an interchangeability between the depth of love and the breadth of love, I always feel that true love is an experience of depth rather than quantity.
42. Pain is a very magical thing. It turns blurry things into clarity. Turn dull things into sharp points. It is through being hurt that the feeling of love becomes clear and sharp. Presence is always associated with pain, and safety is always next to numbness.
43. Only those who are strong enough will have the courage to be vulnerable.
44. Sometimes, what people need is real despair. True despair has nothing to do with pain and sorrow. It's calming and makes you realize that you can't rely on others, anyone, to be happy. It makes you humble, because everything others can bring to you becomes a surprise.
45. After seeing through everything, I feel that many of people’s pursuits are nothing but guilty conscience. Seeing everything through is nothing but intellectual vanity, and it also hurts one's interest in living.
46. In a small circle, although we can keep each other warm, the result is that everyone sits together in a well and looks at the sky. The warmer it is, the more we feel that the sky above the well is the whole world.
47. The only criterion for testing friendship is whether two people can get together to say bad things about others.
48. Knowledge is just information, but wisdom is insight.
49. People praise the bravery and rebellion of young people, but the reality on the other side is that young people often pursue individuality by hiding in the group, and show rebellion by charging into battle for the dictator. Their courage Behind it is often selective silence.
50. I don’t care whether other people’s opinions are consistent with mine, or even whether other people’s opinions are stupid. I care whether other people’s opinions are the result of independent thinking.
51. Being too pessimistic is often the consequence of being too optimistic. Only when you expect to be able to solve a problem once and for all and solve a problem quickly, you are particularly likely to fall into pessimism because you find that you cannot do this.
52. Any idea with the suffix of doctrine becomes terrifying.
53. The more essential conflict in reality does not come from courage and cowardice, but from the courage to resist and the courage to endure. It takes as much courage to reject a utopia as it does to pursue it.
54. If you look at how much unnecessary waste you have, you can understand why politics tends to become bureaucratic.
55. What’s the point of getting the doll you loved when you were 5 when you were 15, and finally having money to buy the dress you loved when you were 25 when you were 65?
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56. Anything taken to the extreme looks like wisdom.
57. I imagine that a true poet should be able to reach reconciliation with the world through the mystery of words. Not necessarily the kind of reconciliation that is accepted, but the kind of reconciliation that accepts what is not accepted.
58. Why is the problem of courage always mistaken for a problem of time, while those who are heavy, depressed, and have no choice are always called life itself.
59. There is such a long list in the human heart. How many beautiful things are written in these lists, but they are always postponed, shelved, and rot in the attic of time.
60. Women always confuse physical intimacy with spiritual intimacy. To make matters worse, women often confuse love with possessiveness.
61. The Bible, textual research, the resurrection of Christ, ancient civilizations, churches, and hymns cannot refute this small fact: God created mice. The fact that God created mice is like fingerprints in a perfect murder.
62. Dignity is actually inversely proportional to desire. If you want something, you will become humble and shameless. But when you are indifferent to the person in front of you, dignity will It will rise up in your heart.
63. Youth is a touch in a dream. You wake up in its warmth, but you don’t know where it is going.
64. The magic of freedom does not lie in how many scourges it will bring, but in that after these scourges appear, you find that it is actually nothing more than that. What else? Nothing more.
65. I think the essence of the university spirit is not to make us profound, but to restore human innocence. Only naive people will endlessly ask questions about the truth of this world.
66. When history becomes like a destiny, politics also moves from realism to impressionism.
67. We have said from the bottom up that material determines the superstructure, but perhaps historical materialism occasionally gets distracted, and the material base will be abducted by the superstructure.
68. The so-called self-destruction does not lie in the depletion of intelligence, imagination and courage, but in the fact that the person concerned no longer intends to cover up this depletion. The highest expression of self-abasement is not depletion or not concealing it, but sublimating this depletion through collective embrace, praising this depletion, and worshiping this depletion.
69. Revaluation does not necessarily mean denial. Revaluation means examining and questioning, and recovering one’s own mind from tradition, authority, prejudice, classics, collectives, and others. , ask why for every creed given to you.
70. Only when a person can face his own weakness can he truly learn humility and tolerance.
71. Imagination of extreme situations is a shortcut to understanding the world and yourself, while peaceful times only obscure human nature. Good people cannot appear good, and bad people cannot appear bad.
72. History, as we know, is capricious and ruthless.
73. Everyone is innocent, and innocent people meet in sin.
74. Feeling that the pain of an out-of-reach person is related to you, is this a kind of sentimentality or a sincere sense of responsibility?
75. If in life Just in a blink of an eye, what is youth? What can happen has already happened, and what has not happened yet will never happen. Youth is so short, youth is so long. It is a touch in a dream. You wake up in its warmth, but you don't know where it is going.
76. I think the reason why there are so many people who are always busy getting love, losing love, complaining and nagging about love is that in addition to the great chemical reaction, the cost of love is very small and the entry threshold is very low. drama.
77. The great thing about love is that it can cover the void of a person’s existence. The small thing about love is that it can only cover the void. Love is just counterfeit currency when it comes to solving your own sense of insignificance.
78. Many times, you think what you do is out of love, but in fact it is not love enough. Other times, you are busy loving human beings vigorously, but you forget to love everyone around you.